More than half of the marriages in Russia end with divorce. Values in men and women have changed, because the family is no longer perceived as a strong connection for life. The slightest trouble provokes people to part. When a person is not burdened with obligations, it's easier to leave, but the presence of a child changes everything. It becomes an "anchor", which prevents the build new relationship. But the girl with the child will marry as well as lonely, it's not in a small man. The main thing is the right approach.
The presence of a child is not the cause of loneliness
To understand the issue of building a family for divorced women, psychologists conducted research. They interviewed the male and female parts of the population on the theme of the demand for "breeding" in further relations. 90% of men consider such women strong, smart and independent. The same number of women expressed opposite opinions. They consider divorced young ladies insolvent, lonely and unlucky.
The problem of representatives of weak gender, which survived the rupture of relations, is the wrong perception of oneself. They put a cross on personal life before the new partner will meet. After the divorce, stress appeared, the need to work a lot, the relationship with the ex-husband is stood up again, for the calmness of the child. All these factors are destroying for the self-esteem of "breeding".
Where to meet a man?
To predict where the dream partner will meet, it is impossible. But a woman who has a child, now other ways to make a pleasant acquaintance. First of all, it is worth paying attention to colleagues. A lot of them are known, the likelihood of unpleasant surprise is reduced. Mothers have no time to walk around clubs and restaurants, so they attract the attention of the male part of their surroundings.It is not uncommon in the 21st century to meet a man who also raises the child on his own while the ex-wife heats up in the Maldives with a new fiance. With a singing father, they get acquainted with the parent meeting or "intersect" with a look in the school corridor.
It does not matter where to get acquainted to the girl with a child, sometimes there is a decent person in the club. The main thing is to remember that the new chosen one should relate to the child carefully and respectful. If, from the first acquaintance, the man began to command and point to him what to do, the happy family would not work.
Dating chosen with a child
I need to acquaint my son or daughter with a partner when there is an accurate understanding of the fact that the relationship is not fleeting. To bring in the house of each second man - it means to harm the psyche of children. They are reported in advance that it is planned to get acquainted with the new friend of Mom. The meeting place is chosen neutral, but the child is not bored. A successful conversation will take place for a cheerful occupation.
Tip: Do not buy expensive gifts for first acquaintance. You should like a person, not his financial opportunities. But the woman's partner should not forget, because for him it is an exciting moment, and it also needs to be prepared. A man must be sure that this meeting will bring positive emotions, as it fears no less than the younger family member.
Whether the girl will marry if she and a child depends only from her. Vera needed and the desire to become happy. If you remember what to avoid in acquaintance of the new chosen one and the child, the meeting will be pleasant.