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Imiyalo ecacile
Imishwana yokusebenza, njenge "Sawubona. Unjani? "," Ubukade ukuphi sonke lesi sikhathi? " Noma "Asikaze sihlangane phambilini?", Kuphelelwe yisikhathi. Indoda yesaba amacebo futhi igweme ukuxhumana nentokazi ekhombisa lesi sinyathelo.
Intombazane yanamuhla imemezela ukulungela kwakhe ukuxhumana obala. Imishwana yokuqomisana, ukubiza isenzo, kufanele kuqondwe, ngaphandle kwencazelo eyengeziwe efihlekile.
"Ake siphuze inkomishi yekhofi."
Ukuzwa ibinzana elinjalo, umfana uyakuqonda ukuthi phambi kwakhe ngokuqiniseka entombazaneni yakhe emnandi enesinhlonipho futhi hhayi i-compacon.
"Masibize. Nayi inombolo yami yocingo ".
Joyina umusho ngokumamatheka. Futhi ukuze unikeze isimo esimangazayo, dlula "ukundiza" okubonisa umfokazi, obonisa kungazelelwe futhi kungazelelwe wanyamalala.
Ukukhetha ngaphandle kokukhetha
Indlela enjalo izolingana namantombazane. Ukunikeza ucingo emuva, ucacisa ukuthi kufanele enze nini. Futhi akukho mfutho wengqondo: ukukhetha kuhlala kukhethwe."Kunini lapho kufanelekile ukubiza wena - ekuseni noma ngemuva kwasemini?"
Eqinisweni, inhloso yentombazane yikholi, nokuthi kwenzeka nini, akunandaba. Ngakho-ke ukuba umuntu alondoloze inkohliso yokuzikhethela.
Mayelana nesimo sezulu
Okuxakile ngokwanele, kepha imishwana engcono kakhulu yokubopha ukuqomisana isalokhu ihlala isimo sezulu. Ngokusho kwabaphenyi, imishwana ehlukanisa ubuhlakani nokulutha kwendlela yokuphila enempilo ibhekwa njengewusizo ngokuthandana.
"Namuhla kumanzi. Azikho isimo esingcono sokuqeqeshwa. "
Gcizelela umholi wemvelo
Abaholi besilisa empeleni. Ungabaphiki injabulo yokuziphatha ngokwethu noma ukuba emehlweni owesimame wesifazane we-alpha.
"Ngiyancenga. Yenza umbono wokuthi singilindile. Lolu hlobo luhamba imizuzu emi-5. "
Ibinzana lizosebenza, ngoba isithameli se-Advocate savuka umfana. Ngendlela, uma kungekho zinhlelo eziphuthumayo zobusuku, ungalindela ukuthi ama-cavalier asebenzise umnyango wendlu.
"Ngizwa kabi ngakho. Yini ongayikhetha? "
Ngengxoxo enjalo esitolo indoda kunzima ukwenqaba ukusiza le ntombazane.
"Bathi le smartphone inekhamera enamandla ... uthini?" Noma, njengenye indlela: "Khuluma, lo mbhali ubhala kuphela izihlakaniphi?"
Lapha, ingxoxo nomfana izoqala ukuzungeza imisebenzi yombhali noma izici zegajethi. Sekela ingxoxo, wabelane ngemibono yakho futhi ungakhohlwa ukushintshanisa amafoni.
Indlela yomqhele, ehlanganisa hhayi izinkulungwane eziyinkulungwane zabathandi, yile:
"Ungangitsheli ukuthi ngithole kanjani ...?"
Siza owesifazane odidekile uyisipho sokuziqhenya kwabesilisa.
Ukujwayelana kwi-Intanethi
Ukujwayelana kwi-Intanethi sekuyinto evamile. Thatha ingxoxo nomuntu onentshisekelo ibinzana lokuqala."Isibhakabhaka, ilanga, inkundla yokudlala ... Futhi yini ebonakalayo efasiteleni lakho?" Noma "Ngikubone ngengozi ekhasini ... ngifuna ukubuza ..."
Indoda enomuzwa wokuhlekisa izoqhubeka nokuxhumana. Futhi uma ingxoxo ihanjiswa ethandweni elikhulu, kusho ukuthi noma ngabe i-interlocutor ayikho kuMoya, noma ayifuni ukujwayelana.
Isipelingi saseJapan
Iqembu lezazi zezengqondo zaseJapan lezela ifomula elisiza ukuthatha igxathu lokuqala futhi lenyuse amathuba okuqhubeka kobudlelwano. Kwanele uma ufaka umuntu ongaziwa ekwakhekeni kwengxoxo: "Ngonyaka olandelayo sizohleka ndawonye ngalo lolo suku."
Futhi yize ama-Europeans ayengakholelwa kwisimangaliso saseJapan, isipelingi, njengomthetho, imisebenzi. Into esemqoka ukukholwa.