I-Biograge
Intatheli uRadmila Khakova wanquma ukuba ngumlobi futhi wayengesabi ukungivivinya yena. Uzame ukuhlela impilo yomuntu siqu phambi komphakathi futhi wachaza isipiliyoni sokuthandana okukhulu, okulala phansi kwencwadi ethi "Izinsuku eziyi-147.Ubuntwana nentsha
URadmila wazalwa ngoNovemba 14, 1983 eTatarstan. Unina umama omake isiRussia nezincwadi, futhi uBaba wasebenza emakhadibhodi ekhadibhodi kanye nephepha. Le ntombazane yakhula umbhangqwana nomfowethu, kamuva owaba nguNjiniyela Wokwakha esigxotsheni saseKamaz.
Izindlu zabusa umkhathi wokutholwa nothando. Abazali abaqale ukuba ngabangane esikoleni bagcina imizwa yesisa eminyaka emide. Emndenini wobuzwe beTatar waphila ngendabuko, ugcizelela izindinganiso zokuziphatha nezimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu. Ngasikhathi sinye, uRadmila wayehlala ezwa ukusekelwa kanye nokusekelwa kweNative "Gang" evela kubafowethu nabafowethu nodadewethu abangamaRolusid, umalume, kubashana kanye nomshana.
UBhakova wobuntwana badlula eNaberezhnye Chelny. Wafunda esikoleni 47. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi isikhungo semfundo saba nedumela elihle, le ntombazane ayizange idlule esikoleni nge-disaskelkhe, ababesema-90s kuma-90s. URadmila ukhumbula ukuthi ingane ukuvikelana nabenza abenzile abakhokhele imali kubafundi besikole esiphakeme kanye nemholo ngokwayo kwalungiselela "uphahla" omncane.
Ngemuva kokuthola iziqu esikoleni, uHakova wangena eKazan Federal University, lapho aphothula khona ubuchwepheshe be-joudlism kanye nezobungcwele. Njengoba usuhambile wayohlala futhi usebenze eSt. Petersburg, bese eMoscow, uRadmila akazange alahlekelwe yikhaya lakhe. Wayehlala azi: Indawo yakhe lapha, eTatarstan. UJazukov, uKhakova waze waqasha isifundo seTartar, ngoba wayesebenzisa umnikazi ezingeni lasekhaya kuphela, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi inkulumo yakhe yendabuko yayihlale izwakala ekhaya.
Ezihlokweni, uRadmila wasebenza njengentatheli futhi wabona ukuthi amagama nombhalo kwakuwusizo lwalo. Kancane kancane, ezinye izinketho zengezwe kulo msebenzi. Uthathe ukumaketha kwe-Intanethi, ukukhiqizwa komkhiqizo, ukukhuthaza amaphrojekthi wezobuciko, futhi kwazinza futhi ku-Splash yendlu yokushicilela yamazwe omhlaba.
Impilo yomuntu siqu
URadmila akesabi ukusetha imininingwane ye-biography yokubuyekezwa kwendawo yonke. UKhakova ukhumbula ukuthi ngaphambi kobudlelwano bekulungiselelwe ngaphansi komlingani, ukuzama ukumjabulisa ngokubukeka nokuziphatha. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, intatheli yabona ukuthi ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi nomhlaba eshawini kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuba ku-pair.
Ukubona isibonelo esihle sabazali, intombazane yayihlala icabanga ngothando nomshado, kepha umzamo wokuqala awuphumelelanga. Njengoba sisindile enoveli ebuhlungu enendoda eshadile, uRadmila "wagxuma" kuye ebudlelwaneni obusha, okwathi ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa kwaholela emshadweni. Kepha lapho umnkantsha welapha, kwavela ukuthi lesi sinqumo senziwa ngokushesha.
Ukuhlala nomyeni wakhe u-Ivan, waziphoqa ukuthi akhuthazelele izinto ezazehlela izifiso nemibono yakhe ngempilo yomndeni. Wayethule futhi wazama "ukusebenza ekwakheni umndeni," kodwa kwavela njalo. Isibonelo, lapho intatheli efuna imali ethola imali yemfundo eyengeziwe, umyeni wamnika imali ngezikweletu, futhi ukubheka imali yomndeni kwagxuma le ntombazane.
