From the very birth, a little man first will know parental love. Mom and dad are reliable conductors in adulthood. They taught to keep the spoon on their own, take the first steps, forgive offenders in the sandbox, correct the assessments, get along with teachers at the university. And today, the son or daughter calls with stunning news: "Parents, I want to introduce you to the bride or a bridegroom." The article will talk about how to behave with a child beloved, what to talk about how to accept his choice.
"Good guest always at the time"
Children take an example from parents, their behavior, habits. It is important to understand that the Son or Daughter is not a copy, so the chosens may not like, cause bewilderment or discontent. No need to draw in the head in the head as rainbow and terrible images, it is better to be in a pleasant arrangement of the Spirit.
"I'm glad I'm glad, but saying the mercy we ask!"
The main rule: be benevolent and correct. Parents may not like the appearance of a girl or a guy, but no one should talk about it out loud.If a chosen one (or chosen) of the child brought a strange or unnecessary gift, it is better not to react with displeasure: after all, it's hard to choose a gift to completely unfamiliar people. The most correct thing in this situation is to evaluate the efforts of the guest and his good intentions.
"Galling guests - do not bry bones, do not grind faces, give Vints!"
If you meet the child's beloved, it is not necessary to make a pompous holiday with the table biting and worry about the dishes (suddenly he does not eat it), it is enough to cover the usual dining table, buy a cake and a bottle of champagne.
"Whose is eating, hearing"
How to behave at the table? The owners create a relaxed atmosphere, begin an unobtrusive conversation for foreign topics. Even if the child has serious plans for the beloved or lover (to acquaint with parents is a rather serious and responsible step in relationships), you should not arrange interrogation. In such cases, they ask for hobbies, family, plans for the evening. Guest will relax and support the conversation.The child will be awkward if the parents start talking about his personal life, show photos where he is naked on the Black Sea beach. In order not to embarrass the guest, nor the child, the parents independently affect this topic.
Parents are often unhappy with the disagreements of generations. You should not arrange scandals and prove that the USSR gave birth to five children and did not get tired that the planned economy is better than the market. It is better not to touch such questions and limit the phrase: "I have a different look on this topic."
"Guests to delete - not to cry yourself"
Do not hold the guest's blog on the shoulders. If the potential daughter-in-law, for example, shared that he works as a doctor, incorrectly talk about his illnesses and demand consultation. Or "See what's there with a Bach", if the daughter's guy works by Plumbers.
"They meet the clothes, in the mind they escort"
Familiarity does not always go smoothly or not at all as we would like both parties. It is important to remember that those and others worried, worried and felt awkward. The arrogant, at first glance, the groom daughter can be a very erudite, sensitive young man. Son girl with tattoos and pink hair - graduate of Harvard University and an excellent hostess.
Parent wisdom is to adequately accept the choice of a teenager, rejoice with him new stages in relations or empathize with parting.