Ngokusho kweFederal State Statistics Service (Rossstat), inani lokuhlakazeka kwemindeni likhula ngokuqinile. Phakathi kwezimbangela zesehlukaniso, ukuncika komunye wabashadikazi kuyabuswa, ukungabikho kwezindlu zalo, ukungathandi ukuqala izingane, indawo yokuhlala ende ehlukile. IHhovisi Lomhleli Lika-24CMI lifinyelele ekukhetheni kwezihloko ukuthi kungakuhle ukuthi kuxoxwe ngalo nendoda ngaphambi komshado ukuze "lezimanga" azange zibangele ubudlelwano bomndeni wesikhashana.
Ama-Psychological Nuances
I-Psychology Yomndeni iphakamisa ukuthi izindima zesikhathi esizayo zithandana ngokwengeziwe: Indabuko (umyeni, inhloko yomndeni; unkosikazi - umfazi wasendlini, umama), onobungane (izici zomnotho).Ngaphambi komshado, kungakuhle ukuthi kuxoxwe ngesizinda sowesilisa sokuzibophezela kanye nezinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo esiseduze: kungazelelwe owesimame afune ukwakha umsebenzi, kanye namaphupho wabalingani abahlanu ngemuva komshado. Yamukela okhethiwe njengoba kunjalo, kunzima, kepha wenza umsebenzi.
Izikhombisi-ndlela zokuphila
Ukubhekwa ngokucophelela kwemikhuba yansuku zonke, indlela yokuphila, imibuzo emayelana namaphupho nezinhlelo kuzosiza owesifazane ukuba afunde umlingani esondele futhi alungise indlela yempilo. Isibonelo, umakoti wekusasa angafuna ukuba "yintokazi yokuqala" nesandla sokunene sama-vertices omngane womshado, futhi umlingani kusihlwa udlula inkula yesayensi "futhi uyasithokozela isimo emphakathini nasemsebenzini.
Ukubamba iqhaza kwabazali
Umama nobaba kwesinye isikhathi babaluleke kakhulu kunabalingani, ngokwesibonelo, ezimweni zenhlekelele noma ukuzalwa kwezingane. Owesifazane ngaphambi kokuba umshado ufiseleka ukuxoxa nowesilisa, iyiphi indawo ebudlelwaneni ezobayo (isikhathi sokuhlala endlini, inhlangano yamaholide omndeni, amaholide, iqhaza ekukhuliseni izingane, usizo lwezezimali).
Izingane
Enye i-nuance iyisimo sezingane. Kungcono hhayi nje ukuxoxa ngenani lenzalo oyifunayo, kepha futhi unqume inqubo uma kwenzeka kungangeni kokuzala, ukukhulelwa okungafuneki, ukusatshalaliswa kwemisebenzi lapho kuzalwa khona ingane.Ezezimali kanye nezezakhiwo ezithengiswayo
Izikweletu zemalimboleko, intela iba "ukumangala" okungathandeki ngemuva komshado. Ingxoxo eqotho yezinkinga zezezimali, ukutshala imali enkulu, ukutholwa kwezindawo ezithengiswayo nempahla eshukumisayo iqinisa isisekelo sobudlelwano bomndeni. Omunye uphupha indlu yezwe nezimoto ezimbili, futhi othile utshala imali kumasheya ezinkampani - zombili, nezinye izinzuzo uma izifiso namaphupho anenhloso evamile.
Ukuncika
Umlutha ongaba khona ungabonakala kusengaphambili, noma ngabe owesifazane nomuntu ejabule emakilabhini ngesikhathi "eswidi elithengiwe elithengiwe. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde kumlingani wakho ngaphambi komshado, uma ngabe kukhona amacala okwanele izidakamizwa, utshwala, ukugembula, okwedlule kobugebengu ezihlotsheni nabangane bendoda ethandekayo. Lokhu kuzovikela izinkinga ezikhona futhi kuzosiza ukudweba uhlelo lokusebenza lapho kuncike kukho kutholakele.Umbuzo obuseduze
UMkhandlu Womndeni wenziwa engxoxwe ngezindlela zokuvimbela inzalo, imvamisa yezocansi, isimo sezinto zocansi, amathoyizi wabantu abadala, izivivinyo, ubudlelwano besikhathi esisodwa ohlangothini. Ukuthula kwezingqinamba ezisondelene kuholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu ebudlelwaneni bomndeni nokuqedwa komshado, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuhlehlisa izingqinamba ohlangothini.
Impilo
Empilweni yansuku zonke, abalingani baxoxa ngokuthi yimiphi imithwalo yemfanelo eyabelwa umlingani ngamunye wesikhathi esizayo (imvamisa yokuhlanza, ukupheka). Mhlawumbe umbhangqwana womndeni uzoba lula kakhulu ukusebenzisa izinsizakalo zokuhlanza intokazi nokudiliva kokudla okuqediwe. Kuyadingeka ukubekezelela ukubekezelelana nobuso basendlini yomunye nomunye: Ukuqashwa kwemikhuba nokulungiswa kwawo egameni lothando - isihluthulelo sobudlelwano obujabulisayo.Izithakazelo
Ngabe kufanele kuthinteke ngekhwalithi yobudlelwano bomndeni nokunambitheka? Kungcono ukuthola ngaphambi komshado, ukuthi umlingani umele kanjani ikhabethe lesikhathi esizayo lomndeni, yimiphi into ethokozisayo abathandana nabo futhi ingakanani izindleko zezezimali ezidinga ukwaneliseka.
Izimo Zenhlekelele
Ubudlelwano obunempilo buphakamisa umsebenzi ekuziphatheni komlingani ngamunye. Ingxoxo ngezingxabano ezedlule nokuthi ungazixazulula kanjani zenza izinguquko kumaqhinga okuziphatha ukuze ungavumeli ulaka, ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.