Amantombazana alinde ukubonakala komntwana okwesihlandlo sokuqala, kholwa ukuba ikhefu lokhathalelo lomntwana liyiholide. Umfazi okhulelweyo akawungcungcuthekisi umsebenzi, anyamekele impilo, anikezela kwaye afumane amandla ukuba umthetho "omangalisayo" unyamalale (itshokolethi) inyamalala (itshokholethi ) Ihlala ihleli. IOfisi yoHlelo 24CMI ifikelela kuluhlu lweentsomi eziqhelekileyo malunga nommiselo.
Ixesha lamahala
Abafazi baphupha malunga nendlela abangayi kuba ngamafutha kwigumbi lokuhlambela, bapheka izitya ezingenangqondo, bafunde iincwadi ezintlanu ngempelaveki, nize kwimovie kwi-virfaces. Nangona kunjalo, umama wexesha elizayo akakrokrela ukuba ezi zenzo ziya kufuneka zingene kwimini nobusuku bomntwana.Ngaphandle kwento yokuba izihlobo izalamane zithembisa ukuba zincedisa, uxanduva luwela kubazali babo, kwaye umama akakulungelanga ukwahlukana nomntwana ngenxa yehomoni evuthiweyo kunye ne "Gxila" Ke ixesha elisimahla liya kuba lihamba kuphela nomntwana, wea.
Shila
"Ndifundise ukuze ufumane i-moms kummiselo iiyure ezi-4 ngosuku," intengiso iphakame kuzo zonke iinethiwekhi zentlalo. Nokuba loluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi ocebayo ukubandakanyeka kuMama, nokuba iiyure zibe zine ziya kuba yingozi ye-Snu, iMicimbi yezeKhaya nakubantwana. Ngexesha lasemini, uxanduva lwasekhaya luphazamisekile, umnqweno womntwana ukuba kufutshane okanye "uthungelwano", kwaye ebusuku - ukudinwa, ukulala ngekhefu.
Njengommiselo, abantwana bakhathaza ukuthunga, betshintsha izigaba zokulala ebusuku, iimvakalelo zendlala, ukunxanelwa. Kule meko, iholide egcweleyo ayinakuthetha, kuthetha ntoni ngengeniso. Ngemihla yamaphupha, umntwana kungcono ukuba alale naye, akukho nto ilungileyo - oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Amaphupha eholide
Xa isibini esitshatileyo siyasebenza, akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukuba simisele iholide, ngokumalunga noku, ummiselo Raes kwisincamathiselo kwishedyuli. Nangona kunjalo, abazali bajamelana nokoyika iinqwelomoya, ngokunjalo ngoku abo banoxanduva kungekuphela ngobomi babo kuphela. Ezi zinto ziphumleyo ziba yingxaki: Ukubambelela kwimo yokondla, ukulala, abazali bokuhlamba kwakhona ngokunjalo.Imfundo
Ukunqongophala kwexesha lokufunda ulwimi olutsha okanye inkqubo yokufunda? Nokuba ilusizi kangakanani, kodwa kummiselo, ingqondo yomfazi icinga kakhulu ngenye kwaye ilibale nokuba luqokelelwe ulwazi. Kodwa ngokubhekisele kwinkxalabo ngomntwana, umama "mpompo" ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba eliphezulu: Kutheni le nto ilungele umntwana, kutheni ufuna ukuhamba, luhlobo luni lwezinto ezifunekayo, ziyintoni inzuzo yeithoyi. Kwaye le yinxalenye encinci.
Iminyaka emithathu
Umfazi okwisisolo uzaliswe yimibono, akha izicwangciso, utshintsha umbono wemisebenzi yangaphambili, enze izicelo ezintsha. Kodwa, njengommiselo, enyanisweni, umsebenzi wekhondo lokuya ngasemva, kwaye uluhlu lwemisebenzi yobungcali luyenziwa ngolu hlobo: Indawo ekufutshane ne-kirergarten, ishedyuli elula, iholide ilula kunye nethuba lokuya " . Ukongeza, ukusondelelana nomntwana kwenza ukuba umsebenzi usebenze kubuhlungu. Ke ngoko, i-Ecture ihlala ngaphezulu kweminyaka emithathu.Hobby
Kudala ndifune ukufunda ukuba ndenze i-crochet, i-Whoroed imifanekiso enezihlalo okanye zekhekhe zothando uku-odola? Kuya kuba nzima ukufezekisa umthetho, kuba ezi klasi zifuna uxinzelelo, umonde weengelosi kunye nobukho beeyure ezimbalwa zasimahla. Ixesha "leGolden" liya kuba yiminyaka yomntwana apho abazali baya kuba nakho ukufumana izinto ozithandayo.
Ishedyuli
Ayisebenzi. Ngoku umphathi ngumntwana ocacileyo oqhelekileyo wemini yimfuneko. Ke ngoko, umama uya kufuneka avuke kwangoko (mhlawumbi ngaphambili kunokusebenza), kukho nokuhambahamba kwishedyuli, ungalibali ngemicimbi yasekhaya.
Ngaphandle kwetyala lentsomi malunga nommiselo, abazali abanamava abathandabuzi ukuba imbonakalo yomntwana iyonwabisa, ukomeleza ubudlelwane, kunye notshintsho olungenakuphikiswa kwindlela yokuphila eyenze kube sisityebi.