Kwemakore mazhinji aLolita akaramba kuudza ruzivo rwevakuru wemwanasikana wavo. Uye kubva muna 2014, mugari wenhaka weMilyavskaya achiri akatanga kuoneka pachena uye ashamisika vateveri vaimbi neruzivo rwemitauro yekune dzimwe nyika uye kukura kwakawanda. Izvo Zvazvinoita Zvakadaro uye Izvo Eva Eequo arikuita - mune iyo Mavanhu 24Cm.
Kufungidzira kwe autism
Eva Tsecalo akaoneka munaNovember 3, 1998. Mwana akazvarwa pamberi peimwe, mumwedzi wechitanhatu wekuzvitakura, uye akaremerwa chete 1.2 kg.Kuonekwa kwemwanasikana wakamirira kwenguva refu kuti Lolita Milita MilitaSkaya akafukidzwa nenhau iyo musikana angangozvarwa ane hurema. Pakutanga pakanga paine kufungidzira pasi pasi syndrome, asi kuongororwa hakuna kusimbisa kuongororwa.
Ipapo zvakaratidzwa kuti mukana wekukudziridza chirwere cheutachiona. Chiremba muchipatara chehutongi hwakataura amai vacho: "Kuramba hakushandiswe". Nekudaro, zvinopesana nemakanzuru, muimbi anofungidzirwa kuzvipira kuti atarisire mwanasikana wake. Gare gare, kuongororwa kwacho kwakarambidzwa chiremba kunoratidza muuto, uye kutaura kuti mwana ane hutano.
Nenzira, mukubvunzurudza kwekutanga mushure mekuzvarwa kwemugari wenhaka, uye vakaudzawo kuti vanachiremba vasingazivikanwe sei, vachida kuisa mari kubva mukurumbira, vakaedza kuongororwa zvisiri izvo. Nekudaro, kutaura pachena kweMilyavskaya kwakaonekwa pachena, uye runyerekupe rwakamutswa mune netiweki kuti muimbi akazvara mwana anokosha.
Ini ndaisatarisira kunyengera kweLolita uye kwemakore mazhinji ndikanonoka kuFrank nemucheto nezve mugari wenhaka. Nyeredzi yakataura nezve chinzvimbo chake sekushoko raaive ndaneta nekuratidza kuti mwana wekutanga uye kuongororwa kwe "Autism" hachisi chinhu chimwe chete.
Gare gare, muchirongwa "chemugove wemunhu", Lolita achati: "Ehe, isu takanonoka mukukura." Uye anogovana matambudziko aakanga atarisana naamai naamai nemwana. Eva akange aine matambudziko nechiono chakakonzerwa nekusimba kwekutanga. Mucheche akatoda kuvhiyiwa kunze kwenyika. Gare gare musikana akatanga kupfeka magirazi nemagirazi akareba.
Uye mwanasikana waLolita Milita Milyavskaya anotambura, anofungidzirwa kutaurirana nevezera kuchikoro uye kazhinji akakonzera misodzi. Zvichakadaro, zvakarambidzwa kushandisa chinzvimbo cheSeiress yeNotar Eva. Mumwe musikana chete paakangozvidza kuti amai vake, asi mukurumbira akabva aregedza izvi kuedza uye akatsanangura kuti zvaive zvisina kukodzera kuzviita.
"Hongu, anononoka munharaunda, asi hapana hutsinye marimo," anosimbisa zvakanakira iye muHelita Lolita, uyo masimba ese akaisa izvo mauto ese ayo mauto ehukuru aisiyana nevezera.
Hupenyu naambuya
Mwedzi mitatu mushure mekuzvarwa kwemwana, kurambana neAlexander Tsekalo, uyo akapa zita uye patronymic mwanasikana waMilavskaya, asi aisakwanisa kutora chikamu mukurerwa kwevacheche. Mushure mekurambana kunorwadza, hutano hwemuimbi hwakazungunuswa, saka nyaya yehupenyu inotambira yakamuka. Sezvo duo iripo yakawira, zvaive zvakafanira kutanga kubva pakukanda.
Nekuda kweizvozvo, kutarisirwa kwaEvoi kwaiita amai vekunamata. Mwana akaendeswa kuKiev, uye Lolita akasara muMoscow kuti avakire basa uye kuwana mari yekuchengetedza mugari wenhaka.
