Iminyaka emininzi yeLolita yala ukuchaza iinkcukacha zomdala wentombi yakhe. Ukususela ngo-2014, indlalifa eMililovskaya isaqalisa ukuvela esidlangalaleni kwaye yamangalisa abalandeli belesi-mvume ngolwazi lweelwimi zasemzini kunye nokuphuhliswa kweelwimi eziguqukayo. Into ebonakala ngayo kunye nento eyenziwa ngu-Eva Chuquo - kwi-24cm ye-24cm.
Ukukrokrela i-autism
U-Eva TSECALO wavela nge-3 ka-1998. Umntwana wazalwa ngaphambi kwexesha, ngenyanga yesithandathu yokukhulelwa, kwaye uxinezelekile kuphela i-1.2 kg.Inkangeleko yentombazana elindelwe i-Lolita Mntwanavskaya yagutyungelwa ziindaba ezazalwa yile ntombazana inesiphene. Ekuqaleni bekukho ukrokrela isifo se-Down Downme, kodwa uhlalutyo khange luqinisekise isifo.
Emva koko kwacetyiswa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kuphumle i-autisting distem. Ugqirha kwiSibhedlele sokuThezulu ucebise umama: "Inkunkuma ayisetyenziswanga". Nangona kunjalo, ngokuchasene namabhunga, imvumi yazinika izibophelelo zokunyamekela intombi yakhe. Emva kwexesha, isifo saye saliwa ngugqirha okhethekileyo kwi-Autism, kwaye wathi umntwana usempilweni.
Ngendlela, kudliwanondlebe lokuqala emva kokuzalwa kwendlalifa, uLolita waqondayo ngeengxaki zentombi yakhe, kwaye uxelela indlela oogqirha abanganyanisekanga, bezama ukubeka isifo esidumileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukusweleka kukaMililovskaya kwaqondwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kwaye amarhe anyuke kwinethiwekhi leyo imvumi yazala umntwana okhethekileyo.
Andizange ndilindele ukuba iqhinga le-lolita kwaye iminyaka emininzi iyeka ukungcungcutheka kunye noomatshini malunga nendlalifa. Inkwenkwezi yagqabaza kwisikhundla sakhe njengegama lakhe lokunyanzela ukuba lingqine ukuba umntwana ongaphambi kwexesha kunye nokuqonda "i-autism" ayifani.
Emva koko, kwiNkqubo "isiphelo somntu", uLolita uya kuthi: "Ewe, sasilibazisile ekuphuhlisweni." Kwaye yabelana ngeengxaki anazo umama nomntwana wakhe. UEva wayenengxaki ngombono obangelwe kukungabonakali ngaphambi kwexesha. Umntwana wade wafuna umsebenzi phesheya. Emva kwexesha lentombazana yaqala ukunxiba iiglasi kunye neeglasi ezinkulu.
Kwaye intombi kaLolita Mlindavskaya ikhathaza i-hyperstortures, elona nxibelelwano lunzima noontanga esikolweni kwaye kaninzi yaba ngunobangela wenyembezi. Ngeli xesha, kwanqatshelwa ukuba basebenzise isikhundla se-herss ye-Star Eva. Kuphela nje intombazana yaphinda yaphinda yangubani na umama wakhe, kodwa abantu abasandamisa ngoko nangoko aba bade baze bachaze ukuba ayikufanelekile ukwenza njalo.
"Ewe, ucothise eluntwini, kodwa akukho bundlongothi kuyo," igxininisa izibonelelo ze-heires Lolita, ethi yonke imikhosi ibeka ukuba intombi iphumelele ayifani noontanga.
Ubomi kunye nogogo
Kwiinyanga ezintathu emva kokuzalwa komntwana, uqhawulo-mtshato noAlexander Tsekalo, onike igama kunye ne-patrolicmic nentombi yentombi kaMililovskaya, kodwa akakwazanga ukuthatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni abantwana. Emva koqhawulo-mtshato olunentlungu, impilo yemvumi yashukunyiswa, emva koko kwavela umba. Kuba i-DUO ekhoyo yawa, kwakuyimfuneko ukuqala ekrakra.
Ngenxa yoko, ukhathalelo lukaEVOI lwalubandakanyeke kumama osaziwayo. Umntwana wasiwa eKiev, kwaye uLolita wasala eMoscow ukuba akhe umsebenzi kwaye afumane imali yokugcina indlalifa.
