I-Biograge
Umlobi kanye nombhali womphakathi uLouise Hay udlulile ebunzimeni obuningi empilweni. Kepha wanqoba yena futhi wafundisa ezinye izindlela zokwelapha. Ngenxa ye-biography nezincwadi, uLouise Gillion of Reger waqonda ukuthi ungafaka kanjani isifiso sokuphila.Ubuntwana nentsha
ULouise Hayy wazalelwa eLos Angeles ngo-Okthoba 8, 1926 emndenini ompofu. Umama amantombazane asebenze njengengubo. Ubaba wabomdabu Akakaze azi, futhi waphuka waphuza ngoqiniweyo. Abazali banake indodakazi endala, yaphondliwa kabi, igqoke ama-pickups, ingasho ukunakekelwa nokufudumala.
Ingane yombhali wesikhathi esizayo yayingazinzi futhi impofu. Waba neminyaka yokuqala phakathi kwamagundane nodoti, emijondolo enobuhlakani, kwakuyingane engathandwa ngayo emndenini. Ubunye buhlala bushaywa nguPadderitsa nonina, abakhulelwe udadewabo uLouise esimweni sokudangala okunzima, lapho intombazane ineminyaka engu-5.
Ubumpofu ozungeze i-hay, akuyona inkumbulo embi kakhulu. Ngenxa yendlela yokuphila yabazali, abantu uLouise bavame ukuba abantu abaseduze nabantu abangayazanga imithetho yokuziphatha. Ngakho-ke, eneminyaka engu-5 ubudala, le ntombazane kuqala udlame lwangokobulili olwenziwe ngokobulili oluvela ku-mile-tramp. ULouise Adult omdala uvumile ukuthi ukhumbula ngokusobala umzuzu wokuhlola okuvela kudokotela. I-tramp yagwetshwa iminyaka engu-15 ejele, kepha le ntombazane ibilokhu ishiwo ukuthi kufanele asolwe. Ngakho-ke, iminyaka eminingi wachitha ngokwesaba lokho, ephuma ejele, isigebengu sizoziphindisela.
Umuzwa wokuzethemba ngenxa yezintandane kancane kancane waba mncane. Icala elenzeke noLouise emcimbini wesikole eBangeni lesine, ngoba akufanele liboniswe kangcono ngesimo salo sengqondo ngaleso sikhathi. Esikhathini seqembu, abazali bakwabanye izingane bathenga amaqebelengwane ambalwa - ukungakhubazi umndeni wakhe.
Kuze kube manje, uLouise akakaze azame ubumnandi bakhe. Waqala ukusika amakhekhe, kwakubaningi kakhulu kangangokuba ezinye izingane zithola izingcezu ezi-2 nezingu-3. Lapho, ekugcineni, ukuguquka kwentombazane, okwakungokokugcina, ikhekhe lasala. Hhayi ucezu olulodwa.
Njengoba umlobi ehlaziya kamuva, le nkolelo yakhe ngokungabaluleki ayibeka ekugcineni komugqa. Ngale ndlela, amantombazane kwakudingeka alwe isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka.
Ekukhuleni kobusha, uLouise wadla izinto zengqondo. Lapho efika eminyakeni eyi-15, hay washiya indlu waya eChicago. Lapho, futhi ngokwabo zizongena izibopho ngengozi. Lokhu kuholele ekubeni ngumama kusenesikhathi - intombazane yabeletha eneminyaka eyi-16. Kepha umama uLouise wayengekho isikhathi eside, ngemuva kokuzalwa, ingane yamukelwa.
Impilo yomuntu siqu
Imigwaqo yempilo egunyaziwe yaholela hay eNew York. Le ntombazane yathola imali ngokusebenza njengomgcini wendlu, isikhonzi kanye nomthengisi. Kamuva, uLouise weza esakhiweni esiyimodeli, lapho amakhosi anethonya aqala ukunaka khona. Ngolunye usuku empilweni yomuntu siqu yentombazane encane kwakukhona ushintsho - wafika esigidini sika-Andrew hay, okuzayo oshadile. Umbhangqwana uhambe kakhulu emhlabeni wonke. Indoda nomkayo baze bavakashele ukwamukelwa kwamakhosi, kanye kanye nokudla kwasekuseni eWhite House.
