The girls who are waiting for the appearance of the baby for the first time, believe that childcare leave is primarily a vacation. A pregnant woman does not strain the work, care about her health, they give sleep and gain strength - the surrounding people know that the decree is a "Kinder Surprise", where the fabulous expectations (chocolate) disappear, and the mysterious reality (toy) remains. The editorial office 24cmi amounted to a list of the most common myths about the decree.
Free time
Women dreaming about how they will not be fat in the bathroom in the evenings, cook unimaginable dishes and pastries, read five books per month, see friends at the weekend and go to the movie to the premieres. However, the future mother does not suspect that these actions will have to fit into the day and night dreams of the kid.Despite the fact that relatives promise to help, responsibility falls on their parents, and Mom is not ready for long parting with the baby because of the raging hormones and the "watchdog focus". So the free time will be only a walk with a child, alas.
Freilance
"Teach me to earn moms on a decree for 4 hours a day," advertising flashes in all social networks. Regardless of what kind of work it is planning to engage in mom, even four hours will be to the detriment of SNU, home affairs and kids. In the daytime, domestic responsibilities are distracted, the child's desire to be near or "Network", and in the night - fatigue, sleep with breaks.
As a rule, kids worries teething, changing the phases of night sleep, feeling of hunger, thirst. In this case, a full-fledged holiday cannot be speech, what to talk about earnings. In the day dreams, the child is better to sleep with him, nothing is good - this is normal.
Vacation Dreams
When a married couple is working, it is not always possible to set up a vacation, in this regard, the decree frees from attachment to the schedule. However, parents face the fear of flights, as now they are responsible not only for their own life. The rest itself also becomes problematic: adherence to the feeding mode, sleep, bathing parents in turn and so on.Self-education
Lack of time to learn a new language or learn programming? No matter how sad it sounds, but in the decree, the woman's brain thinks quite about another and forgets even accumulated knowledge. But in terms of concern about the child, the mother "pumps" to the highest level: what nutrition is suitable for the baby, why do you need walks, what kind of item is needed, what is the benefit of toys. And this is only a small part.
Three years
A woman in the decree is filled with ideas, builds plans, changes the idea of previous activities, forms new requests. But, as a rule, in fact, career is moving to the background, and the list of professional activities is headed by such as: location near the kindergarten, a convenient schedule, a long vacation and the opportunity to go to the "sick". In addition, close attachment to the child makes the way to work painful. Therefore, often decret lasts more than three years.Hobby
I have long wanted to learn how to crochet, embroider pictures with beads or furnace cakes to order? It will be difficult to fulfill on the decree, because such classes require concentration, angelic patience and the presence of free several hours. The "golden" time will be the age of a child in which parents will be able to acquire common hobbies.
Schedule
Will not work. Now the boss is a child for whom a clear routine of the day is a necessity. Therefore, my mother will have to get up still early (perhaps even earlier than to work), there is and walking on schedule, do not forget about domestic affairs.
Despite the debt myths about the decree, experienced parents do not doubt that the appearance of a child in the family is to gain happiness, strengthening relationships, and irreversible changes in the lifestyle make it still rich.