Abakobwa benshi ntibazi kwihanganira uburambe no kwiheba mugihe umubano nigice cya kabiri winjire ku mpera zapfuye kandi urubanza rwimukira mu gutandukana. Sosiyete ibamo imyumvire yuko umugore watanye yahohotewe nikibazo nimpanuka. Ariko, hariho ingero nyinshi mugihe nyuma yo gutandukana nuwatoranijwe, uhagarariye igorofa ryiza ntabwo yazimiye, agenda mubitekerezo bibi, kandi ashaka umwuga hamwe nabandi ko ari ngombwa kuba kwishima no gutsinda.
Mu bikoresho 24cm - Impanuro z'Uburusiya n'Abanyamahanga mu buryo bwo kurokoka ubutane.
1. Kubaka umwuga
Ikirusiya Instadiv, uwatanze ikinyamakuru cya TV, umuringiteri na Model Olga Buzova ahangayikishijwe cyane nigihe cyo gutandukana na umukinnyi wumupira wamaguru Dmitry Tarasov. Ishyingiranwa ryabo ryamaze imyaka 4 4, kandi impamvu zo guturika k'uwo mwashakanye wahisemo kutavuga ku mugaragaro. Gusa muri kimwe mu biganiro bya Buzova yatsinze abakunzi ba Buzova ku bijyanye no kumena icyuho n'uwatoranijwe: "Turakenewe gusa iyo dufite ubuzima bwiza."Kurokoka gutsindwa mubuzima bwihariye bwibyamamare byari bigoye cyane: kuva kera ntaririra amarangamutima mumwanya mu buryo butunguranye. Ariko, icyamamare, aho kuba imibabaro n'impuhwe, byahisemo kwibanda ku ntego zabo, byakoranye cyane kandi binangiye, bitwara neza, bikomeza bitwaje ingorane zose no gutsindwa. Kubera iyo mpamvu, Olga ntiyari kumanura amaboko, ntabwo yiyeguriye, kandi yigenga yubatse umwuga kandi yigenga kandi agera ku burebure budasobanutse mu kwerekana ubucuruzi ugereranije na Tarasov.
2. Wisange
Ubukwe bw'imbonezamubano ya Andrei Arshavin na Julia Baranovskaya yamaze imyaka 9, muri iki gihe, abana batatu bagaragaye. Julia ntiyashoboraga kandi kwerekana ko umunezero utegerejweho uzarangira mugihe kimwe, igihe uwatoranijwe azashyira iyo mibanire yabo, ayisiga kumezi ya 5 yo gutwita muri 2013. Gutandukanya kwabo kwari ikintu cyo kwitabwaho n'ibihugu byose by'itangazamakuru. Umukinnyi w'uwo mwashakanye ntiyashakaga kumvira ubushake bwa mugabo ahindukirira umunyamategeko, amaze kugera ku butabera kandi agaragaza ko byari byiteguye kurwanira abana ndetse n'umuryango we.
Baranovskaya yita ku mwuga kuri televiziyo, ahinduka imishinga myinshi. Yatangiye kubyandika murufunguzo rwiza, ayita mama wa mama mwiza, ugenda cyane kandi akorana nabana, kandi ntabwo ari umugore watanye ubana na Alison wahoze ari umugabo. Mu kiganiro, Julia yabwiye ko Arshavin mubyukuri itagira uruhare mubuzima bwabana. Ariko, kumushimira, aramushimira kubera ubuzima bushimishije hamwe nubusa bukomeye bwo mu mwuka mugihe bari kumwe.
Baranovskaya yizeye: Ibintu byose bikozwe ni byiza. Niba atari gutandukana, ntiyabona ibyo atigeze atsinda kandi ntabwo yari gukora ibi imbere ye mubuzima bwe. Kera, yanyuzwe n'imiterere y'umugore na mama wishimye. Noneho, ibyihutirwa nibisabwa barahindutse, kandi nyuma yigihe cyo kwihebaje haje kumenyekanisha ko ubu ari we ufite inshingano kuri we no mubuzima bwabana batatu.
3. Fata ububabare bwawe
Nyuma yimyaka 5, nyuma yo gutandukana na Brad Pitt, nyuma yimyaka 5, ubuzima bwiza bwo kubashakanye bwashoboye kumubabaza, yifatane mu ntoki kandi akomeze kubaho, uko byagenda kose. Ubukwe bwabo bwarimbuwe angelina Jolie, ariko icyuho ntizane amarangamutima mabi gusa. Nyuma y'umukinnyi wabwiye ko muri icyo gihe, yari afite irungu, ibitekerezo bibabaje ntibyasohotse mu mutwe, kandi ni ukumugirira impuhwe yafashwe n'ubwenge.Ariko, yashoboye kwihanganira ibi byose: gusobanukirwa byaje ko byari ngombwa kubaho. Inzira yo gushyingirwa yari ifite amahoro, idafite ubugome n'inzangano: abahoze bashakanye bashoboye kubungabunga umubano ususurutse kandi wubaha. Na Jennifer kuva kumukobwa mwiza cyane yavutse mu mugore ukuze kandi uzi ubwenge washoboye kumva ibintu byingenzi, yize gufata ingorane no gutsindwa, gukomeza inzira ye.
