Iminyaka eminingi kaLolita wenqabile ukutshela imininingwane yabantu abadala bendodakazi yakhe. Futhi kusukela ngo-2014, indlalifa yakwaMilyavskaya yaqala ukuvela emphakathini futhi yamangala abalandeli bomculi abanolwazi ngezilimi zakwamanye amazwe kanye nentuthuko eguquguqukayo. Okubukeka sengathi lokho nokuthi kwenziwa kanjani i-EVA CEENO - ku-Material 24cm.
Ukusola kwe-autism
U-Eva Tsecalo uvele ngoNovemba 3, 1998. Ingane yazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ngenyanga yesithupha yokukhulelwa, futhi yasindwa ngu-1,2 kg.Ukuvela kwendodakazi ebilindelwe isikhathi eside ka-Eva kaLolita Milyavskaya kwamenywa yizindaba ezenzeka ukuthi intombazane kungenzeka ukuthi yazalwa inephutha. Ekuqaleni bekukhona izinsolo kwi-Down Syndrome, kepha ukuhlaziya akukuqinisekisi ukuxilongwa.
Ngemuva kwalokho kwaphakanyiswa ukuthi amathuba okuthuthukisa ukuphazamiseka kwe-autictum. Udokotela esibhedlela somama wayalulekwa umama: "Ukwenqaba akusetshenziselwa". Kodwa-ke, okuphambene nemikhandlu, umculi wathatha izibopho zokunakekela indodakazi yakhe. Kamuva, ukuxilongwa kwenqatshelwa udokotela ochwepheshe ngokuzithandela, futhi kwasho ukuthi ingane iphilile.
By the way, ku-interview yokuqala ngemuva kokuzalwa kwendlalifa, uLolita wabona ngezinkinga zempilo yendodakazi yakhe, wabuye watshelwa ukuthi odokotela bangethembeki, bazama ukubeka phansi imali esosikweni. Kodwa-ke, ubukeleki bakaMilyavskaya baboniswa ngokuqinile, futhi amahemuhemu aphakanyiswe kunethiwekhi ukuthi umculi wabeletha ingane ekhethekile.
Bengingalindele ukuthi iqhinga le-lolita futhi iminyaka eminingi seliphelile kuFrank nangobezindaba ngendlalifa. Inkanyezi ibeke amazwana esikhundleni sakhe njengegama elithi wayekhathele ukukhombisa ukuthi ingane ngaphambi kwesikhathi nokuxilongwa kwe- "Autism" akuyona into efanayo.
Kamuva, ohlelweni "ikusasa lomuntu", uLolita uzothi: "Yebo, sasibambezeleka ekukhuleni." Futhi wabelane nezinkinga umama nengane okufanele abhekane nazo. U-Eva wayenezinkinga ngombono odalwe ukufelwa. Ingane yayidinga ukuhlinzwa phesheya. Intombazane eyalandela yaqala ukugqoka izibuko ezinezibuko eziwugqinsi.
Futhi indodakazi kaLolita Milyavskaya ihlushwa i-hyperstativity, okuyinto enzima ukuxhumana nontanga esikoleni futhi yayivame ukuba yimbangela yezinyembezi. Ngaleso sikhathi, bekunqatshelwe ukusebenzisa isikhundla sendlalifa yenkanyezi yenkanyezi. Lapho nje intombazane ikhumbule ukuthi ngubani umama wakhe, kodwa osaziwayo bayeka ngokushesha le mizamo futhi bachaza ukuthi akukufanele ukwenza kanjalo.
"Yebo, uhamba kancane emphakathini, kepha akukho ulaka kuLo," Kugcizelela izinzuzo zendlalitter Lolita, wonke amabutho abeka ukuthi indodakazi iye yehluka kontanga.
Impilo nogogo
Ezinyangeni ezintathu ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, isehlukaniso no-Alexander Tsekalo, owanikeza igama negama lendodakazi kaMilyavskaya, kepha akakwazanga ukubamba iqhaza ekukhulisweni kwezingane. Ngemuva kwesehlukaniso esibuhlungu, impilo yomculi yathuthumela, khona-ke impikiswano yempilo yavuka. Njengoba i-duo ekhona ibhidlika, kwakudingeka ukuqala kusuka ekuqaleni.
Ngenxa yalokho, ukunakekelwa kwe-evoi kwaganwa umama osaziwayo. Ingane yayiswa eKiev, futhi uLolita wahlala eMoscow ukwakha umsebenzi futhi wathola imali yokulungiswa kwendlalifa.
