Ngowama-2020, amaKristu abhiyozela eyona holide ibaluleke kakhulu neyonwabisayo - Uvuko olukhanyayo lukaKristu-Apreli 19. ERussia neUkraine, kunye nakwamanye amazwe kulisiko ukuhamba ngalo mhla emangcwabeni ukukhumbula izalamane ezinyuswe. Nangona kunjalo, eyona nto iphambili kwiholide eqaqambileyo yovuyo kunye nokuzonwabisa, kwaye amangcwaba engulusizi, abantu abaninzi abangazaziyo imithetho kunye ne-canons babuza umbuzo: Ngaba ndingaya kwi-Ista emangcwabeni?
IOfisi yoHlelo kwi-24cmi iya kubaxelela ukuba le mvumelwano ivela apho esi siko licinga ntoni ngale nto.
Kutheni ukuya kwingcwaba le-Ista?
AmaKristu asiko ukuba atyelele iindawo zokungcwaba zezalamane ezifileyo kunye nabantu obathandayo ukuze babeke ingcwaba ukuze bakhumbule imihla ngemihla esekwe yimithetho yecawe. Ngokuqala kokuvutha kobushushu kwentwasahlobo phambi kweholide eqaqambileyo, abantu bazama ukutyelela iindawo zooyiso nakwizihlobo zokucoca iinkunkuma, baphembelele kwimigangatho yonyaka, balungisa iilitha kwaye bacoce iimodi.Kuvuko lukaKristu, abantu bathwala iintyatyambo bakwa-Gramoni nasekutyeni ukuze bahlonele ukufa kwabafi, ukuhlala kufutshane nendawo yokungcwaba kwaye bayeke ukunyanga kufutshane nezikhumbuzo.
AmaKristu e-Orthodox aneentsuku ezininzi ezikhethekileyo ngonyaka, xa kunokwenzeka ukuya emangcwabeni. Ngexesha lesithuba esikhulu, esihlala iintsuku ezingama-48 ngaphambi kovuko oluqaqambileyo, ziwela iintsuku ezintathu zabazali xa zivunyelwe ukuya engcwabeni ukuba zize ne-odolo.
Isiko liye emangcwabeni?
Ngokutsho kolunye lweenguqulelo, isiko lokundwendwela iindawo zokungcwaba kwezalamane kuvuko oluqaqambileyo lwabonakala kwinkulungwane ye-XIDIS. Iitempile zazakhiwe kwiilali ezinkulu, kwaye abemi beelali ezincinci zenze indlela ende yokutyelela inkonzo yecawa ngeholide.
Emva kokusebenza, abantu babengazukubuyela kwindlela ebuyayo, baya kumagumbi awayekufuphi ukuya kutyelela imisebenzi engcwatywayo. Kwakukho isidlo esinikezelweyo, satya, sathetha saza saphumla ngaphambi kokuba sibuyele ekhaya.
Ngexesha lamandla aseSoviet, iitempile kunye neecawa kwiilali ezininzi neelali zatshatyalaliswa, kwaye imigangatho emibonjiweyo igcinwe. Abantu, endaweni yenkonzo ebandleni, baqala ukuya kwiGrans kwizalamane ezingekhoyo, bajonga esi siko lide.
Isiko elihamba kwingcwaba le-Ista minyaka le namhlanje. Kwangelo xesha, abantu bahlala behamba ngokukhawuleza emangcwabeni, ngaphandle kokundwendwela inkonzo ebandleni. Abefundisi kunye namakholwa okwenzeka ngenene abavumeli ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga kwabemi abaguqula utyelelo kumangcwaba kwitheko okanye ipikniki, ngeengoma. Nangona kunjalo, iindawo zokungcwaba zenzelwe usizi nosizi, ukuze umthandazo kunye nokucelutywa komntu oshiywe, hayi ulonwabo.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuya emangcwabeni?
Inkolo yamaKristu ayinazo iindawo ezingqongqo zokutyelela iindawo zokungcwaba eluvukweni oluqaqambileyo. Oko kukuthi, eBhayibhileni kunye nezinye iincwadi ezingcwele, akuthethi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ukufika kwe-Ista kwaye ukuhamba emangcwabeni akunakuba njalo. Icawa yobuOthodoki ayigwebi kwaye ayiyigqali isono esikhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, ababingeleli bamanyene ukuba batyelele iindawo zokungcwaba zingcono kunolunye usuku. Ngokulandelayo emva koMgqibelo wangoMgqibelo - usuku lwabazali, usuku olusondeleyo lokutyelela emveni. Kwakhona, ukukhumbula abafileyo kuma-SLAvs kukho iholide yeRavonitsa, eyahlukeneyo yokubhiyozela ngeentsuku ezahlukeneyo. KwiCawa ye-Orthodox ye-Orthodox ye-Orthodox ye-Greatmorate kwiveki yesibini emva kwe-Ista, ngoLwesibini.
Iintsuku zeSikhumbuzo ngo-2020: Ikhalenda yabazali
Ababingeleli bacacisa ukuba, ukuba usaceba ukutyelela izihlobo eziswelekileyo kuvuko oluqaqambileyo, phambi kwale nto, qiniseka ukuba niyandwendwela inkonzo ecaweni. E-Ista, kulisiko ukuba wonwabe kwaye uvuye. Ke ngoko, musa ukulibazisa izikhumbuzo ukuba zife, musa ukubuhlutha lusizi kwaye ungazichithi.
Inkolelo iqhelekile ebantwini abakhulelweyo abakhubazekileyo abakwazi ukuya kumangcwaba kungekuphela kwe-Ista, kodwa nangenye imihla. Abantu babekholelwa ukuba kwiindawo ezinamandla amabi kwaye ahlala emandleni amanqam ongekazalwa, okanye umphefumlo wakhe ongekazalwa, okanye owomntu oswelekileyo emntwaneni.
Nangona kunjalo, amakholwa ecawe awathinteli abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuba batyelele iindawo zokungcwaba, ukuba umfazi wakhe ufuna ukutyelela izalamane ezifileyo kwaye akanyanzelekanga ukuba anyanzelwe. Sukuya emangcwabeni abantu abanomdla kakhulu ngengqondo engazinzanga.
Umfazi kwisikhundla salo naliphi na la mava angeyomfuneko, iinyembezi kunye noxinzelelo, elichaphazela kakubi intlalo-ntle yomntwana kunye nomntwana. Ngesizathu esinye, kungcono ukwala iiphulo zamangcwaba ukuba abantwana bathengise ngengqondo kunye nabantu abanesifo sentliziyo, oogqirha bancomela ukunqanda uxinzelelo kunye namava.