Imithetho engekho emthethweni yomphakathi ihlonishwa yi- "Okuzenzakalelayo": Abadala, Impilo Yasekhaya Iholela Owesifazane kuphela, Indoda nonkosikazi Abalala embhedeni owodwa. Le "" Mithetho "yaqhamuka nabantu uqobo, kodwa hhayi bonke abanamathele kubo. Ukuphambuka ezimisweni kubangela ukungamukeleki yile ndawo.
Kungani Indoda Nomkayo kufanele ilale ndawonye? Ukulala emakamelweni ahlukene akuhlali kukhombisa izinkinga ebudlelwaneni, kepha kubalulekile ukubona "izinsimbi zokuqala" nangesikhathi ukusindisa ubuhlobo.
Izimbangela Zokulala Okuhlukile
Bonke abantu bahlukile: Omunye ulungele ukudela ubusuku ezingalweni zomuntu amthandayo, futhi induduzo yomuntu uqobo iyabiza kakhulu. Ngokwenhlolovo yezenhlalo eyenziwe eMoscow, ama-70% emibhangqwana eshadile echitha ngokuhlukile, aqhubekele phansi ngenxa yokuhlwitha.
Le nkinga ayigcini njengela ukucasuka kumuntu oshade naye wesibili, kodwa futhi kubangela nobuhlungu bekhanda nokuqina ngokomzwelo. Ososayensi bathole ukuthi umngane womshado athatha umlingani asemlingani ngokwesilinganiso imizuzu yobuthongo engama-49. Umuntu akaweki, ngoba usuku luzizwa lucindezelekile ngalo. Impilo esondele kakhulu yabalingani. Isigamu sabaphenduli savuma ukuthi izinkumbulo zomlingani ziphonswa, zinciphise ukuheha kuye.
Enye imbangela evamile yizingane. Umama ukhetha ukuba nengane ubusuku neminyaka yokuqala yokuphila, nobaba wakhe baphumula kwelinye igumbi, ngoba kufanele bagcwaliswe. Morning kuye ukusebenza. Lapho-ke, ngenxa yomkhuba wokulala nengane, umama akamshiyi munye, ngakho ubaba uhlala elahlekile. Uchitha ubusuku bodwa, ngoba unkosikazi akakwazanga ukuhlela kahle ukulala kwezingane.
Izinzuzo nobubi bokulala okuhlukile
Ukuzilibazisa ebusuku - isisekelo somthombo onamandla. Uma ukulala okuhlukile kwabashade kuletha izinzuzo zombili kunokulimala, kungcono ukuhamba njengoba kunjalo. Umfazi olengiswe ebusuku uqinisile ukukhuluma nomyeni wakhe futhi ekhathalela ngaye. Akaphazamisi ukulala, ubusuku abuhlotshaniswa 'nokuhlukunyezwa'.
Hhayi noma kuphi ukuthi uhambe kusuka kuma-stereotypes athuthukise kulesi sihloko: Uthando luphumile futhi abalingani "bepholile". Abalingani abalala ngokwahlukana, balahlekelwa abanye. Ososayensi emkhakheni wokutadisha ubudlelwano babantu bathi ubusuku obusetshenziswe emibhedeni ehlukene busekela uthando nomqondo wothando.
Yini esebenza emndenini owodwa ongabhubhisa enye. Split Nights susa abanye abashadikazi. Lapho benquma ukuchitha ubusuku futhi, kuvela ukungaphatheki kahle. Umuntu washeshe wajwayela izimo ezintofontofo. Ukulala wedwa - kusho ukuthi akekho okhathazayo. Akukho okuhlwanyelayo nezingxabano ngenxa yokuntuleka kwesikhala embhedeni. Kepha ngenxa yomuntu othandekayo wakho kufanele unikele, ukuphendula, uzozama ukwenza konke ukubhekana nokuphumula okunethezekile komlingani oqondayo.
Ukuhlukaniswa kombhede nobusuku, akwenziwanga nesithandwa sakhe, kuzothinta ubudlelwano. Kepha umuntu ulawula ukuthi kuzoba nezinguquko ziphi indlela. Uma kukhona uthando nemizwa eqinile, akunandaba ukuthi umyeni nenkosikazi balala kuphi, ngeke bathinte umshado wabo.