Iningi labesifazane ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30 likholelwa ukuthi kunzima ukuhlangana nendoda enezinhloso ezinkulu. Ingxenye yesithathu yempilo ihlala, futhi ubudlelwane obuqinile abakhiwa. Ubudala buyidijithi kuphela, isimo sangaphakathi sibalulekile. Kepha ukulinda isimangaliso akufanele, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza futhi kubonakale lapho ungajwayelana khona nendoda.
Naba ngani
Thola ukwazana okumnandi kubangane kumnandi kakhulu. Owesifazane uzizwa enethemba futhi ngokuzithandela uya ukuxhumana nomuntu ongaziwa. Ubheka indlela aziphatha ngayo kanye nendlela yokuxhumana. Kwabakhethiweyo, umhlangano futhi ulusizo esimweni sokuphumula, ngoba ungakugwema ukungathandeki wedwa nentokazi.
Ngemuva kokuthi abantu ababili abanentshisekelo bajwayelana, umhlangano uqokwa kwi-cafe ukuze akhulume yedwa. Indoda izokwabelana ngemicabango ayengayivakashela enkampanini.
Emsebenzini
Ifilimu laseSoviet "isiRomani esemthethweni" asizange asibuke wonke umuntu, kepha icebo laziwa kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu. Umlando wothando uLyudmila Prokofievna no-Anatoly Effemovich "uphila" e-cinema iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-40. Isibonelo sabo sigxilisa abaningi ukuthi bengesabi futhi bafune umuntu othandile.Kuyafaneleka ukunaka osebenza naye. Indoda inamahloni okusondela kowesifazane endaweni yokusebenza, ikakhulukazi uma isezingeni eliholayo. Indaba yenkonzo ezophenduka umshado oqinile izoba wusizo kubo bobabili abalingani, ngoba bayobona njalo.
Uma uthanda uzakwethu, udinga ukummema ngosuku - ku-movie noma uhambe ngezinyawo epaki. Uma nje owesifazana enganqumi, kuzolinda isinyathelo sokuqala esivela kumuntu ongasoze wathola isibindi.
Ku-Intanethi
Embuzweni wokuthi ungajwayela kanjani le ndoda ngekhulu lama-21, impendulo ingeyokuqala - kwi-Intanethi. Izinkulungwane zezibonelo eziphumelelayo, lapho abashadikazi bahlangana khona nenetha. Izindawo zokuqomisana ezidumile ziqoqwa ezindaweni zayo zokudlala izigidi zabantu abafuna umlingani womshado.
Ukuze wenze iphutha ngokuzikhethela futhi ungayi emhlanganweni nobuntu obunobuntu, udinga ukuxhumana ngaphezulu. Imibuzo ephathelene nengane, umndeni, izinto zokuzilibazisa nezinhlelo zempilo "Dweba" isithombe esiseduze se-interlocutor. Ukuxhumana okwengeziwe kuzoba, ngokushesha lapho umhlangano kufanelekile. Ukuhamba ngosuku ngemuva kokuthunyelwe okungu-2-3 kungukuvusa, ubani ozolinda inkomishi yekhofi - akaziwa.
Owesifazane ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30 uzama ukuthakazelisa umlingani hhayi ngezimfanelo zangaphandle, kodwa zangaphakathi. I-Intanethi iyindlela enhle yokuhlanganisa impilo. Indoda ibona isithombe, kepha ukunakwa kugxile ekukhulumeni okuqhubekayo nokuguqulwa kokugeza.
Eklabhini yokuqina
Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30 kungenzi impilo yomuntu siqu hhayi kuphela, kodwa futhi nempilo. Emakilabhini okuqina, ahamba amadoda aphilile futhi anenhloso. Bathola isikhathi sokuzigcina sisesimweni. Le yindawo enhle yokufuna umlingani.
Uma isimo somzimba wowesifazane sikude kakhulu, umbono onesihlalo esinyakazayo uhlehlisiwe. Ukuqina kokuqala kwabesifazane ukudonsa ukwakheka. Woza ejimini futhi uxoshe wonke amadoda - Yini engcono?
Iminyaka yowesifazane akuyona isigwebo. Uma eqiniseka futhi uyazi ukuthi ufunani empilweni, isikhulu sizomhlangabeza hhayi ngo-30 kuphela, kodwa futhi eminyakeni engama-40-50. Ukusuka ekutheni le ntokazi icabangani ngaye, umbono wabamele ubulili obuqinile ngakho kuya.