Kamuva, ingcebo yomculi izomemezela ukuthi washiya u-Eva nogogo nomkhulu eKiev eminyakeni emibili kwathi ngaphambi kokuphela kwesikole kwaba yisenzo esihlakaniphe kakhulu empilweni. Ngaphandle kwalokho, noma ngabe umama uLolita kwakuzodingeka ashiye umyeni wakhe athuthele eMoscow, noma u-Eva ukuba abe eduze komuntu ongaziwa, okungukuthi, nge-nanny.
"Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ingane kufanele ibe nokuphila kwayo, hhayi ukuhudula emaphathini futhi iye yavuma," kuvuma inhlolokhono, obongayo kunina ngosizo lwakhe futhi eqiniseka ukuthi ngaphandle kwendodakazi yakhe ngeke ithole Ukunakekelwa nokunakwa okuningi.
Kodwa-ke, umculi wayesaqhubeka. ULolita kwakufanele athethelele umama, okopishelwe icala lakhe "enobungane", futhi afeze izakhiwo zezingane, aphendukela ekuzindleni.
Bese kuthi-ke umama kwadingeka avume ukuthi ingane izothola uthando ngenzalo, abangabazali abangabatholanga ebuntwaneni. "Yebo, uMilyn Monroe akakhuli nami, hhayi imodeli, kodwa ngikusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi muhle, muhle, uhlakaniphile," uyavuma lokho kubonga lokho kusondela kunina nendodakazi yakhe futhi baqala ukubonga zihlobise ngokucophelela kakhulu.
UMilyavskaya wavakashela ingane kanye njalo ezinyangeni ezintathu, ugogo wayo wayenezinkinga zokukhuliswa kwakhe. Kokunye okuvakashele, lapho u-Eva eseneminyaka emithathu, akazange aqaphele omama futhi akazange alinganise umzali. Ukuziphatha kwengane kwabangela izinyembezi kusaziwayo. Umculi futhi kwadingeka aphendukele kusizo lodokotela wezengqondo, owachaza ukuthi uma uLolita elahlekelwe, khona-ke indodakazi yayingeke ikwazi ukuthola indlela yakhe empilweni. Kwasiza ukuqeda inkinga yephutha.
"Kuyabiza kakhulu - ukukhulisa izingane lapho kunenkinga. Ngiyajabula ukuthi ngingakwenza, "kuboniswa inkanyezi. U-Eve uhambelana nokubuyiselwa kwakhe, ahloniphe umama futhi ame ngemuva kwezigcawu ngesikhathi sokwenza. ULolita wakwazi ukuthembeka nendodakazi yakhe. Inkanyezi yesaba uthando kuphela onqenqemeni.
Impilo yomuntu siqu
Namuhla i-EVA isivele ifakwe kumuntu ozimele. Intombazane yaphenduka iminyaka engama-22. Ngo-2014, abalandeli bomculi baqala ukubona indodakazi kaLolita Milyavskaya ekudluliseleni u-Andrei Malakhov "kusihlwa", lapho kuthi ngisho nomuntu osemusha etshela uthando ngomculo nezincwadi ngesiNgisi nangesiRussia. Ngemuva konyaka, le ntombazane yavela epunium kaCouturier odumile. Kuleli phuzu kuqhubeke, umama we-Star waqala ukuhlanganyela izithombe zendlalifa.Ukuze usetshenziswe emphakathini, le ntombazane kwadingeka yenziwe ngodokotela wezengqondo. Inkanyezi yayethemba ukuthi amadodakazi akhe ayokwazi ukuba ngumhumushi noma umgxeki.
Ngo-2018, u-Eva uthweswe iziqu esikoleni, enyangeni efundile iPolish futhi wangena kwelinye lama-Warsaw we-Warsaw, ePhilology. Umama onaye abazali babo ababeneseluleko esihle futhi bancoma ukukhetha umqondisi. Namuhla, uLolita Milyavskaya uyaziqhenya ngendodakazi, "hhayi ukonakala amaqhinga abantu abadala."
Akukho lutho olwaziwa ngempilo yomuntu siqu ye-Star Golitised, futhi umama uthi kufanele afunde kwasekuqaleni.
Manje
Manje indodakazi kaLolita Milyavskaya ihlala futhi ithola imfundo ePoland. Intombazane ibukeka iqondiswe futhi yanikezwa nge-charm ethile yokudala.
Ngo-Ephreli 2020, kwaziwa ukuthi uLolita akazange alinganise u-Evell ngo-Evell, wakhipha konke kubantu abathembekile. "Akanawo amazinyo ami futhi akunakwenzeka ukuba. Le yimpahla yezingane ngaphambi kwesikhathi. U-Eva ngeke avikele impahla, "kusho uMilyavskaya, oqiniseka ukuthi kuzokwazi ukuvikela indlalifa kuphela kuma-scammers.