"Kuti tisangalale kwa tonsefe timakhala," osati muukwati yekhayo, koma maonekedwe a olowa m'malo, ndikofunikira kuvomereza ndi wokondedwa wawo akamawoneka ngati ana olumikizana akaonekera. Zoyenera kufunsa munthu pa gawo la pakati - mu nkhani ya 24cm.
1. Kodi chidzachitike ndi chiyani ngati mimba simabwera?
Nkhani yosangalatsa kwambiri pa awiri imakhalabe "idzatenga pakati?". Ndipo ngakhale ngati ukwati utapereka mayeso azachipatala omwe akutsimikizira thanzi la okwatirana, nkhawa amakhalabe.Pezani mnzanuyo momwe mungachitire zovuta ngati zingachitike ngati mulibe banja. Kodi kukhazikitsidwa kumeneku kapena njira yoyambira, ndipo mwina, ndipo palimodzi khalani bwino - kuti muthane nanu? Mayankho a mafunso okhudzana ndi mimba yakonzedwawo imasiya nkhawa, zomwe zithandizanso ntchito yoberekera.
2. Kodi tidzabereka mwana wodwala?
Kumapeto kwa mwezi wachitatu wazaka, amayi amtsogolo amapemphedwa kuti adutse kuwunika koyamba, komwe kumathandizira kuti mudziwe zambiri zobadwa limodzi mwa mwana. Pankhani ya mavuto osagwirizana ndi moyo kapena kutsogolera ku chiletso cha mwana, kusokonezeka pakati ndi pakati kumalimbikitsidwa.
Banja lililonse limayembekezera kuti zinthu zitukuke bwino m'chochitika, kambiranani mpaka mkaziyo ali ndi pakati, komabe. Idzawononga ubalewo kuchokera ku chiyambi cha maziko a mkazi wake wa kupanikizika kwa mahomoni ndipo amathandiza okwatirana kukakambirana ndi njira zothanirana ndi vutoli.
3. Komwe mungapeze ndalama?
Pakadali pano, bajeti ya bajeti, yomwe, monga lamulo, ndiyokwanira kulipira ndalama za mwezi uliwonse ndi zosangalatsa, zinthu ndizabwino. Komabe, zinthu zimasintha ngati ana olumikizana akaonekera ndipo mkazi akuwonekera pa tchuthi cha amayi. Ndalama zabanja zimachuluka. Chifukwa chake, munthu ayenera kupanga ndalama ziwiri.Ganizirani pasadakhale momwe mungakonzekerere bajeti ya banja pamtengo wowerengeredwa, komanso kuvomerezana ndi mkazi akabwera kudzagwira ntchito.
4. Ndani adzakhala ndi olowa m'malo?
Pofunsa mafunso kwa bambo, zokambirana za zomwe zidzakhale ndi ana, ngati adwala kapena kukwiya kuti akhale okhazikika. Kuti tikambirane nkhaniyi, muyenera kukopa agogo anu kuti apeze momwe amakonzeka kuthandiza pakukula kwa adzukulu a zidzukulu.
Pazochitika kuti palibe zochokera kwa abale, lingalirani kusankha ndi nanny kapena kuganiza momwe mungasinthire dongosolo la ntchito. Nthawi zambiri mayi amaperekanso ntchito, ndipo mwamunayo amataya mphamvu zonse kuti akhale ndi banja.
5. Kodi mumatcha bwanji mnyamatayo ndi mtsikana?
Mwamunayo ndiwovuta kubisalira ndikusankha dzina la mwana, lomwe limangokonzekera kokha. Chifukwa chake, pa siteji ya mapangano, ikukwanira kudziwa momwe mnzanu amatengera mayina amenewo kuti monga mayi wamtsogolo, ndipo nthawi yomweyo tsimikizani chifukwa chokhumudwitsa.6. Kodi ana anu adzagonjetse bwanji?
Mwamuna amalandila udindo wa Atate "mwachisawawa", motero ndizovuta kudziwa kuti tsopano mu ntchito zake zomwe zimayambitsanso cholowa chake. Kudziwa mkazi wake, kupanga mafunso okhudza mapangidwe ndi chitukuko cha ana.
Mayankho azikhudza gawo limodzi la kuleredwa, miyambo yachipembedzo, yopanga masukulu, komanso chaka choyamba cha moyo, anthu akakumana ndi mantha sangathe kupirira ndi udindo wa Atate.
7. Kodi tingasunge bwanji chikondi?
Kutuluka kwa ana colunjika kumasintha anthu. Amayi atopa ndi kusowa tulo komanso poyamwitsa. Ndipo amuna akuyembekezera chisamaliro chomwecho, koma nthawi zonse samakhala ndi zomwe mukufuna.
Konzani pasadakhale pamene mudzapeza nthawi yocheza ndi mtima wonse komanso maubale achikondi. Dziwani momwe mungapangire moyo wogonana komanso amene mukudalira ana, pomwe mukukumbukira kuti ndinu achikondi anthu omwe amagwirizana ndi zikwama ndi mikangano yamphamvu ndi mikangano.