Emva kwexesha, ubuncwane be-Anger baya kuvakalisa ukuba wawushiya utatomkhulu no-Kiev ukusuka kwiminyaka emibini nangaphambi kokuba isiphelo sesikolo siye senzele isenzo sobulumko ebomini. Ngaphandle koko, nokuba nguMama Lolita kuya kufuneka amshiye umyeni wakhe aze afudukele eMoscow, okanye uEva abe ecaleni komntu wasemzini, oko kukuthi, nge-nanny.
"Ndiqinisekile ukuba umntwana ufanele nobomi, kwaye hayi irhuqa kumatheko kwaye atshutshise udliwanondlebe, osivumayo ukuba ngaphandle kwentombi yakhe ayiyi kufumana Inkathalo enkulu kunye nengqwalaselo.
Nangona kunjalo, imvumi isahleli. U-Lolita wayefanele axolele umama, oye wakhutshelwa kwityala 'elinobuntu ", kwaye wasebenzela ubunzima babantwana, banyanzelisa ukucamngca.
Kwaye emva koko kwafuneka avume ukuba umntwana uza kufumana uthando ngomdla, abangabazali babengakhathali ebuntwaneni. "Ewe, uMarilyn Monroe akakhuli nam, hayi imodeli, kodwa nditsho ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba umhle, ulungile, uyongeza ukuba umbulelo woyiswa ngunina kunye nentombi yakhe kwaye baqala Balisa ngononophelo ngakumbi.
UMililovskaya watyelela umntwana wakhe emva kweenyanga ezintathu, kwaye umakhulu wakhe wayebandezeleka ngenxa yokukhuliswa kwakhe. Kolunye utyelelo, xa uEva wayeneminyaka emithathu, wayengayamkeli oomama kwaye bengazange bafanelwe ngumzali. Ukuziphatha komntwana kwabangela iinyembezi kusaziwayo. Imvumi kwakhona kwafuneka iguqukele kuncedo lwengqondo, eyacacisa ukuba ukuba lolita wayephulukene nayo, intombi ayiyi kuba nako ukuyifumana indlela yakhe ebomini. Incede ukususa isiphoso.
"Kubiza kakhulu - ukukhulisa abantwana xa kukho ingxaki. Ndiyavuya ukuba ndingayenza, "inkwenkwezi iyaboniswa. I-Eva ihambelana nokuphindiswa kwakhe, ihlonipha umama kwaye imi emva kwendawo ngexesha lokwenza izinto. I-Lolita yakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuzithemba nentombi yakhe. Inkanyezi yoyika uthando kuphela ngomphetho.
Ubomi Buqu
Namhlanje i-EVA sele imakishwe nomntu omdala ozimeleyo. Intombazana yaqala iminyaka engama-22 ubudala. Ngo-2014, abalandeli bemvumi baqala babona intombi kaLolita Militavskaya ekutshintsheni kuka-Andrei Malakhov "Ngokuhlwanje" Kunyaka kamva, intombazana yavela kwi-podium ye-coutrier edumileyo. Ukusuka kweli nqaku, umama wenkanyezi waqala ukwabelana ngeefoto zenkani rhoqo.Ukusetyenziswa eluntwini, le ntombazana kwakufuneka yenze i-psychologist. Inkwenkwezi yayinethemba lokuba iintombi zakhe ziya kuba nakho ukuba ngumguquleli okanye ukugxekwa.
Ngo-2018, i-Eva iphumelele esikolweni, inyanga endiyifundileyo ndangena enye yeeyunivesithi warsaw, kwi-filoty yefilology. Umama ongunina abazali baba nengcebiso elungileyo kwaye banconywa ukuba bakhethe uMlawuli. Namhlanje, i-Lolita Milinavskaya iyazingca ngokuba yintombi, "ayigaxwanga ngamaqhinga abantu abadala."
Akukho nto eyaziwayo malunga nobomi bobuqu be-heriress yenkuku, kwaye umama uthi efanele ukuba ufunde kwasekuqaleni.
Ngoku
Ngoku intombi yeLolita Mlindavskaya ihlala kwaye ifumane imfundo ePoland. Intombazana ijongeka ijolise kwaye inikwe i-charm yomtsalane othile.
Ngo-Epreli 2020, yaziwa ukuba i-Lolita ayihambelani no-Eves, intando, ikhuphe yonke into kubantu abathembekileyo. "Akanamazinyo am kwaye akanakwenzeka. Le yipropathi yabantwana abangaphambilana. U-Eva akazukukhusela le mpahla, 'watsho ukuba uya kuba nakho ukukhusela indlaliki evela kwii-scammers.