I-Biograge
Kwesinye isikhathi abantu bafunda emaphutheni abanye abantu, kodwa kaningi bebodwa. Igama lomlobi u-Allen Carr phezu kwamahemuhemu kubantu abaningi abazama ukubopha ngemikhuba emibi bese beqala ngeqabunga elihlanzekile. Le ndoda yabhema amakhulu kagwayi ngosuku, kepha ekugcineni yathola indlela elula yokuyeka ukubhema, ukuyichaza ngokuthengisa okungcono kakhulu.Ubuntwana nentsha
Ngeshwa, imininingwane yomlobi wengane kanye nentsha incane kakhulu. U-Allen Carr wayaziwa ngoSepthemba 2, 1934 enhlokodolobha yaseGreat Britain - eLondon. Njengomthetho, ezimelweni zakhe ze-Biographical, iCarr yaqala ukubala phansi lapho izama ugwayi wokuqala, ngoba umlutha we-nicotine waba isihloko esiphakeme kuye, esasivimbela impilo evamile, ejabulisayo.
Ngakho-ke, u-Allen waqala ukubhema ebusheni bakhe, wayeneminyaka engu-18 kuphela. Yize eminye imithombo ifika ukuthi lo mfo wazama ukufaka "isifundo sabantu abadala" eneminyaka engu-16. Lapho insizwa ineminyaka engu-18, yabizelwa amasosha asemasosha asemampini. Ngemuva kwebutho, iphepha elifakwe ekolishi, lapho afunda khona ngokukhethekile kwe-accountant.
Ngaleso sikhathi, uCarr waba ngumuntu obhemayo futhi kwesinye isikhathi wabhema amaphakethe ambalwa ngosuku, irekhodi lakhe likagwayi ngu-100 ngosuku. Akumangazi ukuthi inani le-nicotine elinjalo alikwazanga ukuphazamisa isimo esingokomzimba nangokomzwelo sika-Allen, owayekade azamile ukuyeka ukubhema, kepha yonke imizamo yakhe yaphenduka ize kuze kube yize kuze kube yilapho iphuzu elithile.
Inkambo
Ngaphambi kokuba abe ngumuntu onikeze "ukuphefumula okukhanyayo" ezigidini zezakhamizi, uCarre wazama ukuyeka izindlela ezijwayelekile ezingasizanga wonke umuntu. Ekuqaleni, uCarr wabamba ugwayi waKhe ugwayi ngosizo lwamandla wentando, kepha yonke imizamo yakhe yayihlulekile. Ekugcineni, u-Allen wabhema iminyaka engamashumi amathathu, kepha konke kwashintsha uJulayi 15, 1983.
Ehlobo, indoda enesifiso esinokuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu 'kokubhema' yaya ku-psychotherapist, ukuze iphinde izame injabulo yayo futhi yayeka ukubhema. Kulokhu, ukubekezela ku-Allen, owafaka isicelo kudokotela ngokuncoma isikhathi eside. Umsebenzi owenziwe kanye nodokotela wanikeza imiphumela: ICarr ithole amandla okusho kahle umkhuba omubi. Kuliqiniso, ngemuva kwesikhathi: Ngokwalokho ukuqashelwa kwendoda, wagcotshwa ngokushesha, ephuma emtholampilo.
Ngakho-ke, uCarr waphonsa umkhuba omubi wokuqiniseka kodokotela abakhona, kodwa ngokuhlaziya ubuthakathaka bakhe kanye nezimbangela zakhe zokubhema, futhi udokotela wanikeza umuntu ukuqondisa okulungile kwemicabango. Bachazwa ngokuthi umuntu ophonswe ukubhema akuyona ukuqhekeka ngokomzimba, kodwa umuzwa wokucekelwa phansi nokungavikeleki. Ukuqonda lesi sici kwaholela owesilisa emcabangweni wokuthi intambo ebomvu idlula kuzo zonke izincwadi zayo.
