"Ukuze sonwabe kuthi sonke, sasingelilo nje kwi-honeymoon, kodwa emva kokubonakala kweendlalifa, kufanelekile ukuba sivumelane njani xa ubomi buvela njani. Yintoni onokuyicela indoda kwinqanaba lokucwangciswa kokukhulelwa - kwi-24cm ye-24cm.
1. Kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ukukhulelwa akuveli?
Elona mbambano inomdla kwisibini esisahleli "Ngaba iya kukhulelwa?". Kwaye nokuba umtshato uphumelele uviwo oluqinisekisa ukuba impilo yamaqabane, uxinzelelo luhlala luhleli.Fumana iqabane lakho ukuba liza kusabela njani kwimeko xa kungenamandla. Ngaba lo msebenzi ukwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye i-EC, kwaye mhlawumbi, kwaye kunye kunye kwaye ziphila kakuhle-ukusombulula kuphela. Iimpendulo kwimibuzo malunga nokukhulelwa okucwangcisiweyo kuya kulahla ixhala, eliya kuchaphazela umsebenzi wokuzala.
2. Ngaba siza kuzala umntwana ogulayo?
Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesithathu yokukhulelwa, oomama abazayo bayamenywa ukuba baphumelele ekufundeni okokuqala, nto leyo encedayo ukuba ichonge imeko yokuzalwa emntwaneni. Kwimeko yeengxaki ezingahambelani nobomi okanye ezikhokelela ekukhubazeni komntwana, ukuphazamiseka okukhulelweyo kuyacetyiswa.
Isibini ngasinye sinethemba lokuba imeko yophuhliso lomsitho ofanelekileyo, nangona kunjalo, ixoxe ngesigqibo esidibeneyo de umntu akhulelwe, asafanelekile. Iya kusindisa ubudlelwane obuvela kwi-rapture ngokuchasene nemvelaphi ye-Hormonal i-hormonial tyaba yomfazi kwaye iya kunceda abanye abatshatileyo banxibelelane neendlela zokubonisa indlela yokuzoyisa ingxaki.
3. Apho ukufumana imali?
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, isibini sohlahlo-lwabiwo mali, esithi, njengomgaqo, sanele ukuhlawula iindleko zenyanga kunye nokuzonwabisa, izinto zinkulu. Nangona kunjalo, imeko iyatshintsha xa abantwana abadibeneyo bavela kwaye umfazi ubonakala kwikhefu lokuya kubeleka. Inkcitho yosapho iyanda. Ke, indoda kuya kufuneka yenze imali yesibini.Cinga kwangaphambili indlela yokulungiselela uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho kwiindleko eziqikelelweyo, kwaye uvumelana xa umfazi esiza emsebenzini.
4. Ngubani oza kuhlala neendlalifa?
Ngokubuza imibuzo kwindoda, ingxoxo yemeko malunga nokuba ngubani oza kuhlala nabantwana, ukuba bayagula okanye bagule. Ukuxoxa ngalo mbandela, kuya kufuneka utyhelele utatomkhulu kwaye ufumanise ukuba bazimisele njani ukunceda ekukhuliseni abazukulwana.
Kwimeko apho kungekho manyathelo avela kwizalamane, cinga ngokhetho kunye ne-nanny okanye cinga indlela yokuhlaziya ishedyuli yokusebenza. Rhoqo ibhinqa elingumfazi lidiniwe ngumsebenzi, kwaye umyeni uphosa yonke imikhosi ukuba ibe nentsapho.
5. Uyibiza njani inkwenkwe nentombazana?
Indoda inzima kakhulu ukuba inqamleze kwaye inyule igama lomntwana, elicwangcisiweyo kuphela. Ke ngoko, kwinqanaba lemvumelwano, oko kunele ukufumana ukuba iqabane liqeqeshe njani ukuba amanye amaqabane afana nomama wexesha elizayo, kwaye kwangaxeshanye ucacisa, kuba elinye isizathu okanye elinye igama lawa kuluhlu lokucaphukisa.6. Baza kubakhulisa njani abantwana bakho?
Indoda ifumana imeko kaBawo 'ngokungagqibekanga ", kunzima ukuyiqonda ukuba ngoku imisebenzi yakhe iphakamisa indlalifa. Ekwazi iqabane lakhe, yenze imibuzo malunga nokwenziwa kunye nophuhliso lwabantwana.
Iimpendulo kufuneka zichaphazele umgca omnye wokukhula, iziko lezenkolo, abakhulisayo kunye nezikolo, kunye nonyaka wokuqala wobomi, xa amadoda eva uloyiko akakwazi ukujamelana nendima kaBawo.
7. Ugcina njani uthando?
Ukuvela kwabantwana abadibeneyo kutshintsha abantu. Abafazi badiniwe nge-insomnia kunye nokuncancisa. Kwaye amadoda alinde ingqalelo efanayo, kodwa azisoloko ifunyanwe.
Cwangcisa kwangaphambili ukuba kwaye uza kufumana njani ixesha leencoko ezinyanisekileyo kunye nolwalamano lothando. Fumana indlela yokwakha ubomi bezesondo kwaye abathembela ngayo abantwana, ngelixa niyakukhumbula ukuba nithanda abantu abanazo kunye noxinzelelo kunye neengxabano.