Ababukeli bakamabonwakude baseRussia kunye ne-Agevid I-ANATATRALS iqhelene negama le-Eugene Dobrovolskaya, elinokubonwa rhoqo kwiifilimu kunye nee-serials zisasazwa ngeendlela eziphambili. Nangona kunjalo, i-Evgensia ayisiyo kuphela umculi owaziwayo, kodwa kunye nonina - oonyana sele bekhulile, kwaye intombi iya kukhula kuphela. Ngokuqokelelwa ngesiNgesi sabantwana abaLawulayo banceda kwaye baqhubeke nokunceda iimfihlo kunye neenkolelo, ezinye zazo zakhankanywa kudliwanondlebe oluninzi.
Indlu-Intuthuzelo
I-Evgenia Dobrovolskaya iqinisekile ukuba indlu kufuneka ihlale ithobekile kunye nentuthuzelo yabantwana. Kwiindonga zomthonyama, umntwana unyanzelekile ukuba abe nobushushu kunye ne-ceress, kwaye ungazami ukwenza into ethile, njengoko abazali ngamanye amaxesha benza esinye isizathu sokusohlwaya. Ngesi sizathu, umongo akazange ahlule abantwana ngenxa yovavanyo lwesikolo, ngelixa egcina intembelo yokuba aba bantu banele bafana, umama wayenento eyaneleyo yokongeza "iziko lazo ezintlanu.
Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba onyana kwezolimo bomdlali weqonga, oneminyaka engama-32 ubudala kunye noNikolay oneminyaka engama-23, abaneminyaka engama-27 ubudala sele betshatile, abakhawulezi ukuya kumgama ekhaya kunye nomama, njengoko besenza njalo abantwana abakhulayo.
Ngaphandle kwamagama
I-Eugene ivakalisa ukuba unxibelelana ngokuqinileyo nabantwana. Baqondana ngokoqobo ngaphandle kwamagama - amashiya aneleyo ukubamba imvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, umfazi uqinisekile ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba afezekise ubungakanani bokubulela okunokwenzeka kunxibelelwano olusondeleyo. Akunakwenzeka ukufezekisa ukuphendula kumntwana kuphela - kuthatha ingqalelo eninzi yokuhlawula ubudlelwane bobudlelwane, apho izinto zingakwenzi ngaphandle kwencoko ngomntwana okwishumi elivisayo. Kwaye ke - ewe, ngokuzonwabisa kwe-exoshes kunokwenzeka ukuba yamkele imeko yangaphakathi yomntu omthandayo.
Ecaleni komntwana
I-Dobrovolkaya iqinisekile ukuba umama uhlala enyanzelekile ukuba abe kwicala lomntwana, akhusela kwiLizwe eliNgathileyo - abantwana kufuneka bazive bekhuselwe eluntwini. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ucinge kancinci ngemfuno yokohlwaywa kwesizukulwana esitsha, ungayilibali indlela yokunikela ingqalelo ekuqinisekisweni kwezenzo ezichanekileyo.
Kule meko kuphela ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ugcine ulwalamano olufudumeleyo phakathi kwabantwana nabazali kwaye uphephe ukonakala, oluhlala luxhaphakile kwiintsapho, apho umntwana akazange azive ekhuselekile.
Soloko kufutshane
Njengakwixesha lesibini elivuthiweyo, uNikolai noJan ngaphambi, kunye nentombazana encinci iNasya, ye-Yevgeny Dobrovolskaya ichitha ixesha elininzi elichithwe kunye. Umqobo wale mvume ayithathi umsebenzi-abantwana mababe nethuba kunye nomnqweno wokusondela, kubandakanya ngexesha lokuziqhelanisa nethiyetha okanye kwiseti. Oku kuvumela nokuba igrafu yokuyila ilayishe ukunikela ingqalelo kumntwana, ukugcina unxibelelwano kunye nalo. Ewe, nabantwana, ukubukela umsebenzi kamama, mhlawumbi nabo baya kuthathwa njengezibulo zihlobo ngokwazo.
Ukulungiselela ukuzonwabisa
I-Evgenia Dobrovolskaya ayibuzanga ebomini ukuba ikhule iindlalifa zokuyila eziya kuqhubeka nomsebenzi obambeleyo kamama, ngenxa yoko andikuthathelanga ingqalelo. Kule nto, kukho izifundo zeprofayili kunye nee-mugs, kwaye abantwana kufuneka benze isigqibo malunga nento abafuna ukuyiphumeza ebomini - zama ukubeka uxinzelelo kubo. Kwaye ekhaya kuya kubakho ixesha lokuphumla okumnandi ngakumbi: