Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, intukuthelo esheshayo iyingozi empilweni. Lapho-ke ukulawula imizwa kuyozuzisa emzaneni nasebudlelwaneni obunye. Mayelana nezindlela zokulawula imizwa ngesikhathi sengxabano - ezintweni zokuhlela ezingama-24cm.
Nikeza imizwa encazelweni bese uyisho kusukela kumuntu wokuqala
Thola ukukhomba imizwa ohlangabezana nayo esimweni esithile. Intukuthelo, ukuthuka, intukuthelo, ukukhathazeka, umona - okuhlangenwe nakho okusiza ekujuleni kokuqonda isimo samanje.
Ukuphothula imizwa ngendlela "yeSitatimende seSitatimende" kuzosiza i-interlocutor ukuba iqonde imizwa yakho. Alethe iqiniso elenze ukuxabana. Ake ungitshele ukuthi uzizwa kanjani maqondana nengxabano: "Ngicasukile / a", "Ngikhathazekile", "Ngiyesaba / a" a ". Chaza umthelela wesimo samanje kuwe noma kwimvelo. Sengiphetha, bika isimilo ongathanda ukusibona. Qaphela inqubo yengxoxo: Khuluma ngamaqiniso noma izenzo futhi ungabongi ukuthi ngubani oxabanayo naye.
Ngizocabanga ngakho kusasa
Khumbula ukugqama kwegama elidumile kusuka ku- "kudlule umoya"? I-heroine yaseRoma yethulwe ngokungafanele ekuhlinzekweni okuntekenteke, inikeza isikhathi sokuhlangenwe nakho mayelana nokuxabana nokufunga. Thatha ithuba lendlela bese uzinikeza isithembiso sokukhulisa ekuzilibaziseni kwakho. Okwamanje, umphikisi uveza ukunganeliseki, gcina ukuzola okuzokuvumela ukuthi uguqukele ezingxabanweni ezinengqondo nomqondo ojwayelekile.Ngendlela, amabili ahlanganyela ekuxabaneni. Uma i-interlocutor eyodwa ingahambi ukucasuka kanye nethoni eyengeziwe, khona-ke ingxoxo ingangena esiteshini sesakhiwo.
Shintsha Izindawo
Le ndoda ihlelwe kangangokuba yazwa kangangokuba yazwa amazwi okugxekwa noma ukunganeliseki, ukuthambekela kokuzilolonga kuyabangelwa. Kunesimo sokungakhululeki, okubiza ukuphendula okonile. Ukushintshana noma ukuhlasela kuzoholela ekuxabaneni. Uma uhlala uphendula ngempendulo engaphenduleki, khona-ke ukungqubuzana kungagwenywa.
Zama ukungena endaweni yomuntu oshaya imizwa futhi aqonde imbangela yokunganeliseki. Kwesinye isikhathi izingxabano zinesisindo. Nikeza ukuxazulula ukungqubuzana kwemigomo ezuzisayo. Umkhuba wokuhlaziya lesi simo uzonikeza ithuba lokuxhumana nomoya wabanye abantu.
Phefumula
Uma ungaqondi ukuthi ungayigcina kanjani imizwa elawulwa, iya ekuphefumuleni kancane futhi okujulile "Belly". Ukuphefumula okungamampunge kuphumuza ngokushesha futhi kunika amandla okusinda imizwa engemihle ngokuthula.Sebenzisa Ubuhlakani Bokuhlakanipha
"Ukuluma ulimi" kusho ukuthi "kuvaliwe ngokuzumayo." Ngempela, lapho umuntu ekhuluma ngezinto ezisheshayo, ulimi luluma ulimi njengokuzenzisa. Umgomo usebenza futhi njengokuvimbela ukuxabana.
Kuvela ukuthi uma kusenkingeni yokufunga, ithiphu yomfundisi ithengiwe kancane, umzimba uzosabela ekuvuseleleni imizwa nemizwa ezovela ngemuva, kanti nemizuzu embalwa izobonakala icabanga ngamanye amagama.