Esikhathini esizayo, u-Allen wanquma ukuhlanganyela nemfihlo enezinkulungwane zezakhamizi ezihlushwa umlutha we-nicotine, futhi wabasiza ukuba babuyele kulolo mbuso "ojwayelekile olwaziyo kulabo abangazange babambe ugwayi.
Ifilosofi ka-Allen isuselwa eqinisweni lokuthi okuphambene nemizwa kagwayi akukujabulisi, futhi kususa kuphela lesi sifo esingelona iqiniso, okungukuthi, kuphakama umlutha wezidakamizwa.
"Ukukhululeka kwababhemayo lapho kunganaki ugwayi umuzwa wokubuya" esimweni esijwayelekile ", abangabhemi babhekana ngaso sonke isikhathi,"- kusho udokotela wezengqondo.
Umuntu uthwebula "isicupho se-nicotine", eqhubeka nokukholelwa kwakhe ekuthembeleni kwakhe kulo mkhuba. Ukubona ukuthi kulula kanjani ukuyeka ukubhema, u-Allen Carr uvalelisa ngemisebenzi ye-accounting futhi uvule umtholampilo obizwa nge- "Easy Way" ohunyushelwa esiNgisini kusho "indlela elula".
Impumelelo yomtholampilo wokuqala waseLondon iholele ekuvulekeni kwenethiwekhi yaphesheya, ekugcineni bekukhona izikhungo ezingaba yikhulu ezisiza abantu ukuba babhekane nomlutha. Kepha njengoba bonke befika ekwamukelweni kwekhava, wabhala incwadi eyaba ngumuntu ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni. Incwadi yanyatheliswa ngo-1985 futhi yasatshalaliswa emhlabeni wonke. Kuyafaneleka ukusho ukuthi indlela inkampani futhi yasiza nezinkanyezi zeHollywood.
Isibonelo, umlingisi u-Ashton Kutcher, owabhema ugwayi angamashumi amabili ngosuku, waphonsa ukubhema ngemuva kokufunda le ncwadi. Futhi phakathi kosaziwayo kufaka i-Britney Spears, uRichard Branson, u-Anthony Hopkins nezinye izinkanyezi zebhizinisi lombukiso.
Umculi upinki wabelane ngomlando wakhe wokuphila. Uyavuma ukuthi ngesinye isikhathi emsebenzini wakhe kwakukhona izinkinga ezinkulu ngenxa kagwayi. Ukubhema kwathinta ama-ligaments athinteka kakhulu, wacishe wasilahlekisela izwi. Kepha izincomo zika-Allen Carrus zimvumele ukuba ayeke ukubhema kube kanye. Uyavuma ukuthi ugwayi manje uyayenyanyeka kuye.
Isikhungo semisebenzi ye-Allan Carra eRussia, futhi abantu abaningi abadumile baphendukela kusizo lwakhe. Isibonelo, umklami u-Artemiy Lebedev njalo ngonyaka kubhulogi lakhe wenza ukululama lapho ekhuluma khona ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. Ngokwami, ukholelwa ukuthi kunguhlelo lwe-neurolynguistic (NLP). Yize eminyakeni engama-35 edlule, bambalwa abantu ababazi ngaleli ndlela yengqondo, eliphakathi kwama-accounting english.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, u-Allen Carr ushicilele incwadi ebizwa ngokuthi "indlela elula yokuphonsa isiphuzo", futhi waba ngumbhali wezincwadi, okusiza ukubhekana nokukhuluphaxa ngokweqile, ukwesaba namanye ama-phobias.
Futhi ngo-2003 wabhala incwadi ethi "Indlela Elula Yokuyeka Ukubhema Ngokukhethekile Abesifazane." Njengoba isipiliyoni sabelaphi sisebenza emitholampilo ka-Allen Cart sikhombisile, lapho ukubhema kowesifazane kwehluleka ngobunzima obukhethekile. Abanye abameleli bocansi oluhle bayaqiniseka ukuthi, baphonsa ukubhema, bayobanjwa ngokwabo omunye, kunganzima kangako kubo - ukukhuluphala ngokweqile. Futhi le ncwadi isiza abafundi ukuba banqobe lokhu kwesaba.
