Amantombazane alinde ukubukeka kwengane okokuqala, akholelwe ukuthi ikhefu lokunakekela izingane ngokuyinhloko liyiholide. Owesifazane okhulelwe akalimazi umsebenzi, anakekele impilo yakhe, azolala futhi athole amandla - abantu abaseduze bayazi ukuthi lokho okuyisimangalo (ushokoledi). ) uhlala. Ihhovisi lokuhlela 24CMI liba khona ohlwini lwezinganekwane ezivame kakhulu ngesimemezelo.
Isikhathi esikhululekile
Abesifazane baphupha ngokuthi bangeke bakhuluphele kanjani egumbini lokugezela kusihlwa, pheka izitsha namakhekhe angenakucatshangelwa, bhekani izincwadi ezinhlanu ngenyanga bese uya ku-movie ku-movie. Kodwa-ke, umama wesikhathi esizayo akazange asole ukuthi lezi zenzo kuzodingeka zihambisane nosuku nasebusuku amaphupho engane.Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi izihlobo zithembisa ukusiza, umthwalo wemfanelo kubazali bazo, futhi umama akakakulungeli ukuhlukana nengane ngenxa yama-hormone avuthayo kanye ne- "Watchdog Focus". Ngakho-ke isikhathi samahhala sizoba ukuhamba nengane kuphela, maye.
Isikhamela
"Ngifundise ukuthola omama ngesimemezelo amahora angama-4 ngosuku," ukukhangisa kukhanya kuwo wonke amanethiwekhi omphakathi. Kungakhathaleki ukuthi uluhlobo luni lomsebenzi oluhlela ukuhlanganyela kumama, ngisho namahora amane kuzoba ukulimaza i-SNU, izindaba zasekhaya nezingane. Esikhathini sasemini, izibopho zasekhaya ziyaphazamiseka, isifiso sengane sokuba seduze noma "inethiwekhi", nangobusuku - ukukhathala, ukulala ngekhefu, ukulala ngekhefu.
Njengomthetho, izingane zikhathazeka ngokutholwa, ziguqula izigaba zobusuku bokulala, umuzwa wendlala, ukoma. Kulokhu, iholide eligcwele eligcwele alikwazi ukukhuluma, yini okufanele ngikhulume ngayo ngokuhola. Emini amaphupho, ingane kungcono ukulala naye, akukho okuhle - lokhu kujwayelekile.
Amaphupho amaholide
Lapho umbhangqwana oshadile usebenza, awwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi ukusetha iholide, kulokhu, okushiwoyo kukhulula kusuka ekunamathiselwe kuHlelo. Kodwa-ke, abazali babhekana nokwesaba izindiza, njengamanje abanomthwalo wemfanelo hhayi impilo yabo. Ukuphumula ngokwako nakho kuba yinkinga: Ukunamathela kwimodi yokudla, ukulala, ukugeza abazali nakho.Ukuzijabulisa
Ukuntuleka kwesikhathi sokufunda ulimi olusha noma ufunde izinhlelo? Akunandaba ukuthi kudabukisa kangakanani, kepha esimemelweni, ubuchopho bowesifazane bucabanga ngokunye futhi bakhohlwe ngisho nolwazi olunqwabelene. Kepha ngokwemibandela yokukhathazeka ngengane, amaphampu "ezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu: Yimuphi umsoco ofanele ingane, kungani udinga ukuhamba, kudingeka ini entweni ethile, yini inzuzo yamathoyizi. Futhi lokhu kuyingxenye encane kuphela.
Iminyaka emithathu
Owesifazane osesimemezeli ugcwele imibono, wakha amapulani, uguqula umbono wemisebenzi edlule, wenza izicelo ezintsha. Kepha, njengomthetho, eqinisweni, umsebenzi udlulela ngemuva, futhi uhlu lwemisebenzi yobungcweti luholelwa yi-Kindergarten, iholide elikade, iholidi elide . Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukunamathisela okusondelene naye kwengane kwenza indlela yokusebenza ebuhlungu. Ngakho-ke, ukuncipha kaningi kuthatha iminyaka engaphezu kwemithathu.Igugu
Kudala ngifisa ukufunda ukuthi ngingahle ngifunde kanjani i-crochet, embombomboleko enobuhlalu noma amakhekhe omlilo uku-oda? Kuzoba nzima ukufeza isimemezelo, ngoba amakilasi anjalo adinga ukugxila, ukubekezela okungelosi kanye nokuba khona kwamahhala amahora ambalwa. Isikhathi esithi "segolide" sizoba yiminyaka yengane lapho abazali bezokwazi ukuthola izinto ezivamile zokuzilibazisa.
Uhlelo
Ngeke isebenze. Manje umphathi yingane eyayiyindlela ecacile yosuku isidingo. Ngakho-ke, umama kuzofanela asukume usekusekuseni (mhlawumbe ngisho nangaphambi kokusebenza), futhi ehamba futhi ehamba ngohlelo, ungakhohlwa ngezinto zasekhaya.
Naphezu kwezinganekwane zesikweletu mayelana nalesi simemezelo, abazali abanolwazi akungabazi ukuthi ukubukeka kwengane emndenini ukuthola injabulo, ukuqinisa ubudlelwano, noshintsho olungaguquki endleleni yokuphila luyenza lucebile.