Kugawa ndi zochitika zosintha zosintha zadziko ndikukakamiza kuganiza zogwirizana ndi mnzake wamtsogolo. Pambuyo popuma, mwamunayo akukumana ndi malingaliro ambiri: Kuyambira ndi mkwiyo, kukwiya, chidani, kutha ndi mpumulo, kuvomera kukhulupirika ndi kukhazikika chifukwa chosonyeza chikondi chatsopano.
Koma zingakhale bwanji ngati wokwatirana nayeyo amapereka mphatso? Osavomera - zikutanthauza kuti munthu amene sakudzikhumudwitsa, ndiye kuti, ndiye funso loyenera lomwe lili ndi funso labwino: bwanji kupeza mphatso ndikuthokoza? Pansipa pali malangizo angapo ochokera ku gulu la olemba 24cm.
Chifukwa chogawa
Malinga ndi kafukufuku yemwe wachitika munkhani yaubwenzi, pali zifukwa 4 zogwiritsira ntchito zogwirizana ndi zomwe anali nawo kale:
- Ophatikizidwa (ana, katundu, bizinesi, ndalama);
- Chitetezo (munthu wasiya kukhala wokondedwa wake, koma amakhalabe wina, mwamaganizidwe kwambiri kapena mwauzimu;
- Mwaulemu (chifukwa cha zikhulupiriro zawo, munthu ali ndi chidaliro kuti kukondweretsa patchuthi, kusunga kulumikizana - chizindikiro cha mawu abwino abwino);
- Zikhulupiriro zachikondi (tsegulani gastalt - malingaliro osakhutira komanso osagwirizana pakati pa anzawo).
Abambo ndi Bwenzi
Ngati mfundo ziwiri zoyambirira zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazokambirana, ndiye kuti nyumbayo imangokhudza kulumikizana kokha ndi ana, kuvomerezedwa ndi misonkhano, komanso chizindikiro cha mtundu wa cholinga. Chiyamidwe chimakhala chikhumbo cha munthu mwakufuna. Malangizo: Chepe Monga Chikumbutso "Zikomo kwambiri, ndikusangalala ndi", komanso bizinesi iyi (malinga ndi malingaliro awa) "Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha chidwi chanu." M'mawu ake apilo, lingaliro la ubale sililoledwa, yankho lake ndi mwachidule, momveka bwino, choletsedwa.Kukhala aulemu ndi malingaliro
M'nkhani ziwiri zomaliza zomaliza, kulumikizana ndi mphatso zimabweretsa kusatsimikizika kwakukulu. Kutenga mphatso kuchokera kwa omwe kale anali, mumapereka chiyembekezo kuti mupeze ubale. Ngati simukufuna, musamwetulira, osachirikiza, musawonetse malingaliro owala.
"Zikomo kwambiri, ndikusangalala kwambiri kuti mwandiganizira. Nthawi zonse mumadziwa zomwe ndimakonda, mukukhalabe kunyumba? " - njira yosavomerezeka.
Zakale komanso zamakono
Ngati chibwenzicho chasiya kutaya tanthauzo kapena mnzanu watsopano wawonekera m'moyo, mphatsoyo idzapangitsa kuti munthu wokondedwa azikhala ndi inu, ndi cholinga chanji komanso momwe mungaperekedwe. Zikatero, kupatula ntchito ", zikomo, ngati zopereka zobisika ndi zobisika:" Zikomo kwambiri, kodi ndiyenera kuchita chilichonse chosinthana? ".
Ngakhale zitakhala kuti malingaliro, khalani ochezeka, ochezeka komanso ochezeka - izi zikuwonetsa malamulo a ulemu ku anthu ena. Simuyenera kuyamba kupeza ubalewo, kukwiya, kuthawa, ngakhale mutakhumudwitsidwa kapena kufalitsa mfundo zopanda pake kuchokera m'moyo. Zovuta zimatulutsa mkwiyo: Khalani aulemu.