Kungakhale kosavuta bwanji, ngati sikunachitike nthawi zina chomwe kukanakana. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wokhumudwitsayo amakhumudwitsa, ndipo sizovuta kukumana ndi iye. Koma ndizosatheka - mnzake, kapena woyipa kwambiri - wachibale. Osati kusintha ntchito yabwino kapena, makamaka kuyambira banja chifukwa cha anthu amodzi! Koma vuto limathetsedwa.
Momwe mungathanirane ndi zomwe zimachitika mwachilengedwe ndi omwe ali ndi vuto la kulumikizana ndi iye - mu nkhani ya 24cm.
1. Mvetsetsani ndi kukhululuka
Zina mwazomwe zimathandiza kwambiri, kuthana ndi mkwiyo pakuchita ndi munthu wina, ndizotheka kusiyanitsa njira: yesani kuchotsa zomwe mwachita ndi munthu winawake komanso zomwe zimachokera kwa inu. Bungweli limatha kuwoneka kuti sizowopsa, koma zenizeni ndizothandiza kwambiri.Chowonadi ndi chakuti nthawi zambiri anthu ena amakhumudwitsa nthawi zina, kaya ndi mphuno yayikulu kwambiri kapena kusokoneza njira yolankhulirana. Nthawi yomweyo, chikumbumtima cha makinawo chimakhala chosavutikira kuti "osavutitsa" ndipo samalimbikitsa kuti ayambe kudana ndi dzino lomwe lidapangitsa munthu kukhala wokwanira komanso wosangalatsa Interloor, ngati mutadula zigawo zosayenera.
Ndiye kuti, kufulumira ndi zilembo zopachika komanso kuwunika kwa ena, kumangokhalira kutanthauza chabe, sikuyenera. Kupatula apo, zingakhale kuti munthu wina akudwala, wazolowera kudula Choonadi-chiberekero m'maso (ndipo izi ndi zowopsa ngati zokhumudwitsa!) Ndipo iyemwini - mtima wokoma mtima, mzimu, ndi mnzake ndi wodalirika.
2. Kukhumudwitsa
Tsoka ilo, njira yoyamba yothetsera vutoli mosasangalala ndi munthu ndikugonjetsera mkwiyo pakulankhula naye mosavuta. Kapenanso kuti ndiolinga choyamba ndikosatheka kuwona chilengedwe, chifukwa kuzindikira kumatha msanga. Kapena kuyesa koyamba kudzakhala koona. Kupatula apo, ngati munthu amakhala ngati chopukutira, ndiye kuti amakayikira kuti izi zikuchitikanso. Ndipo nthawi zambiri kukayikira koyenera zana.
Ndipo pankhaniyi, ndikofunikira kuthetsa vutoli m'njira zinanso. Mwachitsanzo, kucotsa mtima pakuyesera "zolimbikitsa" - kuyankha mwankhanza, kukalimbikitsa kukwiya kokoma, kumangobweretsa zotsatira zoyipa. Chifukwa chake zimakhala zolondola komanso zaulemu, osayankha penshoni ya otsutsa, komanso kufunafuna malire.
3. Yesani kukambirana
Sizingatheke kukana mwayi wotere kuti mupange malo abwino kuthana ndi munthu yemwe amangoganiza zokambirana. Mwina, mukamanena zifukwa zomwe timakondera omwe ali ndi omwe ali nawo pamsonkhanowu, kulibenso, zidzayambiranso kugwirizana kwawo.Kupatula apo, pali gawo lalikulu loti "cholimbikitsa" si "zoopsa", monga zikuwonekera. Osangodziwa zomwe zizolowezi zake zikumasuliridwa ndi ena, kukankha zotsatsa kuti zisayesedwe. Kupatula apo, anthu nthawi zambiri sakhala okonzeka kuuza mnzake za zophophonya zake.
Chifukwa chake, ngati pali mtima wofuna kusintha mlengalenga, osati cretok pakona ya mano kukwiya, muyenera kutenga cholinga chofuna kutsutsa chidziwitso cha zinthu zoyipazo.
4. Kunyalanyaza kapena kubwezeretsa
Ngati munthu amene amanyoza, amayesetsa kutulutsa zofananazo, atapachika ndemanga zolembedwa kuti ndi zomwe zimamukhudza mtima, ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yoiyika pamalopo. Palibe chomwe sichisamala kuti khungu la uni, monga zolimbitsa thupi zawo zimasiyidwa popanda chidwi.
Ndipo ngati mupita kukaukiridwa ndekha, ndikusamukira kumbali ya zophophonya zanu, molimba mtima kwambiri ndi "wosautsa" wosatsutsika, ndiye kuti n`zotheka kukakamiza wotsutsayo kuti "abwerere kunkhondo. " Zowonadi, m'diso mwake, munthu nthawi zambiri samatha kuzindikira mitengoyo, ndikuona kukhalapo kwa mbeu mu "Zida Zowona" Zakutsutsidwa.
Inde, ndipo chonde nenani zotsalazo kusiya kusamulitsa kwa nthawi yayitali. Ngati mungathe kufafaniza tanthauzo lakuchokera kwa iye - chabwino kwambiri. Mwina zingakhale zothandiza, chifukwa nkofunikira kuti muchite nokha. Ngati sichoncho, lidzangokhala zolimbikitsa zowonjezera za "zolimbikitsa" kubwerera, kuti musadzuke pachiwopsezo.
5. Gulu
Njira ina yochepetsera kukhumudwitsa ndikupeza anthu amitima yabwino. Amayi omwe adzachirikize (alberit okha - ndipo izi ndizochulukirapo!) Pambuyo pa kuyankhulana kwina kosasangalatsa ndi munthu, "zolimbikitsa".
Kapenanso ndithandizidwe kuyang'ana zinthu kuchokera kumbali. Iwo omwe adapanga chifaniziro cha kusamvana koopsa - mwadzidzidzi kwadzidzidzi kwa wotsutsayo kudzakhala zophophonya zovomerezeka kuti ndikoyenera kukonzedwa. M'malo mokhala mkangano.
Kumverera kwa phewa laubwenzi ndikosavuta kuthana ndi mkwiyo pakulankhulana ndi mdani. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo, kupezekapo kwa mboni kudzathandiza kugwera m'matope omwe akukambirana, kuti asadzikhulupirire. Chifukwa chake, zimapangitsa kuti zilepheretse bwino zomwe mumachita. Pambuyo pa kuyankhulana kwina kosasangalatsa ndi "zolimbikitsa" ndi anzanu, ndizotheka kapena kukwatiwa ndi mafupa, kapena kuti mupange mgwirizano wolumikizirana.