Kubura inyungu rusange, kutita ku nyungu rusange, gutongana, kutamenya - akenshi byumvise kuri iyo mpamvu zo gutandukana. Mubyukuri, umuzi nimwe - irungu, umuntu ahura numubano numufatanyabikorwa, ahinduka isoko yo gukonjesha. Icyo cyakora nuburyo bwo guhangana niki kibazo bizambwira uburambe bwubuzima ninzobere murwego rwa psychologiya. Ariko kubyerekeye uburyo bwo kumva ko umuntu afite irungu mubukwe kugirango avugire mugihe, abwira 24CMI.
1. Shogogolism
Kugirango twumve ko umuntu afite irungu mu bashakanye, ahanini ni ukwitondera imyitwarire ye. Byongeye kandi, ntabwo tuvuga kubigaragaza nko kudashaka kuvugana cyangwa kubura inyungu rusange. Bizaba ikimenyetso cyuko uwo mwashakanye cyangwa uwo mwashakanye yatakaje umufatanyabikorwa.
Ibimenyetso 7 umugabo afite umuryango wa kabiri
Nibyo, kandi hano birakwiye ko ibintu bimeze mubuzima biba bitandukanye kandi ntabwo buri gihe ikiganiro gishobora gufasha, ariko ibibazo byihariye ntabwo bikwiye gusangira numuntu uwo ari we wese. Ndetse n'umuto muto. Nibyiza, abandi bantu babaho babiherewe uburenganzira, batagize ibyo bakunda hamwe ningingo nyinshi: ni umukandida, akaba ari umukandida wa siyansi, "ariko ni beza hamwe.
Ariko abatezimbere ba psychologue bashakisha ikibazo cyo kwigunga mumuryango, basanze ibimenyetso byiza cyane byibimenyetso ari ibiranga imyitwarire abantu bake bitondera. Noneho kandi ni ukuvuga ko ari ibisanzwe kwinjira kurutonde rwimico mibi yumuntu.
Icyambere marike ni impengamiro yo guhaha itagenzuwe - Shogogolism. Umuntu udafite ibitekerezo byumufatanyabikorwa ashaka kuzuza ubusa bugaragara. Kandi uhindukirira ibikoresho - gukoresha amafaranga no kugura ikintu. Kandi iyi mikorere igaragara mubitsina byombi.
Gusa wenyine wibanze ku bajambi, ingofero no kwisiga. Nabandi - kubikoresho, ibikoresho bya siporo cyangwa ibikoresho byo kuroba, bikunze, nkuko bizakomeza kutigirirwa.
2. icyifuzo cyo gutumanaho
Indi "inzogera iteye ubwoba", yerekana ko umuntu afite irungu mu bashakanye, ni ugukurura ubwinshi bw'aba nyuma mu itumanaho. Byongeye kandi, usibye icyifuzo cyo guhora tuvugana n'inshuti n'abamenyereye (hamwe n'inama y'umuntu ku giti cye cyangwa kuri terefone), haramo ubushakashatsi budasubirwaho ku banyamuryango batabishaka. Bene ibyo bashoboye kumera nkabaturanyi ku ngazi, bakaba bafite uburemere "funga ururimi" igice cyisaha, cyangwa abo mu bice, cyangwa abo mubitabo bidasanzwe mumiyoboro rusange cyangwa kuri forumu.Nibyiza ko ibyiyumvo byiboneye bitera umuntu gushakisha umubano, kwishingikiriza kumwimerere, ntabwo ari imyifatire yemewe. Uruziga rw'itumanaho ruzaba rugari, kandi rwose abantu birashoboka ko batazaba na gato.
3. Ubushakashatsi buva kuri Ukuri
Ikintu gikurikiraho gikurikira mumyitwarire iranga abantu barwaye ubwigunge mumuryango ni icyifuzo cyo kuva mubyukuri. Kandi ntituvuga inzozi zubusa cyangwa icyifuzo cyo kumenya ubwacu - inzira zitorwa kurwego runini cyane rwa primititive. Uwo mwashakanye arashobora kongeramo kureba kuri televiziyo cyangwa ubwoko bwose bwibitaramo, imikino ya mudasobwa, ingaragu na loghiplayer, ndetse no gusoma ibitabo.
Rero, umuntu agaragaza icyifuzo cyo kuzuza ubuzima bwe. Uzuza icyo ubabazwa mumuryango nugushimisha itumanaho, ibitekerezo bitarenze igice cya kabiri, bimwe "bizima" bireba imipaka y'urugo rumenyerewe. Reka byombi "hafi".
4. Kwiheba no gusenyuka
Kenshi igaragara muburyo bwo kwigunga no kwiheba. Mu bihe nk'ibi, abantu bari hafi yabo, birinda kuvugana nabakunzi. Hanze birasa, ntuzane. Byongeye kandi, nubwo bashoboye kuvuga, igisubizo kijyanye nibitera leta ntigishobora gutangwa.Tandukanya abantu, mu buryo bunyuranye, kumva neza kwigunga bitera uburakari ku burakari, igitero cyagabweho kuba abavandimwe ndetse n'abakunzi, kwibasirwa no kurakara. Byongeye kandi, nko mu rubanza rwashize, ntibashobora gusobanura neza imyitwarire yabo.
5. Ubuzima bujyanye
Iyanyuma yibimenyetso byiza byerekana ko umuntu afite irungu mu bashakanye - ububabare: ibicurane kenshi, kubabara umutwe ndetse n'ubuzima rusange. Umuntu urwaye kwigunga areka isura yayo kandi ibinyabuzima, yirengagije inzira zisuku, ibiryo byiza, nibindi amaherezo bigira ingaruka kumuhumu.