Maubwenzi a anthu - chinthucho chili chodabwitsa komanso nthawi zina chofooka kwambiri kotero kuti vuto la galasi limachita nsanje. Makamaka pankhani ya malingaliro - zochita zilizonse mosasamala kapena zochita za mnzanu zapafupi zimatha kupitilira zaka zambiri. Ndipo sizimangokhala ndi kusintha kokha - mabodza okwanira, ndi zifukwa zina zokhalira chidaliro mu ubalewo udzapezeka. Koma siosavuta kubwezera: za momwe mungayesere kuchita - mu nkhani 24cm.
1. Kudikirira
Ngati kudalirana mu chibwenzicho kumatayika, ndiye njira zomwe zingapezeke, momwe mungabwezere chilichonse malinga ndi zomwe zidalipo, ndizotheka kubwera ndi ambiri. Vuto lokhalo ndiloti njira iliyonse yomwe ingagwire ntchito konse - mkwiyo wa anthu amatha kufooketsa mawu a malingaliro ndi mtima, makamaka poyamba. Komanso, ngakhale mnzake mnzakeyo atanong'oneza bondo kuti sanayanjanenso.Chifukwa chake, chida chabwino kwambiri chidzadikirira - ndikoyenera kukhala kupuma kwakanthawi. Ndikwabwino kudziletsa kupepesa ndikupereka "pang'ono pang'ono" pang'ono, osalola kuti musamaganize m'malingaliro anu - mukukhumudwitsidwa, kuti mutha kuganiza bwino , ndiye kuti tidzamvetsetsa ndikusonkhana.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti izi sizongosankha momwe mungapatse munthu kuti abwerere pambuyo pa vumbulutso losasangalatsa. Ino ili nthawi yomweyo "kukonzekera kukhumudwitsa" - pitani ku gawo lina la kukhazikitsidwa kwa mkangano. Kapena musankhe kusiya kuyesa kubweza chilichonse monga kale.
2. Kunena
Mwayi wotsatira wobwerera pamaubwenzi ndi mosamala zokambirana zachabe: Ndikofunika kulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu pamutuwu, chifukwa chiyani kapena wina, yemwe adapereka chiwembu.
Kuzindikira mbali ina ya zolinga za mnzake ndikofunika kwambiri, chifukwa munthu wolakwa akanatha kupanga cholakwika, kuti apitirize kutsatira zake. Kapenanso anafuna kubwezera wamisala womwe umamupangitsa kwa iye, - zolakwa zimatha kukhala zosokoneza, ndipo zoterezi ziyenera kukhala zopepesa.
Mwambiri, kulankhulana mkati mwa awiriwo ndi chinsinsi cha mgwirizano wautali komanso wamphamvu. Komabe, ngati kuzindikira kuti izi zidanyowa kwambiri kuti kudalira komwe kudakumana ndi mavuto, ndibwino kuyambira mochedwa, kuposa kuyamba, osayambitsa vuto lomaliza.
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Anthu, kupanga zolakwika, mokakamizika kuchokera kunja kumayamba kulowa nawo nkhondo, ndikumanga chitetezo chawo. Izi ndi zomwe zimachitika zachilengedwe komanso zofala, chifukwa sindimakonda "kukhala opusa" ndi aliyense, atamvetsera mwakamchetechetechetechetechete. Komabe, ngati olumikizana "'amatanthauza kuti ndi" Ine ", ndi chikhalidwe chomwecho chimayambira.Ndikwabwino kukhala chete kuti muchoke konse ndi kupita, momwe mungayambire kuti mulungamitse, pomwe ndi mnzake. Kenako zimakhala zosavuta kupita kukakambirana.
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Ngati tikulankhula za Chiwembu, ndiye kuti njira yothandiza imabwezera chidaliro muubwenzi - kulola mnzake kuti azitha kuwongolera: pezani foni, makalata pafupipafupi kuti mutsimikizire, chifukwa zimatanthawuza kuwukira kwa gawo lathu, komwe kumawerengedwa mwaubwenzi - ngakhale anthu oyandikana nawo salandiridwa mu "zinyalala."
Njirayi, ngakhale imatanthawuza kuyanjana mogwirizana, koma othandiza mokwanira. Inde, ndipo palibe chobisa munthu olapa - ngati akufuna kuwongolera vutolo.
5. 5. Chiyambi
Kuti mubwerere kudalirika, njira iliyonse ndiyabwino, motero sikofunikira kuchepetsa. Mutha - komabe mungafunike! - Onetsani chiyambi chotsimikizira mnzanu kuti abwere pafupi. Mwachitsanzo, lembani kalata yopumira ndi kupepesa (osati zamagetsi) ndikuponya mthumba mwanu pomwe munthu amene mumakonda akugwira ntchito. Kapenanso kukonzekera kudabwitsidwa mwadzidzidzi - zoyipa sizingakhalepo, ndipo kugwedezeka kulikonse kumatha kulera zotsatira zabwino.
Njira iliyonse yolembedwa momwe mungabwerere kukhulupirika m'maubwenzi, ndizosatheka kuyimbira za Panacesa. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kukumbukira - ngati simulola zolakwa zosasankhidwa, mtundu wa woweta, usakhumudwitse wokondedwayo, ndiye kuti athetse mkanganowo ndi kutaya munthu wokondedwa sangataye.