4. Ntukemure umutima
Nyuma yo guturika kwa Macho ya Macho, Rafaello Folraks Colresse Ann Hathaway ntabwo yari hafi y'abantu akomeza kugerageza gushaka umunezero wabo. Ibyamamare byabwiwe mu kiganiro ko atari we wabonye neza ubuzima bwe. Ariko, umukobwa yashoboye kubyumva: ntibisobanura ko muri buri muntu muri buri mubano abashakanye bari bategereje iherezo nkiryo. Kubwibyo, urukundo fiasco ntabwo arimpamvu yo kuzamuka ubwawe no gutinya abandi bagabo. Bidatinze, Ann yahuye nurukundo rushya kandi yemeye ko yumva yishimye.
5. Amasomo ya siporo
Agatha Inzozi Yarokotse Gutandukana na Paulil Nyuma yimyaka 8 yubukwe kandi abwira abagore mubihe, uburyo bwo kubaho: muri iki gihe kitoroshye, birakwiye ko bikora isura kandi bikagira akamaro ko gukora ishusho, kugirango bihindure imico mishya. Imbaraga zifatika zumubiri zabaye abafasha na satelite yumugore icyo gihe, nuko asangira iri banga nabandi bakobwa.Nano, Agatha yahisemo gukora umushinga wacyo "gutandukana kwukuri", abashyitsi bari inyenyeri zo kwerekana ubucuruzi, barokotse gutandukana n'ibirindiro bya kabiri. Muzing yemera ko iyimurwa ryabayemo ubufasha bwa psychologiya kubateze amatwi, kuko rigizwe ninzira ishimishije yumutima wumuntu mugihe kitoroshye mubuzima. Inkuru zavuzwe mu kirere zafashije abatari boroshye kandi batera abantu icyifuzo cyo kubaho.
6. Inama n'inshuti
Umugozi wa Matilda nyuma yo gutandukana nuwo mwashakanye Sergey Shornov, uwo yabayeho imyaka 12, yanze kuva kera, yanze ikiganiro kijyanye n'ibyabaye mu bumwe bwabo, n'uburyo yatsinze iki gihe kitoroshye. Nyuma, mu kiganiro na Ksenia, Sobchak Matilda aracyavuga ko inshuti magara zamufashaga kurokoka ubutane. Ibyamamare bizera ko ari bibi guhangayikishwa na byose muri byose, ububabare ni bwiza bwo kugabana n'inshuti zitazatera mumwanya utoroshye, ariko uzashyigikira ijambo ryiza, riranga ibitekerezo bibi.
Matilda yavuze ko n'abafatabuguzi muri "Instagram", uwo batamenyereye ukuri, bamushyigikiye mu bihe bigoye, bagasiga amagambo meza mu butumwa n'ibitekerezo.
Byongeye kandi, uwahoze ari umugore w'ishoka yavuze ibyerekeye amategeko yo gutandukana, yitote ubwabo kandi akamufasha kubaho. Matilda yizeye ko ari ngombwa kwiga kwirinda amarangamutima mabi kandi aturika, ni ngombwa kandi gukomeza kwibuka ibihe byiza byose byabayeho mubucuti. Byongeye kandi, muri konte ya Instagram ye, ibyamamare byagiriye inama abagore "nta na rimwe bihanganirira ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose."
7. Urugendo
Guhangana no gutandukana, aho gutembera mumitekerereze, nibyiza kujya mu rugendo no gutatanya gato - icyifuzo nkicyo cyahawe Svetlana Bondarkinorduk. Nyuma yo kuruhuka hamwe na Fromari Bondarduckuk, yagiye mu biruhuko hamwe n'inshuti muri Malidiya. N'ibiganiro kuri iyi ngingo, abagore bagerageje kwirinda. Agakiza gakwiye gushakisha mubindi bintu: akazi, siporo, abana, ingendo - byose bizakoreshwa, Svetlana byose bizakoreshwa, Svetlana bizakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, Svetlana azakoreshwa, SVETLANE.
Irashaka igisubizo cyikibazo cyuburyo bwo kurokoka ubutane, ibyamamare byumvikane ko ntakibazo kidashobora "guhumurizwa kera", bityo kwimura amagufwa yahoze ari ayandi, bityo bikambuka ubuzima bwe. Byongeye kandi, ikosa rizagerageza ku ruhare rwabababaye, bibandwaho, kwitotomba no guhora dushakisha impuhwe mu bandi. Ariko ntabwo ari ngombwa kwihutira ku rundi rugero rukabije: Kugaragaza umugore ukomeye watangaje ko yagabanyijemo kugabanya ati: "Ninjye ubwe. Ndakomeye ". Ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ugutakaza umutima no gusangira no kuzenguruka ibintu bishimishije, byemeje SVETLANE.