Izincwadi zakhe zashicilelwa ngezilimi ezingaphezu kuka-20, ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona ividiyo yazo nokuhlola.
Umsebenzi wokugcina awuqedile ngaphambi nje kokuba kufe kwakuyincwadi ethi "Nicotine Conspiracy". Kuyo, u-Allen Carr watshelwa ukuthi ngaphansi kwengcindezi evela ezinkampanini ezinkulu zemithi kanye nezinhlangano zombuso, kanye nabezindaba zisekela izinganekwane zokubhema. Ngakho-ke, bayakwazi ukuthola ababhemayo nalabo abafuna ukuyeka.
Impilo yomuntu siqu
Kufundwa izincwadi zika-Allen, ungabona ukuthi umlobi ufudumele kanjani futhi nothando luphendula ngonkosikazi wesibili uJoyce, achitha naye iningi lempilo yakhe. Owesifazane waletha i-carru yezingane ezine, waphinde wasekela umyeni wakhe kuyo yonke imizamo yakhe. UJoyce Carr waba uFakazi ngokubhala incwadi futhi, ngokusho kombhali, ekuqaleni wacabanga ukuthi umyeni wakhe wayelele.
Futhi, uCarr wayengumkhulu ojabulayo owaphanga abazukulu abangu-11, futhi wakwazi wakwazi nokuvakashela iqhaza lomkhulu omkhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane ezimbili zokutholwa zakhuliswa emndenini we-Carr. Umlobi wazama ukuhola impilo enempilo, futhi ngesikhathi sikaphila samchaza njengomuntu onomusa, omuhle futhi ovulekile owayesetshenziselwa ukujabulisa abantu abaseduze nokumamatheka kwabo.
Ukushona
U-Allen wakwazi ukubhekana nalo mkhuba, kepha wayeseyithinte impilo yakhe, njengoba umgadli enogwayi wabhema isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ehlobo lango-2006, kwathola umdlandla oneminyaka engu-71 ngokubhema kwatholakala ngesigaba sokungaphenduli somdlavuza wamaphaphu, okwakuyimbangela yokufa. Umlobi watshela abathandekayo nabangane ukuthi wasala ukuthi angaphili izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye.
U-Allen ubuye wabhala isikhalazo kuMnyango Wezempilo e-UK. Encwadini, wacela ukwamukela inqubo yakhe njengeyisikhulu, esho ngokungagxili ukuthi ithonya lama-lobbyists asebenza kubakhiqizi bamasekela we-nicotine asebenamandla.
Ezinyangeni ezimbili ngaphambi kokushona kuka-Allen Carr kwanikeza inhlolokhono ne-Izvestia. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi wayazi kungekudala, wazibiza ngokuthi uyindoda ejabule. Ngokusho kwakhe, uyakuqonda ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu angagula ngomdlavuza, kepha ukubhema kusangamathuba amaningi. Le ndoda iyaqiniseka ukuthi ukube ubengazange aphonswe ngesikhathi esifanele, ngabe waphinde washona eminyakeni engama-20 edlule.
U-Allen Carr ushone ngoNovemba 29, 2006, wahlangana nokufa endlini yakhe eduze kwedolobha laseSpain laseMalaga.
Namuhla, ibhizinisi lakhe liyaqhubeka nokuphila. Ukujikeleza kwencwadi yakhe ethi "indlela elula yokuyeka ukubhema" kudlule amakhophi ayisigidi, izibhedlela zisebenza emazweni angama-30 emhlabeni jikelele. Ngendlela, emitholampilo yakhe, zonke iziguli zinikeza isiqinisekiso sosizo, futhi uma kwenzeka zingakwazi ukusiza, ukubuyisa imali. Kepha lokhu kuyaqabukela, ngokusho kwe-Carr, kubantu abangu-10 umphumela omuhle kutholakala emacaleni ayi-9.
Ngesikhathi sokufa, isimo sika-Allan Carra sasilinganiselwa kuma- £ 120 million (noma ama- $ 230 million).
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