Ati: "Kugira ngo dushimishe twese tubayeho," atari mu buki, ariko nyuma yo kugaragara kw'abazuka, birakwiye kwemeranya n'uwo mwashakanye ku buryo ubuzima buzagaragara mugihe abana bahuriye. Icyo wasaba umugabo murwego rwo gutegura gutwita - muri 24CM.
1. Bizagenda bite iyo gutwita bitaje?
Ikibazo gishimishije cyane cyo gusiga "bizatwita?". Kandi niyo ubukwe bwashizeho isuzuma ryubuvuzi ryemeza ubuzima bwabashakanye, guhangayika bisigaye.Shakisha uwo bashakanye uko wakwitwara mubihe mugihe habaye ubugumba. Uku kwakirwa cyangwa uburyo bwa Eco, kandi wenda, kandi hamwe babaho neza - kugirango bikemure gusa. Ibisubizo kubibazo byerekeranye no gutwita bizareka guhangayika, bizagira ingaruka kumikorere yimyororokere.
2. Tuzabyara umwana urwaye?
Mu mpera z'ukwezi kwa gatatu gutwita, ababyeyi b'ejo hazaza barahamagarirwa gutsinda ibizamini bya mbere bya peterolinal, bifasha kumenya ikibazo cy'amazungu mu mwana. Kubijyanye nibibazo bidahuye nubuzima cyangwa biganisha ku bumuga bw'umwana, guhagarika indatwi birasabwa.
Buri mugabo n'umugore bizeye ko ibintu byiza byo guteza imbere ibintu byiza, ariko, muganire ku cyemezo gihuje kugeza igihe umugore atwite, aracyafite agaciro. Bizakiza umubano uva ku majwi arwanya inyuma yinyuma yumugore we uteye ubwoba wumugore we kandi azafasha abashakanye kuganira kuburyo bwo gutsinda ikibazo.
3. Ni he ushobora kubona amafaranga?
Kugeza ubu, ingengo yimari, kimwe, ihagije yo kwishyura amafaranga yakoreshejwe buri kwezi nimyidagaduro, ibintu ni byiza. Ariko, ibintu bihinduka mugihe abana bahuriweho bagaragara kandi umugore agaragara mukiruhuko cyo kubyara. Amafaranga yo mu muryango yiyongera. Noneho, umugabo agomba gushaka amafaranga abiri.Tekereza mbere uburyo bwo gutegura ingengo yimiryango kubiciro byagereranijwe, kandi kandi byemeranya mugihe umugore aje kukazi.
4. Ninde uzicara hamwe n'abazungu?
Mugusaba ikibazo kumugabo, ikiganiro cyibihe byerekeye uzicara hamwe nabana, niba barwaye cyangwa ishuri ryincuke kugeza karantine. Kugira ngo uganire kuri iki kibazo, ugomba kandi gukurura sogokuru wa sogokuru ukamenya uburyo biteguye gufasha muburere bwaburere.
Mubihe nta gikorwa kiva kuri bene wabo, suzuma amahitamo hamwe na Nanny cyangwa utekereze uko wasubiramo gahunda y'akazi. Kenshi na kenshi umugore atamba umwuga, kandi umugabo atera imbaraga zose kuba irimo umuryango.
5. Nigute wita umuhungu numukobwa?
Umugabo aragoye cyane kubyumva no guhitamo izina ryumwana, yateguwe gusa. Kubwibyo, kuri stade yamasezerano, birahagije kugirango umenye uko uwo mwashakanye yitabira ayo mazina ko nka nyina uzaza, kandi icyarimwe, kubera indina runaka cyangwa irindi zina ryaguye kurutonde rwa comnoY.6. Abana bawe bazazana bate?
Umugabo ahabwa imiterere ya Data "biterwa", biragoye rero kumenya ko noneho mu mirimo ye kandi bikaba ubwuzu. Kumenya uwo mwashakanye, gutegura ibibazo bijyanye no gushinga no guteza imbere abana.
Ibisubizo bigomba kwita ku murongo umwe wo kwivuza, imihango y'idini, amashuri y'incuke n'amashuri, kimwe n'umwaka wa mbere w'ubuzima, iyo abagabo bafite ubwoba badashobora guhangana n'uruhare rwa Data.
7. Nigute ushobora gukomeza urukundo?
Kugaragara kw'abana bahuje ibihuru bihindura abantu. Abagore bananiwe no kudasinzira no konsa. Kandi abagabo bategereje kwitabwaho, ariko ntabwo buri gihe babona icyifuzo.
Tegura mbere nigihe uzabona umwanya kubiganiro bivuye ku mutima nubusabane bwurukundo. Shakisha uburyo bwo kubaka ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina kandi wizera gusura abana, mugihe uzibuka ko ukunda abantu babaho mu buzima, kandi ntukizere abantu b'imbaraga hamwe n'ibisimba.