Iholide lithuba lokuhlala wedwa ngaphakathi ngokwakho, phumla ngokwengqondo, yiza neengcinga kunye nokulungelelaniswa okuncinci. Emva kwe-Great Britain eRussia, "ikhefu elahlukileyo" lifumana ukuthandwa. Akukho mfuneko yokuba udinwe omnye komnye, ungquzulwano: Umnqweno womfazi ukuphinda ubodwa kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Hayi indlela yokuphumla ngaphandle kwendoda, into ekufuneka ilungiselele, indlela yokuziphatha kwiholide kwelinye ilizwe - iya kuqonda ngolungelelwano.
Ngaphambi kohambo
Lungisa isicwangciso esigayiweyo kwaye ungoyiki ukucela iBhunga leMlingane: Kwimeko yoxinzelelo, ngekhe ungabizi. Xoxa ngezinto ezilandelayo:- Ilizwe kunye nesixeko sokuhamba;
- Injongo yokuhamba (uphonononge inkcubeko, uyilo, ikhitshi, njalo njalo);
- Kwiimephu zokumisela indlela, uthenga isikhokelo, funda amabinzana emibuliso, i-farewell, enkosi (kunye nayo yonke into enxulumene nokutya, ukuhamba nokuhlala);
Emva koko, kuyimfuneko ukuthenga amatikiti omoya, chaza ihotele okanye ihotele, ubale uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali. Icebiso: Bhala igama lehotele "yasekhaya", idilesi kwincwadana yenqaku ukuba ulahlekile.
Ngaphambi kokuba ikhefu ngaphandle kokuhamba nomyeni, ngokuqinisekileyo zenza iikopi zamaxwebhu (ipasipoti, ipoliyoni, i-inshurensi, i-visa, amatikiti), iskena kwaye ithumele kwi-imeyile. Olona mzuzu uxanduva yingqokelela yesutikheyisi. Nika ingqalelo kumaxesha onyaka, ukusebenziseka kwezinto. Sukuthatha uninzi lwezandla ezongezelelweyo - umyeni onamandla izandla aziyi kuba kufutshane.
Yintoni ekufuneka uyiqwalasele
Ngexesha leholide ezimeleyo ngaphandle komyeni kwilizwe lomnye umntu, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukulandela imithetho yococeko: Hlamba izandla zakho, zisela kwibhotile yakho (ngaphandle kweglasi apho upheka khona phambi kwakho.
Musa ukuhamba ngokuhlwa nobusuku ixesha ngaphandle kokuhamba kwaye ujike ube mncinci, ungahlukani. Umfazi onesithukuthezi ubalulekile ukuthintela ukunxibelelana nabantu abangasasebenziyo, musa ukubanika inombolo yefowuni, idilesi yehotele, hayi ukwazisa indawo yokuhlala kunye nomsebenzi. Umda kwibinzana elithi "Uxolo, andikuqondi."
Sukuyishiya izinto ezixabisekileyo kwigumbi lehotele. Ukwenza oku, kunqweneleka ukuthatha ibhegi ebanzi kunye nawe, enokunxiba ngaphambili (akufuneki ixhomekeke ekuphakanyisweni kwabamelwane kwihotele, abahlali bendawo kunye nabanye abakhenkethi).
Manenekazi, musa ukunxiba iimpahla ezivulekileyo okanye ezolisayo, izihlangu eziphezulu. Indoda iyakuthande ukhetho lwakho ukuba luthande izinto ezisebenzayo, ezikhululekileyo ekunxibe.
Ukuba awumiliselwanga "kwizinto ezinezona" kwikhefu ngaphandle kwendoda, musa ukubuza amadoda angaqhelekanga ukuba ancede - unokubonwa njengophawu lwendawo, umfazi otshatileyo akayonto. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu bayakuvuyela ukunceda, kodwa baya kufuna isidlo. " Ucebisa ukuba alungiselele kwangaphambili ukuba aqwalaselwe kumgangatho oyindoda kwaye alungiselele amabinzana amathathu okanye amane, athetha ukwala imbeko ukuze anikele kwindawo yokutyela, kwihotele. Kuyacetyiswa kwangoko emva kokuba impendulo iye kude kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Kwikhefu ngaphandle komyeni, kubalulekile ukuba ubizwe neqabane lakho. Uxolo kwangaphambili ukuba uza kufowuna kangaphi. Le ndoda ibalulekile ukuba iqinisekile ukuba ulungile, ke musa ukuba nomsindo ngenxa yokhathalelo olugqithisileyo, imibuzo eneenkcukacha kunye nezicelo zokuthumela iifoto, zabelana ngamava.
Ngokucacileyo, iholide ngaphandle komyeni ayisiyonto eyahlukileyo kwiNtlawulo. Uloyiko lokuhamba olunjalo alunantloni ukuba umfazi unolwalamano olunempilo neqabane lakhe.