Amadoda ahlala ethandabuza ubuhlobo bomfazi, ekholelwa ukuba amanenekazi kunzima ukuxhathisa isilingo sokuziva nomntu wesini esahlukileyo. Kumele ukuba uthandane njani nomfana kunye nabahlobo, ukugcina ubudlelwane-kwi-nodiations ye-24cm.
Chonga ukuba yintoni injongo odibana ngayo
Ukuba ubudlelwane abuqiniswanga, mhlawumbi ungangxami ukuya kuqhelana nomfana kunye neentombi. Ukuhlangabezana nomfana oselula onamantombazana angatshatanga kusoloko kuyingozi ukuze ufumane ubuhlobo ngamandla kunye nokulahleka. Ukuze ungalilinganisisa abantu esibathandayo, ungakhawulezi ukucwangcisa ukukhangela, kude kuqiniseke kwiimvakalelo zendoda.
Akukho mfuneko yokuzisa amaqela esithathu kulwalamano olungayazi indlela yokuvuya kuwe. Ukwala ukunxibelelana nentombi, ukuba unomkhwa wokuphendula kakubi ngenkangeleko yakho. Ungavumeli amanenekazi asondeleyo aqhele ukukhuphisana, akhuphisane, phuma kwinkampani. Abantu abangalunganga kunye nabo basondeleyo bahlala nabo bangaphambili, bhetele ukungahoyi.
Jonga ngeemvakalelo zakho
Iintombi-kunye namantombazana. Kuyenzeka ukuba indoda ezintlanganisweni iya kunika amanenekazi ngeempawu ezifanayo, efuna ukukholisa abanyuliweyo. Ukuba awuzukulungela ukusinda kuhlaselo lwekhwele, unike umbono wokuqhelana.
Sukufumana ubudlelwane kwimeko xa iintombi zibonakala zintle kakhulu. Ukujongana nokuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuzithemba kwakho ukuze uzithembe.
Dlula umhlaba
Qiniseka ukuba ucinge ngendlela yokulungiselela intlanganiso.
Nxibelelana neentombi zedwa kwaye uhlalutye into yokoyika ngexesha "lokuthandana". Ulonwabo luthanda ukuthula, kwaye ke ufihla uvuyo kwaye ukhwele iliso kweliso kumthandi. Akukho mfuneko yokuthintela izibonelelo zonyuliweyo ezinezipho zokuzonwabisa, ukuqhayisa, iimpawu zokhathalelo, ukhathalelo oluvela kulo mfo. Umda ibali elomileyo malunga nalapho ufundayo khona okanye ongumfana.
Lungiselela intlanganiso yomfana. Sixelele iminyaka emingaphi yokuqhuba ubuhlobo kunye neentombi. Dlula inyoka yabalinganiswa. Nika iingcebiso malunga nokuba zeziphi izimvo zokukhokelela kwincoko. Ukusuka kwindumiso kunye nemiboniso yeefoto zabahlobo kwi-winsuluts kungcono ukwala.
Chitha intlanganiso kwindawo engathathi hlangothi
Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bakhululekile. Akufanelanga ukuba ungabi senze intlanganiso yentlanganiso kunye nomfana kwaye uthethe ngealarm yakho. Amabinzana ngohlobo "kwaye ngequbuliso uya kukukhokelela" - phantsi komsebenzi. Imvakalelo yokuzithuka okungathandekiyo ukuba inokubangela ukungalingani.
Yenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo
Ukuba iintombi zibandakanya ukudlala ngothando- esi sisizathu sokucinga ngayo. Kuyaphaphela inzala enkulu kwiinkcukacha zolwalamano, umnqweno wokuseka ukukhanya okungalunganga. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile ukuba bamkele amanyathelo okuba cala imiphumo, ukuba enye yeentombi zavuma ukudibana nomntu othembekileyo okanye encoma isidima sakhe.Zama i-haze, musa ukuqengqeleka i-hysteria. Sukuchaza izikhalazo. Bamba umsindo, oshiyekileyo ulula kwaye unobugqwirha. Zuza iibhonasi emehlweni endoda. Yenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo eziya kunceda ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni na ukunqanda ukunxibelelana nabahlobo.
IBhunga lekamva
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