"Ukuze injabulo kithi zonke wahlala," hhayi kuphela kukankosikazi, kodwa ngemuva ukubonakala izindlalifa, kuyafaneleka uvumelana womshado ngendlela yokuphila izobukeka lapho avele izingane ngokuhlanganyela. Yini okufanele uyicele owesilisa esigabeni sokuhlelela ukukhulelwa - ku-Material 24cm.
1. Kuzokwenzekani uma ukukhulelwa kungafiki?
Udaba olujabulisa kakhulu lwe-pair luhlala "luzokhulelwa?". Futhi noma ngabe umshado wedlula ukuhlolwa kwezokwelapha okuqinisekisa impilo yabalingani, ukukhathazeka kuhlala.Thola oshade naye ukuthi usabele kanjani kulesi simo uma kwenzeka ungazali. Ngabe lokhu kutholwa noma inqubo ye-ECO, futhi mhlawumbe, futhi ndawonye kuphile kahle - ukuxazulula wena kuphela. Izimpendulo zemibuzo mayelana nokukhulelwa okuhleliwe kuzokwehla ukukhathazeka, okuzothinta kahle umsebenzi wokuzala.
2. Ngabe sizozala ingane egulayo?
Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesithathu yokukhulelwa, omama besikhathi esizayo bayamenywa ukuba baphendule ukuhlolwa kokuqala kwe-perinatal, okusiza ukukhomba i-pathology yengane. Endabeni yezinkinga azihambelani nempilo noma eholela ekukhubazekeni kwengane, kunconywa ukuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa.
Umbhangqwana ngamunye unethemba lesimo sokuthuthukiswa komcimbi omuhle, kodwa, xoxa ngesinqumo esihlanganyelwe kuze kube yilapho umfazi ekhulelwe, nakanjani. Kuzosindisa ubudlelwano kusukela ekuqhekekeni ngokumelene nesizinda sokuhlinzwa kwe-hormonal of umkakhe futhi kuzosiza abalingani ukuthi baxoxisane ngezindlela zokunqoba inkinga.
3. Kukuphi ukuthola imali?
Kuze kube manje, umbhangqwana wesabelomali, okuthi, njengomthetho, wanele ukukhokha izindleko zanyanga zonke nokuzijabulisa, izinto zinhle. Kodwa-ke, isimo siyashintsha lapho kuvela izingane ezihlangene futhi unkosikazi uvela ngekhefu lokuya esikhathini. Izindleko zomndeni ziyanda. Ngakho-ke, indoda kuyodingeka yenze imali yababili.Cabanga kusengaphambili ukuthi ungazilungiselela kanjani isabelomali somndeni sezindleko ezilinganisiwe, futhi futhi uyavumelana lapho umfazi efika emsebenzini.
4. Ngubani ozohlala nendlalifa?
Ngokubuza imibuzo endodeni, ingxoxo yesimo mayelana nokuthi ngubani ozohlala nezingane, uma zigula noma zigula ukuze zihlukanisekile. Ukuxoxa ngale ndaba, kuzodingeka futhi uhehe ogogo nomkhulu futhi uthole ukuthi bazimisele kanjani ukusiza ekukhulisweni kwabazukulu.
Esimweni lapho kungekho zindlela ezivela ezihlotsheni, cabanga inketho nge-nanny noma ukucabanga ukuthi ungabuyekeza kanjani uhlelo lokusebenza. Ngokuvamile owesifazane wanikela ngomcimbi, futhi umyeni uphonsa wonke amabutho ukuba aqukethe umndeni.
5. Uyibiza kanjani umfana nentombazane?
Indoda inzima ngokwengeziwe ukunqamula futhi ikhethe igama lengane, elihlelwe kuphela. Ngakho-ke, esigabeni sezivumelwano, kwanele ukuthola ukuthi umlingani asabela kanjani kulawo magama afana noMama wesikhathi esizayo, futhi ngasikhathi sinye acacisa, ngesizathu esithile noma elinye igama awela ohlwini lokucasulayo.6. Izingane zakho zizoletha kanjani?
Indoda ithola isimo sikaYise "ngokuzenzakalelayo", ngakho-ke kunzima ukubona ukuthi manje esemisebenzini yakhe manje ekhuliswa yindlalifa yakhe. Ukwazi oshade naye, kwakha imibuzo mayelana nokwakhiwa kanye nentuthuko yezingane.
Izimpendulo kufanele zikhathaze umugqa owodwa wokukhuliswa, amasikelo, ama-kindergartens kanye nezikole, kanye nonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, lapho amadoda enokwesaba angeke akwazi ukubhekana nendima kaYise.
7. Ungagcina kanjani uthando?
Ukuvela kwezingane ezihlangene kushintsha abantu. Abesifazane baphelile ngokuqwasha nokuncelisa ibele. Futhi abesilisa balinde ukunakwa okufanayo, kepha abahlali bathola okufiselekayo.
Hlela kusengaphambili ukuthi uzosithola kanjani isikhathi sezingxoxo eziqotho nobudlelwano bezothando. Thola ukuthi ungazakhela kanjani impilo yocansi futhi othembela ekuhambeleni izingane, kanti uzokhumbula ukuthi uthanda abantu ababa khona ndawonye ukuze babe nenjabulo empilweni, futhi bangazibulali izinsalela zamahlazo nezingxabano.