I-Peccologists ye-Peccolosists zengqondo ithatha indawo yokutshintsha kubomi bomntu. Abantwana kwiminyaka eli-12 ukuya kweli-12 ubudala abazi ukuba bajamelane nemvakalelo yokungabikho kokusesikweni kwehlabathi, bonisa ubundlongondlongo kubantu abadala, bazama ukukhusela umbono wabo kwaye babonakalise ubulungisa. Ngamanye amaxesha - yindlela entle, umzekelo, ukubaleka. Iofisi yokuhlela ye-24cmi iya kuxela izizathu zokhathalelo lwabantwana esitratweni, kwaye mabenze ntoni abazali ukuba umntwana uphumile endlwini.
Kutheni abantwana bephuma endlwini?
Izizathu ze-shoothi yolutsha olunzima kakhulu kakhulu. Kwintsapho nganye, ejongene nengxaki enjalo, amanqaku alo yabantwana kunye nolwalamano lwabantu abadala. Izizathu eziphambili:- Iingxaki, iingxabano kunye neengxabano esikolweni okanye ekhaya
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Abafana abachithekileyo babaleka banesithukuthezi okanye umdla, ukukhangela i-adventures kunye neempawu ezintsha.
Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba umntwana uye wasinda
Baleka kwindlu inkwenkwe okanye intombazana inakho kwaye kwiminyaka elishumi, kodwa uninzi lwabantu abakwishumi elivisayo yiminyaka eli-12-17 ubudala. Okokuqala, nxibelelana namapolisa ngengxelo malunga nokunyamalala. Ifoto yomntwana iluncedo, ulwazi malunga nento ebiweyo yayinxibe, malunga nobukho bemali kunye nemilinganiselo.
Cela uncedo kwiqela lokuvolontiya kwizixeko ngalinye. Idatha echanekileyo neyinyani iya kubonelelwa ngabazali, kokukhanka ngokukhawuleza kuya kuqala nangaphezulu ukuba amathuba okuba imbacu ibuyele ekhaya iphilile kwaye isempilweni.
Fowunela i-ambulensi ukufumana ukuba umntwana uye waba lixhoba lengozi okanye ingozi. Bhala ootitshala esikolweni, abamelwane, uhlolisiso ngabahlobo abafunda nabo okwishumi elivisayo, izalamane zabo. Zama ukufumana iinkcukacha zefowuni ezivela kumqhubi (i-SIM kufuneka ifakwe kumama okanye utata), jonga uthungelwano lwentlalo. Mhlawumbi kuya kubakho icebiso, apho basinda khona, baya kumkhangela khona.
Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe
Amavolontiya abaphathelele ekufuneni abantwana abalahlekileyo, sukucebisa abazali 'abaxakekileyo' kwangoko bakhanyise iifoto zeSixeko kunye nendawo. Ulutsha lunxulumana ngokunzulu kwimbonakalo yalo, ukubona "ifoto, inokukhubekiswa kwabo badala nangakumbi; Boyika ukuba ngoku wonke umntu uyazi malunga nokubaleka kwabo.Xa ifunyenwe umntwana, musa ukumphikisa, musani ukugxekwa kwaye ungaqali kwangoko izizathu zoMthetho. Xa iimvakalelo ziyagula, zama ukuchitha ngononophelo kunye nokubona ukuba yintoni ebangele isenzo eso.
Ungathintela njani amahlumela
Khumbula ukuba abantwana babalekela kwimeko yobomi obuqatha, emva koko babuyele kuyo. Zama ukufumana indlela kunye namagama afanelekileyo, ndixelele ngothando lwakho kwaye imeko ayisayi kuphinda iphinde kwaye ukulungele ukusebenza kuyo.
Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba kwiipesenti ezingama-90 zamatyala, ukubaleka endlwini yimpazamo yabazali. Kuphela kuxa umntwana oshiye isithukuthezi okanye umdla, kufuneka ufundise. Ukuba isenzo sibangelwa yimeko yokungqubana, abantu abadala kufuneka bayiphelise ingxaki, baphinde baqwalasele indlela abaziphatha ngayo kwaye kuthintele ukuphindaphinda iimpazamo kwixesha elizayo.