I-Pedagogy yisayensi enganikiweyo iimpendulo kwimibuzo, ayikhuli indlela yokuziphatha kwiimeko ezinzima, ayithembisi ukusombulula zonke iimbambano ezinokuqikelelwa nezingathandekiyo. Ke ngoko, abantu abadala bafumana iindlela zokukhuliswa, ngamanye amaxesha bayalibala ukuba bakhawuleze baphume ngokugqithileyo, kwaye ke bamonakalisa umntwana. Malunga nenxalenye yabo - kwi-24cm ye-24cm.
Ukwala izithintelo
Le ndlela isekwe kufakelo oluqinisekileyo endaweni yezithintelo. Ukwenzakala kolo qeqesho kukuba emva kokubanjiswa kwekhaya kubomi bokwenyani, umntwana kunzima ukuzonwabisa kwaye afumane i-SAM.
Isebenza kuphela xa abazali bemisela imithetho: Yintoni enokwenziwa kwaye yintoni ebiweyo. Ufakelo alukhohlwayo, kodwa ukufunda ukunxibelelana, tsalela umnxeba.
Kwakhona, ukwala ngaphandle kokuchaza izizathu, umzekelo, utshintsho "kwiMigaqo yoMdlalo" (namhlanje awunakuyihlamba, kwaye ngomso-ayinakwenzeka) abazi iminqweno yabo.
Imeko yokubuyela umva: Inani elikhulu lezithintelo luvelisa ukungazithembi. Abazali bacinga ukuba babonelela ngokhuseleko, ngaloo ndlela ukuphazamisa ukuqokelela amava obomi kunye nezakhono.
I-Devlisel Dusile
Ukuba i-precclooler idumisa kwinyathelo ngalinye, ngaphandle kokuchaza izizathu, emva koko ugqwethiweyo ngexabiso lomzali. Imeko yokubuyela umva: Dealilolinels yemfuza yosana, xa ibonwa njengefanelekileyo, elinikiweyo.Umzekelo, i-preccrioler inconywa ngesenzo ngasinye, kwaye isikolo esisesikolweni kufuneka sifumane "ezintlanu", siphumelele iiOlimpiki, ukhuphiswano.
Indumiso - isikhuthazi esinamandla. Ke ngoko, kufuneka kwanele, ngexesha, ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuvumela imbasanisela efihliweyo: "ulunge ngakumbi kunoPetros."
Umntwana, ufundile ngendlela yokusebenza, uyalazi ngexabiso lezenzo, uyawaxabisa ngokufanelekileyo, indalo ayiyonakalisi.
Ukutyeshela
Obu buchule bujongwa njengeHune, kuba ayithethi isohlwayo somzimba okanye ngomlomo. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana uyayibona ngolu hlobo: "Andikudingi, ngelixa uziphatha kakubi. Ndisusa, ndikuphose, kuba ubi, hlupheke. "
Ukutyeshela kukungakwazi kwabazali ukulawula iimvakalelo. Ukuthintela ukwaphula unxibelelwano nomntwana, kuya kufuneka ubonise ienkozo, ngaloo ndlela yomeleza ubudlelwane bokuthembana: "Ndikhathazeke kakhulu nguMthetho wakho kwaye andinakuthetha nawe ngenxa yoku." Kule meko, umntu omdala uyamqonda umntwana ukuba akandedwa kwaye amthande.
Unxibelelwano nomntwana ngokulinganayo
Abazali bakhanyele ingcinga yamandla, ukunxibelelana nomntwana "ngokulingana". Kule meko, umntwana ngowomntwana njengomntu okhulileyo: Kuphela yimizobo, izinto ezizezisayo kuphela abantu abadala, incoko kuphela ngaphandle "yi-Syyukanyya". Abantu abadala abajonga iPamperia yabantwana, babaphonononga.Ukuqeqeshwa kweFowuni yeMidlalo Kunceda umntwana ukuba ahambe, enze izigqibo kwiimeko. "I-Sukashnny" ikhula intetho yomntwana, imbiye kwincoko yababini.
Imeko yokubuyela umva: umntu okhulelweyo, engabi negunya. ILizwi eliQinisekayo liphathiswe umntwana, oluzisa ingozi engalunganga kwi-PSCHCH yengqondo ekhawulezayo.
IMfundo yeKhaya
"Kutheni le nto ufuna igadi okanye isikolo, kukho ootitshala abangalunganga, ababi, abanobubi, ootitshala, abantwana ababi, banokuba luluntu kwaye ngaphandle kwala maziko."
Ithathela ingqalelo abazali malunga neyona nto iphambili: Uluntu alunandlela yonxibelelwano kuphela, kodwa nentsebenziswano nabantu bangaphandle kosapho.
Ukongeza, umntu omdala uyakulibala ngokusebenza kunye nexesha lobuqu, ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nenkqubo kwaye wazise imfundo eyongezelelweyo kwisikolo esisesikolweni (ukuhambisa imidlalo).