Emhlabeni womuntu omncane, amaqiniso angenakuphikwa ahlale akhiwa njalo, ukubhujiswa kwawo okuholela ekucindezelekeni, ukwenqatshwa kanye nokulimala kwengqondo. Ukuqwashisa kunzima kakhulu engqondweni engavuthiwe abazali abakhiqiziweyo. Ihhovisi lokuhlela 24CMI lilungiselele ukwaziswa ngendlela yokwazisa ingane ngokuchithwa okulandelayo komshado.
Kufanele noma a kufanele
Ubudlelwano babadala nezingane kuyo yonke impilo yabo buhlolwe amandla. Phakathi kwezizathu zokwahlukaniswa kwemibhangqwana, okumnandi kakhulu akulindelekile, ukuvukela umbuso, izinkinga zasendlini, ukuntuleka kokuyekethisa nokuba ubuqotho, ubunzima bezezimali. Ngamanye amagama, isinqumo ngokuqhuma kwenziwa ngesisekelo sezimpikiswano ezinhle.Uma abazali benkambiso bengxabano bathi bahlukanise isehlukaniso, bakhuluma ngalokhu, futhi ngakusasa, ingane isesimweni esinjalo egunyeni lemizwelo ephikisanayo futhi ivalwe.
Abahlala
Ngakho-ke, isinqumo sokuhlukanisa ekugcineni futhi asikho ngaphansi kwesikhalazo. Ungayisho kanjani ngale ngane? Ekuqaleni, abazali bathola ukuthi ubukhona emndenini wozakwethu abaphumayo buzokwenziwa kanjani:
1. Shiya unomphela. Umzali uvame ukwenza isinqumo esiyiphutha ukufihla imininingwane futhi athathe indawo yokuba khona kwelungu lomndeni ngamaqiniso aphazamisekile (ubaba wangena ezweni ukubhukuda noma ukundiza emkhathini). Ngakho-ke ingane yandisa ukukhathazeka, umbuso olindele unomphela uvuliwe, othinta kabi i-psyche.
2. "ISonto lomzali." Njengoba sinesimo esinjalo, izingane ziphoqeleka ukuba zikhethe, futhi abazali bayakwazi ukuncintisana, okungcono. Ingane, "egijima" phakathi kobaba othambile kanye nonina ofunwayo, ithola izimo zengqondo zempilo ezinobuhlakani, ihlukumeza i-psyche futhi ilimaze umbono wangempela.
3. Umlingani. Inketho ebuhlungu okungenani ubuncane ushintsho oluncane endleleni yokuphila. Ongakwenza kulesi simo: ukunikeza izingane ukunakwa okulinganayo, dlala, hamba, uthathe ingxenye esebenzayo ekuthuthukisweni, kuvumelanise imibuzo yemfundo nowakhe wangaphambili.
Tshela umyalezo odabukisayo kungaba ngumzali oyedwa, futhi bobabili: ingane ithembela zombili. Uma abashadikazi besaba noma bengacabangi ukuthi bangakudlulisela kanjani umcabango wengane, ungacela usizo ezihlotsheni.
Inkhulumomphendvulwano ngeminyaka
Kuze kube yiminyaka emibili, ingane ibona ukungabi nalutho komunye wabazali. Ukukhuluma ngesehlukaniso kuyo yonke imininingwane yeminyaka emithathu inexpedient. Amagama alula, aqondakalayo ukudlulisa umcabango wokuthi ingane isakuthanda futhi ngeke inikezele ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo.Ezinganeni ezindala kuzovela imibuzo lapho umzali azolungiswa ngokucophelela khona.
Lapho ekhuluma nentsha, kwesinye isikhathi abazali benza amaphutha amaningana: Dissured umlingani wangaphambili ("Bheka, umama ovuthiwe!"), Ususe empilweni (kungathi umzuzwana uwususe. Indoda endala ibalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi imizwa engemihle nayo iyamizwa. Yabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kwengane, ulalele ingqondo yakhe, iya kudokotela wezengqondo, ungabeki osemusha ngokumelene nomlingani wangaphambili; ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzoqonda izimbangela zezehlakalo.
Ngubani onecala?
I-Psyche yezingane ihlangana nezindaba zesehlukaniso: Abafana bangalawuli, amantombazane avale ngokwawo. Futhi labo kanye nabanye kwesinye isikhathi baveza imibhikisho, kungabaza igunya labazali noma bazibeka esikhundleni secala. Ukunakwa kwabazali kuphela, ukunakekelwa, ukulungela ingxoxo nozwela oluqotho kungathola ukunciphisa.
Isimo sezulu Endlini
Izingane "Imizwa Elentayo". Umsebenzi wabazali ukunciphisa amahlazo, ukukhala, ukuthukwa, izinyembezi kanye nolaka. Zibeke endaweni yengane: Ungakhula kanjani ngokuvumelanayo, lapho umhlaba emhlabeni wonke ugcwele ububi. Uma ngenxa yesehlukaniso, inzalo iyaphoqeleka ukuthi iguqule indawo yokuhlala, isikole, enkulisa, bese isiza ukuthi kufike ukujwayela ezimweni ezintsha zenhlalo.