Gutandukana ni ikintu gihindura impongore kandi kibahatira gutekereza ku kubaka umubano na mugenzi wawe uzaza. Nyuma yo kuruhuka, umugabo ahuye n'amarangamutima menshi: guhera ku burakari, inzika, inzangano, kurangiza ubutabazi, kwemera, kumva ubunyangamugayo no kwitegura gufata urukundo rushya.
Ariko bute niba uwahoze ari mugenzi we atanga impano? Ntukemere - bisobanura kubabaza, n'impano rero havutse ikibazo gifatika kivuka: Nigute wabona impano kandi ushimire uwahoze ari umufasha? Hasi ni inama nyinshi zo mu kibaho cyandika 24Cm.
Impamvu yo gutandukana
Nk'uko ubushakashatsi bwakorewe mu kinyamakuru Umubano bwite, hari impamvu 4 zo gukomeza umubano n'abahoze ari abafatanyabikorwa:
- Gufatanya (abana, umutungo, ubucuruzi, imari);
- Umutekano (umuntu yatakaje akamaro nkumufatanyabikorwa wurukundo, ariko akomeza kubandi, mumarangamutima ya hafi cyangwa mubyumwuka);
- Ikinyabupfura (kubera ibyo wemera, umuntu yizeye ko gushimira ibiruhuko, komeza itumanaho - ikimenyetso cy'ijwi ryiza);
- Ibyifuzo byurukundo (Gufungura Gestalt - kumva ko utanyuzwe hamwe no kutanyurwa hagati yabafatanyabikorwa).
Data n'inshuti
Niba ingingo ebyiri zambere zikoreshwa mubucuti, hanyuma kubaka imipaka bwite ntabwo bireba itumanaho gusa nabana, kwemerwa ninama, ibisobanuro bya kirazira, ariko nanone byitondewe kumiterere. Gushimira ni icyifuzo cy'umuntu ku bushake. Inama: Imipaka nkiyongereye "Urakoze, Nishimiye", no mu bucuruzi ku mugaragaro (mu gihe iyi myifatire ari) "Urakoze kubitaho." Mu ijwi ry'ubujurire, igitekerezo cy'imibanire nticyemewe, igisubizo ni gito, kiboneye, cyabujijwe.Ikinyabupfura n'amarangamutima
Mu ngingo ebyiri zanyuma, itumanaho nimpano bizamukana no gushidikanya. Gufata Impano kubashakanye, utanga ibyiringiro byo kuvugurura umubano. Niba utabishaka, ntukamwenyure, ntugacike intege, ntugaragaze amarangamutima meza.
"Urakoze, nishimiye cyane ko wanyeretse impungenge. Buri gihe uzi icyo nkunda, uracyaguma murugo? " - Ihitamo ritemewe.
Abambere kandi bahari
Niba umubano umaze igihe kinini wabuze ibisobanuro cyangwa umufatanyabikorwa mushya yagaragaye mubuzima, impano izatera ibibazo byiza byabakunzi bakundwa kuburyo hafi yukuntu uri hafi yawe, kubwimpamvu n'impano yatanzwe. Mu bihe nk'ibi, usibye inshingano "Urakoze", baza niba impano ari we ubwe ari intego n'inshingano zihishe: "Urakoze, nkwiye gukora ikintu cyose mu kungurana?".
Tutitaye ku kuntu imyifatire irangiye, gira ubupfura, urugwiro kandi urugwiro - ibi bireba amategeko agenga ikinyabupfura kurwanya abandi bantu. Ntugomba gutangira kumenya umubano, kurakara, guhunga, nubwo waba warababaje cyangwa wakwirakwiza ibintu bidashira bisanzwe mubuzima. Igitero kitera ibitero: Gira ikinyabupfura.