Kuyambira kubadwa kumene, munthu wachichepere adzadziwa chikondi cha makolo. Amayi ndi abambo ndi odalirika achikulire. Anawaphunzitsa kuti supuni azikhala awoawo, akhululukireni zolakwazo, kukhululukirana zolakwa m'masandi, kukonza mawunilo, khalani pamodzi ndi aphunzitsi ku yunivesite. Ndipo lero, mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi amaitana ndi nkhani yodabwitsa kuti: "Makolonu, ine makolo, ndikufuna kukudziwitsani mkwatibwi kapena mkwatibwi." Nkhaniyi ifotokoza za momwe mungachitire ndi mwana wokondedwa, zomwe mungayankhule momwe angavomereze kusankha kwake.
"Mlendo wabwino nthawi zonse"
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Ana amatenga chitsanzo kuchokera kwa makolo, machitidwe awo. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti Mwana kapena wamkazi si buku, motero ma cosens sangakonde, amayambitsa zodetsa kapena kusakhutira. Palibenso chifukwa chokoka mutu m'mutu ngati zifanizo za utawaleza komanso zithunzi zowopsa, ndi bwino kukhala pamalo osangalatsa a Mzimu.
"Ndili wokondwa ndine wokondwa, koma kunena chifundo chomwe timafunsa!"
Lamulo lalikulu: khala bwino komanso molondola. Mwina makolo sakonda mawonekedwe a mtsikana kapena munthu wina, koma palibe amene ayenera kulankhula mokweza.Ngati wosankhidwa (kapena wosankhidwa) wa mwanayo adabweretsa mphatso yachilendo kapena yosafunikira, ndibwino osachita ndi kusasangalala: Kupatula apo, ndizovuta kusankha mphatso kwa anthu osadziwika bwino. Choyenera kwambiri pankhaniyi ndikuwunika zoyesayesa za mlendo ndi zolinga zake zabwino.
"Alendo owombera ma galling - sachita mafupa a Bry, osakupera nkhope, upatseni vints!"
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Ngati mukukumana ndi wokondedwa wa mwana, sikofunikira kuti mupange tchuthi cholumikizirana ndi kuduladula tebulo ndikudandaula kuti mbale (mwadzidzidzi sakudya), mubise keke ndi botolo cha champagne.
"Amadya Yemwe akudya, kumva"
Momwe mungakhalire patebulo? Eni ake amapanga malo omasuka, yambani kulankhulana kosasinthika kwa mitu yakunja. Ngakhale mwana akakhala ndi mapulani owoneka bwino kapena wokonda (kuti adziwitse makolo ndi gawo lalikulu komanso laudindo), simuyenera kuwongolera mafunso. Zikatero, amafunsa zosangalatsa, banja, mapulani akumadzulo. Mlendo adzapuma ndikuthandizira kukambirana.Mwanayo amakhala wovuta ngati makolo ayamba kulankhula za moyo wake, onetsani zithunzi zomwe amaliseche pagombe lakuda. Pofuna kuti musachititse manyazi mlendo, kapena mwana, makolo amakhudza mutuwu.
Nthawi zambiri makolo nthawi zambiri amakhala osasangalala ndi kusamvana kwa mibadwo. Simuyenera kukonzekera zonyansa ndikutsimikizira kuti usssr adabala ana asanu ndipo sanatope kuti chuma chakonzedwa ndibwino kuposa msika. Ndikwabwino kuti musakhudze mawuwo: "Ndimayang'ana pamutuwu."
"Alendo kuti achotse - osadzilira"
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Osasunga blog ya mlendo pamapewa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mpongozi apongozi, adagawana kuti amagwira ntchito mwadokotala, kulankhula molakwika za matenda ake ndipo amafuna kukakumana. Kapena "onani zomwe zili ndi Bach", ngati mwana wamkazi wa mwana wamkazi amagwira ntchito ndi alama.
"Amakumana ndi zovala, m'maganizo omwe amaperekeza"
Kuzolowera sizimayenda bwino nthawi zonse kapena ayi monga momwe tingafunire maphwando onse awiri. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti iwo ndi ena omwe ali ndi nkhawa, ali ndi nkhawa ndipo amasangalala. Odzikuza, poyang'ana koyamba, mwana wamkazi wa mkwati akhoza kukhala mnyamata wosamala. Mwana wamkazi ndi ma tattoo ndi tsitsi la pinki - Omaliza Maphunziro a Harvard University ndi alendo abwino.
Nzeru za kholo ndikuvomereza kusankha kwa wachinyamata, sangalalani naye mbali zatsopano zolumikizana kapena khulupirirani.