Self-vacation is an opportunity to stay alone with yourself, relax psychologically, bring thoughts and minority in order. Following the Great Britain in Russia, the "separate leave" is gaining popularity. It is not necessary to be tired of each other, conflict: the desire of a woman to relax alone is normal. How to rest without a husband, what to prepare, how to behave on vacation in another country - will understand in order.
Before the trip
Prepare a phased plan and do not be afraid to ask for the Council of the Spouse: In the stressful situation, you will probably be no call. Discuss the following items:- Country and city for travel;
- Travel goal (explore culture, architecture, kitchen, and so on);
- On the maps to determine the route, purchase a guide, learn the phrases of greetings, farewell, thanks (as well as everything related to food, travel and residence);
Next, it is necessary to buy air tickets, book a hotel or hotel, calculate the budget. Tip: Write a "local" hotel name, address in the notebook in case you get lost.
Before the leave without accompanying the husband, certainly make copies of documents (passport, polis, insurance, visa, tickets), scan and send to email. The most responsible moment is the collection of a suitcase. Pay attention to seasonality, practicality of things. Do not take a lot of extra - strong hands husband will not be near.
What is worth considering
During independent holidays without a husband in someone else's country, it is even more important to fully follow the rules of personal hygiene: wash your hands, drink from your own bottle (without glasses), choose restaurants where you cook in front of you.
Do not walk in the evening and night time without accompaniment and turn into narrow, unlit alley. Lonely woman is important to avoid communicating with obsessive people, do not give them a phone number, hotel address, not to inform the place of residence and work. Limit the phrase "Sorry, I do not understand you."
Do not leave valuable things in the hotel room. To do this, it is desirable to take a spacious backpack with you, which can be worn in front (should not rely on the lifting of neighbors in the hotel, local residents and other tourists).
Ladies, do not wear open or calming clothes, high-heeled shoes. Husband will like your choice if it is in favor of practical, comfortable things in the wear.
If you are not configured to "sinful things" on vacation without a husband, do not ask unfamiliar men to help - it can be perceived as a sign of the location, a married woman is nothing. In most cases, men will be happy to help, but will require "continuing a banquet." He advises to prepare in advance to attention from the male floor and prepare three or four phrases, meaning a polite refusal to offer to a restaurant, to a disco, to the hotel. It is advisable immediately after the answer to go as far as possible.
On vacation without a husband, it is important to be convened with the spouse. Sorry in advance how often you will call. The man is important to be sure that you are all right, so do not be angry for excessive care, detailed questions and requests to send photos visited seats, share experiences.
Obviously, vacation without a husband is nothing particularly different from the joint. Fear of such travels is unfounded if a woman has a healthy relationship with his spouse.