Kubona, gukurura no kugumana icyogajuru cyubuzima - siyanse, kitigishwa kwishuri no muri kilige. Icyo abagore bakunda abagabo - ikibazo ntabwo aribwo buryo. Abashakashatsi bamaze gushyiraho urutonde rwimico ishobora gushonga imitima ikonje cyane yumugabo.
Ibikorwa no gutumanaho
Umukobwa ufite isura nziza, yicaye mu mbeba ituje yijimye mu mfuruka, ntibishoboka guhinduka ikintu cyo kwitabwaho cyane. Ariko umuturanyi usabana, utagira isoni zo gushaka ubufasha, saba no kubaza ibibazo byubupfu bihita bigaragazwa.
Ubuzima bukora muburyo bwibyabaye, ibyo akunda igihe buri gihe biherereye, rwose bitera inyungu z'abahuje igitsina. Imico y'abagore yemeza ko iruhande rwe ntazarambirwa mu kiganiro cya gicuti, cyangwa mu mibanire ya hafi, nyirasenge.
Igikundiro
Nubwo byazamuwe na tereviziyo yerekana amashusho yuburyo, "mu maso haturutse ku gifuniko" Ahubwo azatera ubwoba. Urashobora gutsinda gusa mugutera isura gusa, ahubwo ukanana igikundiro kugiti cyawe. Umucyo mwiza, ufunguye, urabagirana, umukobwa mwiza mubikoresho byubuzima bizatanga ibintu bitandukanye hamwe nuburyo bwa slim hamwe nibipimo bya kera.Unkunda
Akenshi, ababyeyi n'abarimu batsimbataje neza imico nk'iyi yo kunegura, kwiyoroshya na altruism, icyifuzo cyo kuba "umuntu mwiza." Kandi dore umukobwa ufite icyubahiro gito ahitamo egoist ikonje mubafatanyabikorwa, bagerageza gushyuha no kwitaho, shyira umutware mubi. Ikiza kuri wewe, gushora igihe n'amafaranga, ariko biba iby'ubusa. Nyuma yigituba cyanze bikunze, kubababaje bizatangira gushinja kandi, nukuvuga, bizaba byiza.
Abavuga muri psychologue, abanditsi bakunzwe ya BestseSellers nabatoza Amasomo ya Femininine bahuriza gusa igisubizo cyikibazo cyo gutsinda umugabo. Kuva firime y'Abasoviyeti, "igikundiro kandi cyiza" gishimangira akamaro k'ubushobozi bwo gufata no kwikunda. Ntibyoroshye - kimwe nka kinohero, biterwa nindorerwamo zo mu ndorerwamo, abandi bambuwe mu maduka n'abakobwa bakobwa, kandi amasomo yonyine ya psychotherapiste azafasha icya gatatu.
Ubukungu nubushobozi bwo guteka
Umugore wubukungu ntabwo azarira hejuru yo kugurisha "inkweto nyinshi, mugihe umusirikare we atigeze afatanije numutwe wa Jenerali. Bizashobora kuba ubukungu no kwinuba, hamwe na mugenzi bukwiye ubuzima bwubuzima buri gihe bwo kwishyura hamwe na ijana.Kugirango utavuga, kandi imvugo ishaje "inzira igana kumutima wumugabo ibeshya mu nda" iracyafite ibisobanuro byizerwa, uburyo bwo gukunda umugabo. Ndetse n'inyenyeri, mu nzu yacyo itwikiriwe kumeza, rimwe na rimwe, bishora mu gihe ibyobo bitoragura.
Kubwibyo, kuboneka inshuro eshatu zibihe by'ibigo bizaba impaka ziremereye mu gutsinda abantu. N'ubundi kandi, aya ni amahirwe yo kutagaragaza gusa ubwenge bwumugore murugo, ahubwo nawe ufite akamaro k'umubano.
Umudamu ufite imico
Ntabwo byanze bikunze gutegura systerics buri munsi. Ariko kugirango ukomeze ijwi, rivuga cyane inzozi n'ibyifuzo, byerekana ibisabwa kandi biciriritse, birasabwa. N'imiryango y'abagabo.
Bose kuko batuje, mumahoro, wambuwe amayeri kandi ugasimbuka ubuzima bwamarangamutima bitanga umutekano. Ariko umugabo ni umuhigi kandi azagerageza vuba kugirango akuremo kurambika ashakisha umugore ufite imico.
Impumuro
Umudamu wifashe neza yari azi imyuka ihendutse, afite indi ntwaro y'ibanga. Kamere ya Kamere yatanzwe cyane nabagore bahindura abagabo bakuru. Birahagije gukoresha iyi mico, kubungabunga igikundiro, gushyira umumaro, no kurushaho kurutonde rwacu rwiza.