ULouise waba yi-mannequin ethandwayo, wayenomngane womshado omuhle, kepha ukwazi kwentombazane akuzange kumshiye umcabango wokuziphatha okubi. Kuthathe kuze kube yisikhathi engazange siqale ukusesha ngokomoya.
Ngemuva kweminyaka engu-14 emshadweni, umyeni watshela uLouise ngenhloso yokushada nomunye, kwakungekho zingane ezivela kulo mbhangqwana. Owesifazane ubesesimweni esicindezelwe isikhathi eside, kepha izinsuku zihambe, impilo yayiqhubeka. Ngolunye usuku, uLouise waze wavakashela i-Fortune Tune, ebikezela ukuthi umcimbi omncane uzowuguqula impilo yakhe. Kancane kancane, lona wesifazane weza kuye futhi wakuqonda ukuthi konke kushintsha kube ngcono.
Into yokufunda
Ngengozi hay hit umhlangano wabahlanganyeli beSonto Lesayensi Yezenkolo. Naphezu kwemigomo kanye nemibono engaqondakali, intombazane yalalelisisa inkulumo. ULouise waba nesithakazelo, waqala ukuya emihlanganweni futhi athathe izifundo. Umhlaba wemfashini unqoba kancane kancane, ukukhathazeka ngokhazifisi kanye namashiya, kubuyele emuva ngemuva.
Ngakho-ke owesifazana ongazange athole iziqu esikoleni esiphakeme, waba ngumfundi onzima. ULouise ufunde zonke izinzuzo eziphathelene ne-Metaphysics, eyawe kuphela engalweni yakhe. Isonto laba yikhaya lesibili kowesifazane, wazizwa ushintsho olubalulekile ekwazini.
Ekupheleni kweminyaka emi-3, ucwaningo lukaLouise ludlulise ukuhlolwa futhi lwaqala ukululeka abantu abadinga usizo. Kwakuwukunqoba okuncane kokuqala lapho i-hay engazange ime. Owesifazane wangena ekolishi, wamemezela abefundisi, futhi wabandakanyeka khona ubusuku nemini. Imithetho yayigcwele ngokufanayo kubo bonke abafundi - hhayi ukuphuza utshwala, ingabhemi futhi ifunde ngempelasonto. Owesifazane wafika ekugcineni futhi waphothula esikhungweni semfundo.
Ngemuva kokuthi uLouise aqala ukudlala ngenkuthalo emihlanganweni, aqhubeka nokweluleka abantu. Incwadi yokuqala yowesifazane kwaba umsebenzi onesihloko esithi "phulukisa umzimba wabo". ULouise wafunda izinkulumo futhi wahamba, ukuthandwa kwakhe kwakukhula njalo.
Kodwa-ke, inkinga yaphinde yaphula inkinga - wayenomdlavuza. Owesifazane akazange avume ukuhlinzwa futhi aqala ukulwa nomuntu ozimele ngokuzimela. I-Hay ifunde konke ukwelashwa okungeyona kwendabuko, yasebenza kuye, yanamathela ekudleni futhi yaxhumana nodokotela wezengqondo. Ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, odokotela bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi umdlavuza wanyamalala. Ngemuva kwalesi sifo, incwajana encane ethi "Ungakupholisa kanjani umzimba wami" wadedelwa, lapho umbhali uchaza khona ngokuningiliziwe ukulwa nokulimala.
Esikhathini esizayo, odokotela abakhona abazofika u-Heay batshele leli phephandaba ukuthi uLouise wayengaguli ngomdlavuza, futhi lesi sifo 'sasisikisela.' Kepha kuthiwani ngempela umlobi we-athikili - ukuzenzela wena noma ukusikisela kumuntu othile, wahlala eyimfihlakalo.