Ngemuva kochungechunge lwemizamo ehambisanayo yokuhlanganisa isikebhe somndeni esibhidlikile, uRadmila wahlukanisa kakhulu futhi wacabanga kakhulu ukuthi isikhungo somshado sizokhuthazelela ubunzima bokugcina. Manje abantu abahlangene nakancane embhangqwana ukuze bavikele ukusinda, futhi bazenzele ngokwanele, ngobuntu obuzimele ngokwezezimali kuba lula ukuhlala bodwa, ngokwemithetho yayo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, uthando luba ukuphela kwesizathu sokuhlala ndawonye.
URadmila wabona ukuthi ngakho konke ukuphelela nokuthakazelela impilo namanje akufuni ukuba nesizungu. Wacabanga ngosizi wokuthi ngenkathi i-Intanethi ikwazi ukuhlanganisa izinhlobonhlobo zabantu abangaziwa, isizungu iba yinto evamile. Kodwa-ke, izibonelo zabazali nabangane bakhombisile ukuthi abantu bajabule ndawonye.
UHakova wanquma ukubheka umbhangqwana futhi uthathe isikhundla esisebenzayo kulolu daba. Ngale nhloso, kwashukunyiswa inkontileka nomshicileli, owaguqula imikhankaso emsebenzini wokuqomisana.
Ukudala
URadmila waphupha ngokubhala incwadi. Inhlabathi evundile kunazo zonke yokubhala kwakunguPerepetics wempilo yomuntu siqu. Njengoba sesizibuze ukuthola othandekayo, uHakova waqala ukuhamba ngezinsuku emadolobheni ahlukene namazwe, efingqa isonto ngalinye ngesimo sesahluko esisha sencwadi.Ngakho-ke kwaqala iphrojekthi ethi "Izinsuku eziyi-147", phakathi kwayo umbhali wahamba emhlabeni, kanye ngenyanga eshintsha idolobha nezikhathi ezi-3 ngesonto ehlangana namadoda amasha ezizwe ezahlukahlukene, ubuchwepheshe kanye neminyaka. Ngenxa yezicelo zokuthandana, uthole abalingani abasha futhi batshelwa ngale ndaba. Ngokufana, uRadmila wahola isiteshi se-telegraph, amabhulogi ku-LJ, VKontakte, Facebook kanye "Nestagram", lapho kwabelwana khona nababhalisile.
UHakova uvumile ukuthi wayengowokuqala ngosuku ngalunye wawela othandweni. Wayefuna ukuvela phambi komfazi omusha ojwayelekile wesikhathi esizayo. Kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uRadmila washintsha amaqhinga waqala wafunda ukuba ngangokunokwenzeka. Manje wabheka indoda enombuthano ngombono, noma ngabe wayemfanele yini.
Ngenxa yalokho, ngaphansi kwekhethini lephrojekthi, umbhali wathola uthando. Waba ngumjwayele okwi-inthanethi, intombazane eyayingakayitholi iphuzu lokuxhumana. Manje uKhakov wahambisana nale ndoda kuwo wonke amaphuzu. URadmila akazange enze lutho ngamathemba obuhlobo futhi wawujabule nje. Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, ifake imodi yobumfihlo futhi iyekile ukwazisa abafundi ngemininingwane yenoveli entsha.
Incwadi yabangela igagasi lezingxoxo - kusuka ekuphawulani ngentshiseko kuHeita. Ngokusho kwayo ngo-2019, ekhoneni "ye-Creative Laboratory" ebeka ukusebenza okufanayo. Ngesikhathi umbhali esebuyile ukuze azohlala eKazan.
URadmila Khakova manje
NgoMashi 2021, incwadi ethi "147 Dating" yaba yindaba yengxoxo e-Irina Shikhman Book Club "futhi ifundwe?". I-OTYYUB-Blogger edumile yanquma ukukhuluma nababhalisile mayelana nobudlelwano, ukuqomisana online, kanye nokuthi ungaqonda kanjani futhi wazemukela ngendlela yezinsuku.
URadmila uyaqhubeka nokwenza ubuntatheli, abhale ama-athikili namakholomu okushicilelwa kwe-Intanethi, ngokwesibonelo, ngesiteshi se-Freedom Square. Ubuye ahole inkambo yokudala "ngakho-ke kwakungu: Indlela yokubhala ngempilo yakho," lapho ihlukaniswe khona nababhali abaqalayo bezimfihlo zekhono.