Gare gare, pfuma yemuridzi weimba ichazivisa kuti akasiya kuti Eva aine nasekuru vake muKiev kubva pamakore maviri uye kupera chikoro chisati chave kuita basa rekuita muhupenyu. Zvikasadaro, kana Amai Lolita vaifanira kusiya murume wake uye vaende kuMoscow, kana kuti vave pedyo nemutorwa, ndiko kuti, neNanny.
"Ndine chokwadi chekuti mwana wavo aifanira kuve nehupenyu hwavo, uye kwete kurira pamapati uye kuti" nyeredzi yakareurura mubvunzurudzo, izvo zvinotenda kuna amai vake kuti vabatsire uye vasina mwanasikana wavo vasingawani kutarisirwa kwakanyanya uye kutarisirwa.
Nekudaro, muimbi achiri kuramba. Lolita aifanira kukanganwira amai, ayo akateedzerwa kune mhosva ye "ane hushamwari", uye kugadzirisa zvinhu zvakaoma zvevana, zvichireva kufungisisa.
Uyezve naAmai vaifanira kubvuma kuti mwana anozogamuchira rudo nekufarira, iro vabereki havana kudhonzwa muhudiki. "Ehe, Marilyn Monroe haakure neni, asi ini ndinoti nguva yese yaakanaka, yakangwara," anobvuma kudaro Lita uye anowedzera kuti amai vake nemwanasikana uye vakatanga Rondedzerai kungwara kwake.
Milavskaya akashanyira mwana kamwe chete mwedzi imwe chete, uye ambuya vake vaive nematambudziko ekurerwa kwake. Mune kumwe kwekushanya, Evha paive vatatu, haana kuziva mom uye haana kukodzera mubereki. Maitiro emwana akakonzera misodzi kubva kune mukurumbira. Muimbi zvakare aifanira kutendeukira kunobuditsa psychologist, uyo akatsanangura kuti kana Lolita akazvirasa, ipapo mwanasikana aisakwanisa kuwana nzira yake muhupenyu. Yakabatsira kubvisa mhosva yekutadza.
"Zvinodhura kwazvo - kurera vana kana paine dambudziko." Ndiri kufara kuti ndaigona kuzviita, "nyeredzi inoratidzwa. Eve anoenderana nekudzokorora kwake, anoremekedza Amai uye anomira kumashure kwezviitiko panguva yekuita. Lolita akakwanisa kuchengetedza kuvimba nemwanasikana wake. Nyeredzi inotya chete rudo kuburikidza nemucheto.
Hupenyu Hwako
Nhasi Eva anga atove akagadzwa nemutungamiriri akazvimirira. Musikana akatyora makore makumi maviri nemasere. Muna 2014, vateveri vemuimbi vakatanga vakaona mwanasikana waLolita MilitaMsavskaya mukuendeswa kweAndrei Malakhovov "manheru ano", ipo pese paE. Kwapera gore, musikana uyu akaonekwa pane podium yemuchengeti akakurumbira. Kubva pane izvi zvichienda mberi, vagari venyeredzi vakatanga kugovana mafoto enzvimbo inowanzoitika.Kuti ushandiswe munharaunda, musikana wacho aifanira kuita nepfungwa. Nyeredzi inotarisira kuti vanasikana vake vaizogona kuve mushanduri kana kutsoropodza.
Muna 2018, Eva akapedza chikoro, kwemwedzi ndakadzidza chiPolish uye ndapinda mune imwe yemasangano Warsaw, kuFacery yePhilology. Mai amai vane amai vane vabereki zvakare vaive nezano rakanaka uye rakakurudzirwa kusarudza director. Nhasi, Lolita Milsavskaya anodada nemwanasikana, "haana kupambwa nehunyengeri hwevakuru."
Hapana chinozivikanwa nezve hupenyu hwega hwenzvimbo yeiyo Nyeredzi, uye amai vacho vanoti aifanira kunge akadzidza pakutanga.
Ikozvino
Iye zvino mwanasikana waLolita Milita Milsavskaya anogara uye anowana dzidzo muPoland. Musikana anotaridzika akatariswa uye akapiwa kune imwe yakanaka yekugadzira runako.
MunaApril 2020, yakazivikanwa kuti Lolita haana kukodzera Evha kuna iye achaita kuda, akapa zvese kuvanhu vaivimba. "Haana mazino angu uye haafanire kudaro." Iyi inzvimbo yevana vasati vasvika. Evha haangadzoreredze chivakwa, "akadaro Milsavskaya, ane chivimbo chekuti ichangogona kudzivirira mugari wenhaka kubva kune scammers.