Ngati mukukumana ndi zachikhalidwe, zokambirana za chilengedwe, za nyengo ndi mawonekedwe a achinyamata. Pakakhala msonkhano wosasinthika wofanana ndi omwe amadziwa bwino, kutulutsa zinthuzo kungafunsidwe pa maloto kapena mapulani. Ndipo ndi mafunso ati omwe ayenera kupewedwa tsiku loyamba - mu mkonzi 24cm.
Kodi mudakhala ndi chibwenzi pamaso panga?
Atsikana ayenera kupewa mafunso okhudzana ndi ubale wa wachinyamata m'mbuyomu. Mutu wakukamba udzaika kumapeto kwakufa. Gap yopweteka kwambiri ndipo chikondi chomwe chimatha ndi ubwenzi ndizosasangalatsa pokambirana ndi munthu wosadziwika. Osakhudza mabala ochiritsa. Ngati deti lisandukanso mu nthawi yogula ndalama, nthawi yabwino idzakwaniritsidwa kuti mukwaniritse chidwi.
Mumapanga ndalama zingati?
Osakhudza mutu wachuma tsiku loyamba. Kumbukirani kukula kwa chikwama cha chikwama chikuwonetsa ntchito kapena kufuna kupanga banja powerengera. Ndipo zimawopseza pansi pansi. Kuyankhulana kudzayima osayamba.Panthawi yoletsa mitu yomwe molunjika kapena mosapita m'mbali zimakhudza banja la banja la anthu wamba.
Kodi mumakonda / mumakonda?
Mukukumbukira? Zokoma zimasiyana. Osaphonya mwayi wachiwiri tsiku lachiwiri: Sungani mawu ngati "monga / osakonda", "chikondi / musakonde." Tsiku loyamba si nthawi yabwino kukambirana zizolowezi ndi zomwe amakonda. Simuyenera kuyika malo osokoneza bongo osayenera. Ndipo inde, yankho lingasunthidwe, chifukwa padzakhala chikhumbo chofunafuna.
Kukambirana, kumangoyenda bwino pankhani ya zakudya, kungakuthandizeni. Koma mutu wa zakudya zoyenera umakhala woletsedwa. Amuna alibe chidwi ndi zikhalidwe za chamoyo kupulumuka pa masamba kapena ma smoofewa. Tengani msonkhano woyamba wazomwezi ndi chakudya chamankhwala kudya chakudya chosankhidwa. Kupanda kutero, woyendetsa galimotoyo angaganize kuti mzimayi yemwe amangofuna tsamba la kabichi ndi masamba ndi okondedwa.
Kodi mumakonzekera ana angati?
Atsikanayo sanakonzekere kuyankha funso lokhudza kuchuluka kwa ana patsiku loyamba, ndipo anthu adzafuna kuchoka pamsonkhanowu kudzera munthaka yakuda. Mukamasamukira ku mavumbulutso anu pazokambirana, imapumira pang'ono. Amakhulupirira kuti funso loti limakhudza zinthu zapamtima, zimasokoneza ufulu wosankha mnzakeyo.Ana ndi gawo lalikulu, lokhudza ukwati pakati pa okonda. Osathamangira kuti mudziwe zokumana nazo zokhala limodzi panthawi ya "Dziwani bwino".
Kodi tsiku lotsatira lidzachitika liti?
Funso lotchuka kwambiri lili mndandanda wa mitu yomwe imaletsedwa. Ponena kuti, mwamunayo adzalakalaka azimayiwo kuti ayambe kuchitapo kanthu m'manja, omwe amakhala kuti ayankhe.
Palibe bwino kumveka funso kuchokera kumbali ya mwamunayo. Chifukwa chake mkaziyo amawona kuti ali ndi chiwongola dzanja. Ngati mukufuna kupitiliza kulumikizana, mutha kuyitanidwa mu mtundu wotsimikizira kuti "onetsetsani kuti ndidzaitana." Othandizira amawina nthawi yoganiza komanso kuthana ndi malingaliro kuchokera tsiku loyamba.