UHey wabuyela eLos Angeles, lapho kungekho owaziyo, ngaphandle kukamama nodadewethu, ababehlala emaphethelweni. Lapho uhlangana nabantu abasha, owesifazane wanikeza incwajana ethi, okuzayo okuzayo encwadini ethi "Ungaphilisa Izimpilo Zethu." Kuyo, uLouise utshela ukuthi izinkolelo ngathi zivame ukuba yimbangela yezinkinga ezingokomzwelo, nangosizo lwezindlela ezikhethekile, ungashintsha impilo yakho ibe ngcono. Le ncwadi yafika kuhlu lwe-NYT lwemisebenzi ethengiswa kakhulu ye-United States ngo-1984, ihlala emgqeni wokuqala amasonto ayi-13.
Kancane kancane saqala ukuvela iziguli ezintsha, izicelo zezinkulumo zawela. Kwaphela iminyaka emibili, owesifazane wagcina ethola izindlu ngejubane elinjalo. Ngesinye isikhathi, uLouise wabiza udadewena ngomyalezo ngesifo sikamama. Umzali wayedinga ukunakekelwa ngemuva kwezinyanga ezi-2 esibhedlela, ngakho umlobi wamyisa kuye. Ubudlelwano nodade noMama bakwazile ukusungula.
Ngo-1985, uLouise waqala ukusebenza namadoda ayi-6 enokuxilongwa kwengculazi, ngemuva kweminyaka emi-3 leli qembu lenyuka labantu abangama-850. Umlobi waqala ukunyakaza kothando nokusekelwa kudala ngaphambi komzuzu lapho abantu beqala ukugqoka izimbambo ezibomvu njengophawu lwengculazi. U-hay wabhala incwadi ngalesi sifo, umbize ngokuthi "ukudala indlela enhle."
Encwadini ethi "Phulukisa ngokwawo" uqobo "kubhekwa ama-psychoshomatics wezifo, ukucabanga okuhle nsuku zonke, iziqinisekiso ngempilo kanye nesihloko sothando ngokwabo.
Ngemuva kokuthi uLouise ekhanda inkampani yakhe yokushicilela Hay House. Okuqale ngesimo sebhizinisi "elingeyona eyezentengiso" egumbini lokuhlala kwaphenduka inhlangano ephumelelayo, ukushicilela izigidi zezinzuzo.
Ngo-2004, umsebenzi "ungaphilisa izimpilo zethu" waphinde waba ngumholi wokuthengisa ngenxa yokubonakala kweLouise Hay ohlelweni lwe-TV luka-Opro Winfrey noPhil Donahu. Ngemuva konyaka, umsakazo wokusakaza "Haye House Radio", owadalwa ngumlobi kanye nabalingani bebhizinisi. Ebusika bango-2014, umbukiso wakhe wokupenda kanye nemidwebo "ubuciko be-louise hay" eCalifornia avuliwe.
Ukushona
ULouise hay, kuze kube izinsuku zakamuva, anamathele empilweni enempilo, athuthukise ukucabanga okuhle kweziguli ze-AIDS, kwasiza ukuqeda ukuhlaselwa ukwethuka kanye nokufundwa kwabesifazane ababekwe phansi.
Ukufa kwathola umbhali ephusheni eneminyaka engama-90, ekuseni ngo-Agasti 30, 2017. Ukuphila ngomlando weLouise Hay, kwafakwa amadokhumenti.
Amacaphuna
Ukuzibophezela kwezenzo zethu kulele kithi kuphela. Ngakho-ke, badinga ukuthathwa njengabo. Ukwenqaba izenzo zabo, siyenqaba thina nomzimba wakho - ukusuka lapha kunezifo eziningi. Imicabango yethu ayizwisisi ikusasa lethu. Lokhu kungububi, umuzwa wokubhubhisa impilo emzimbeni nengqondo. Sidinga lapha futhi manje. Sithola kuphela lokho thina thina.I-Bibliography
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