Ibimenyetso byambere byumugore ufunzwe nyuma yiminsi ya bombo. Abakunzi bahita batangira kugenzura buri ntambwe no gushotora. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bizeye ko igitera imyitwarire ishobora kuba idashidikanywaho cyangwa ibintu bibi. Inzira zo gutsinda ishyari ryumugabo - mubikoresho 24cm.
1. Kwiyoroshya
Ishyari ridafite ishingiro ni jealies nyinshi za pato. Aba basore bafite ubushyuhe burashobora guhagarika inkwi. Niba kandi babonye igitero cyangwa uburakari inyuma yuwo mwashakanye, noneho birakenewe guhangayikishwa numutekano wawe no kujyana numugabo wawe kubaza psychotherapiste. Ahari iyi miterere iri ndwara ikomeye.Niba kandi umugabo ari umuntu wiyubashye, kandi ishyari gusa? Gisesengura imyitwarire yawe. Ahari ingeso ya koxs hamwe nabadahuje igitsina yagumye nyuma yubukwe.
Impamvu yo gufungira ishyari irashobora kuba itangazo ritagira ikibazo kubyiza bya bagenzi cyangwa isura, gutaka imibonano mpuzabitsina. Bizatera amakimbirane no kubura ubworoherane hagati y'abafatanyabikorwa. Niba umugore atatekereje ko ari ngombwa gusangira gahunda kumunsi agasubira murugo mugihe cyijoro, birashobora kuba impamvu yo gusiganwa.
Kurinda uwo mwashakanye mubyabaye, gerageza hamwe kugirango uvuge muri make umunsi. Ntiwibagirwe guhamagarwa kenshi, vuga kubyo uteganya gukora. Ntukikire mumugabo "umuriro w'urukundo" usingiza abandi bagabo. Niba utiteguye gutandukana numugozi na mini, hanyuma uhitemo imyenda hamwe. Icyo gihe umugabo azashobora kwerekana ibyifuzo bye.
2. Himbaza
Umugabo nawe asaba amagambo yemewe. Ntiwibagirwe gushimira no guhimbaza umukundwa kubikorwa murugo no gutsinda mu mwuga wawe. Bikunze kwibutsa urukundo no kwitanga. Inzira yo gutsinda ishyari ry'umugabo izaba ishimwe kubafatanyabikorwa imbere yabatuye hanze. Niba atari kurekuye "Abagore benshi", ntabwo bababariwe gukara cyane intsinzi ikurikiraho. Ibi ntibizangegura gusa kwihesha agaciro "Othello", ahubwo bizanakiza ubwoba.
3. Uzamuke ufite ibyo ukunda
Niki gukora niba ishyari mubuzima ryabuze "peppern"? Witondere ibyo ukunda hanyuma utange ibitekerezo.Birarwaye "kwacu" muri siporo? Gutera inkunga mubukangurambaga kuri siporo, hanyuma utange ibisobanuro nko gushimangira. Niba kandi umukunzi wawe adashinyagurira ku miyoboro ya TV hamwe no kuroba, igihe kirageze cyo gutanga no kohereza kugirango uruhuke kuri kamere. "Gushimisha kwabantu kurarangaza gukeka birababaza kandi bizatanga kumva ko ari hejuru.
4. Ntukishime
Ibitero bidafite ishingiro byuwo mwashakanye bitera ubushake bwo kwinjiza mugusubiza. Igitero, nk'urwitwazo, imibereho myiza mu muryango ntazasubizwa. Icyifuzo cyo kurengera cyangwa gutsindishiriza ishyari mu gukekwa. Mu bihe nk'ibi, hazabaho icyaha n'ikibazo kizaza "Uranshidikanya?".
Ntukemere "Othello" kuva muri leta yuzuye kandi byanze bikunze bishora uburyo bwo kwifata. Kandi iyo irari ryaranyuzwe, muganire ku kibazo kandi wemera amategeko yimyitwarire.
5. Erekana ubwitonzi
Inzira zizwi zo gutsinda ishyari ry'umugabo we ubushake bwo guhindura ikiganiro mu cyerekezo cy'ibisubizo kandi basinzira uwo bashakanye ku bijyanye n'ubusobanuro bw'umunsi. Umugabo aba atitaye kutizerana, hanyuma azaba yiteguye ibiganiro. Ariko, ubushotoranyi bugomba gukoreshwa nabadamu bizeye abadamu.
Ariko gukurura uwo mwashakanye hamwe no kurya no kurya hamwe nibicuruzwa bya Apocrodisak kuri buri mugore. Kwitondera umwuka no kwita ku mugabo biruta amagambo, kwiyegurira abadamu b'umutima bizashimangira.