Ulwalamano olukhululekileyo luyakhula ngakumbi, kwaye inani lemitshato likhula ngokukhawuleza, linika indlela yokufumana umvuzo ngaphandle kobhaliso lwaseburhulumenteni, kodwa abanye abafazi bagcina ithemba lokutshata. Nangona kunjalo, iqabane alisoloko labelana ngemibono yomtshakazi onokubakho, izama ukuphepha umxholo womtshato ngayo nayiphi na indlela.
Malunga nendlela amanenekazi aqonde ngayo ukuba indoda ayifuni kutshata, kwaye kutheni kulo mbandela mayingabonakali ngokungxama kunye nelinye icala, iya kuxela i-24CMI.
1.Yena watsho
Abameli abahlukeneyo besini esomeleleyo ngokukhawuleza bakwenza ukuba bakwazi ukuqonda amaqabane abangakwaziyo ukubala kubo njengeqabane elizayo- iziko lomtshato alikho kubo, ngaphandle kwezimvo ezinjalo.Ngokungaqhelekanga, kwada kwaziva ingxelo enjalo, abafazi bahlala begcina ithemba lokuba umntu othandazayo uza kutshintsha uluvo lomtshato, kwaye uqhubeke nokucinezela, ukhangela iimpawu zokunikezelwa kovavanyo olungxamisekileyo. Amaqhinga anjalo, njengomgaqo, akhokelela kwiziphumo ezichaseneyo. Yintoni omele uyenze kukucombulula umfazi - kwaye ngaphandle kwesitampu esixabisekileyo.
2. Isandla esimdaka
Iqabane liyaqhubeka nokungena kwidiploma kwisangqa esikufutshane. Ayizazi abahlobo nabazali. Ewe, kwaye yena akafumani mnqweno wokuhlala nomkhwekazi osondeleyo kunye novavanyo lwencoko eshushu kunye ne-tie yeshumi. Kubonakala ngathi lo ngumqondiso ocacileyo wokuba indoda ayifuni kutshata.
Kwelinye icala, kunokwenzeka ukuba i-satellite yobomi ineentloni zezahlobo zayo noonoene, ukwazi ukuba zeziphi ezooso zezo zezonyango. Kwaye phambi kwabazali bakaYehova bayaboyika "ukulungisa". Mabaqokelele!
3. Inqaku lokujonga
Iingxabano rhoqo kunye neqabane kwaye ukungafuniwa kwamadoda zenza ukulalanisa, kwanezitrayi, nazo ziyakwazi ukubona i-ARDEART yokuGqibela iManyano yomtshato. Ukungavumi ukutshintsha ngenxa yomntu omthandayo kukubona okucacileyo kwentombazana eyenzelwe ukucwangciswa kwangoko.Okanye unombono wakhe ukuba umntu uzama ukukhusela, uyaqonda ukuba, njengokuba uqhelisela imiboniso, ukubekwa kwelinye ilizwe awonelisekanga kuwo naliphi na icala. Malunga nemvume encinci kwilizwi lakudala malunga nomnwe onikiweyo. Kwaye ukungafuni ukulungisa iqabane- ukunyaniseka, kuba, njengoko uyazi, abantu abaze batshintshe.
4. UNXIBELELWANO LWE-Intanethi
Ukunganyaniseki kweqabane kuhlala kunxibelelwano olusisigxina nangaliphi na ixesha lemini nobusuku, ebambe iwotshi yembalelwano okanye unxibelelwano ngomnxeba, - esinye isizathu sokucinga ngayo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, lo ngumqondiso onokwenzeka wokuba indoda ayifuni kutshata.
Kwaye mhlawumbi, onyuliweyo wayengumntu omdala kwaye onomdla oqinisekileyo ukuba indlela yokuncokola incokola kwimitha yokuqala yelanga iya kuguqula kufutshane nomsebenzi kwi-zombie.
5. Kwindawo yesibini
Olunye uphawu kukuba awufanele uphuphe ngomtshato nalowo - ukhetho olucacileyo lwenkampani yabahlobo kuluntu lwayo. Ukuba indoda ifuna ukuchitha usuku ngaphandle koluntu lwe-buddies, umzekelo, ukuloba okanye ukuzingela, ukubuyela kwinenekazi lentliziyo, oko kufanelekile ukucinga malunga nomsebenzi onjalo wolonwabo loSapho.Kwelinye icala, inokubonisa oku kwaye kum kanye umahluko kwi-psychology. Indoda yolonwabo olupheleleyo kude kakhulu kukude ukuba ithethe iiyure ezininzi ukukhetha kumzali - yanele ukuba umntu amthandayo. Apha isigqibo yinto enye - ukuchaza!
6. Umntu oqheleneyo uhlala kwaye uhlala ...
Ubudlelwane kunye neqabane ziyaqhubeka nonyaka kwaye hayi ezimbini, kwaye onyuliweyo akathandi ukunika iringi exabisekileyo- kuthetha ukuba ayililolanga iqabane lakhe.
Okanye, njengokubambelela eFrendzone, indoda yoyika ukwaphula ibhalansi esekwe busekwe-ukuba into oyithandayo iya kula, njengangaphambili ingabikho. Mhlawumbi kufanelekile ukubanjwa okunene ukuya kwicebo lokuba "kuya kuba", kodwa kwindlela yokuphendula ukuze uthathe isigqibo sokuba enze ntoni.
7. Guy
Indoda ihlala ibeka ityala eliqabane-le yindlela yokuqonda ukuba indoda ayingxami.
Kungenzeka ukuba intombazana nenyaniso "Kosychit". Nangona kunjalo, endaweni yoko, emva koko, emva koko, emva koko, ke imeko yokungakhathali kwengqondo yeqabane, ukucaciswa ukuba babone iimpazamo-akunyanzelekanga ukuba umfazi anjalo, kodwa mama. Yintoni omele uyenze, kuya kufuneka ukhethe umgangatho obuthathaka: nokuba ujonge umntu "osele ekhulile", okanye uthululi de ube unengxaki.