Hayi indlela enokuba kunzima ngayo ubomi, ukuba bekungekho ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha yenze ukuthandabuza. Umzekelo, umntu ocaphukisayo uyacaphukisa, kwaye akukho lula ukudibana naye kwaphela. Kodwa akunakwenzeka - umntu osebenza naye, okanye ombi kakhulu - isalamane. Ewe, ungatshintshi umsebenzi ofanelekileyo okanye, ngakumbi okoko usapho ngenxa yabasebenzi abathile! Kodwa ingxaki iconjululwe.
Indlela yokujamelana nendlela yendalo yokuphendula kwindalo kunye nomnxibelelanisi ongaqhelekanga kwaye woyise ukucaphuka kunxibelelwano kunye naye - kwi-24cm ye-24cm.
1. Qonda uxolele
Phakathi kwezona ndlela zisebenzayo, ukoyisa ukucaphukisa ekujonganeni nomntu othile, kunokwenzeka ukwahlula ngale ndlela ilandelayo: Zama ukususa ngokwakho indlela osabela ngayo kumntu othile ovela kuwe. Ibhunga liyakwazi ukubonakala kungenabunzulu, kodwa enyanisweni liyasebenza kakhulu.Inyani yile yokuba rhoqo abantu bebanye abacaphukisayo, nokuba yimpumlo enkulu kakhulu okanye banciphise indlela yonxibelelwano. Kwangelo xesha, ukuqinisekiswa komatshini kuya kuba sisikhundla esithi "ukungakhathali" kwaye akuthathi uqwalasele imeko yenyani yezinto: ngamanye amaxesha kumnyanzela ukuba azoyike kwaye amnandi Ikhonkrithi, ukuba uyicheba izinto ezinomsindo.
Oko kukuthi, ukungxama ngeelebheli zokuxhoma kunye novavanyo lwabanye, ngokusekwe kuphela kwimvakalelo engathethekiyo, ayifanelekanga. Ngapha koko, inokuba yeyokugrumba enye, iqhele ukusika inyani inyani emehlweni (kwaye oku kuyamangalisa njengokucaphukisa!). Kwaye ngokwakhe intliziyo, umphefumlo, kunye nomhlobo unokuthenjwa.
2. Ukuthintela
Ngelishwa, indlela yokuqala yokusombulula ingxaki ngokungayithandi loo mntu kwaye yoyise ukucaphuka xa unxibelelana naye kusetyenziswe kakhulu. Okanye ukuba izinto zokuqala azinakwenzeka ukubona indalo, kuba ukwazi ukujongana ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Okanye uvavanyo oluphambili luya kuba yinyani. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba umntu uziphatha njenge-reptile, amathandabuzo angenakuphikiswa ukuba lo mlinganiswa uyaba sisibakala. Kwaye idla ngokukrokrela igwetywe ikhulu.
Kule meko, kuya kuba yimfuneko ukusombulula ingxaki ngezinye iindlela. Umzekelo, ukungangqinelani kwimizamo "yokuvuselela" kukhuthaza imbambano-yimpendulo enomsindo, iyothusa iqhekeza lomsindo, linokuzisa iziphumo ezingekho mthethweni. Ke ihlala ichanekile kwaye inesidima, ngaphandle kokuphendula ipenshini yelinye iqela, kwaye ifuna ukunciphisa umda wonxibelelwano olungathandekiyo.
3. Zama ukuxoxa
Akunakwenzeka ukwala ithuba elinjalo ukuze wenze iimeko ezikhululekileyo ekujonganeni nomntu ocaphukisa indlela yokuxoxa ngayo. Mhlawumbi, ukuba uvakalisa izizathu zokwenza kwethu kunye nesicelo esihamba kunye nomnxibelelanisi, akusekho, kuya kuqalisa ukuza kwimvumelwano.Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukho isabelo esibonakalayo sokuba amathuba "ovuselelayo" ayinjalo "onetyhefu", njengoko kubonakala. Ngabangazi ukuba yeyiphi imikhwa yakhe ethi itolikwe ngabanye, ityhala le yokugqibela uvavanyo olubi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu bahlala bekulungele ukuvuleleka ukuba bathi kumnxibelelanisi malunga nokusilela kwayo.
Ke, ukuba kukho umnqweno wokwenza imeko eqhelekileyo, kwaye ingabi yiConak kwikona yamazinyo ngokucaphuka, kuya kufuneka uthathe umsebenzi wokunika ingxelo kwi-otsile yolwazi malunga neempawu zawo ezingezizo.
4. Ukungahoyi okanye ukuphindezela
Ukuba umntu ocaphukisayo, ufuna ukukhupha izimvo, exhoma amagqabantshintshi abhetyebhetye kwinto yomdla wakhe onobundlobongela, ke eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuyibeka ngaphandle kokungazikhathaleli izimvo zakhe. Akukho nto ayikhathaleli eyona nto ityhefu kulwimi lwe-thewo, njengoko imithambo yabo yomlomo ishiyekile ngaphandle kwengqwalaselo.
Kwaye ukuba uya kuhlaselwa ndedwa, uhambisa inqaku lakho kwiintsilelo zakho, ukrwelelwe ngokuqinileyo yi-"enetyhefu" ukugula, kuyo, ke kunokwenzeka ukuba "iphinde inyanzelise ukuba" kwenzeke kwiDabi. " Ewe, kwiliso lakhe, umntu uhlala ekwazi ukungaziboni iilog, ukuphawula ubukho be-grains 'kwizixhobo ezibonakalayo ".
Ewe, kwaye nceda uchaze izikhonkwane ezinokwazi ukushiya umntu osisilumko ixesha elide. Ukuba unokukhuthaza isiseko sebango kuye - gobe. Mhlawumbi iya kuba luncedo, kuba iyimfuneko ukuba isebenze ngokwayo. Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, iya kuba yinkuthalo eyongezelelekileyo ye "ivuselela", ukuze ingavuswa ekuhlekeni.
5. IQELA
Enye indlela yokufikelela kwinqanaba lokuveza kukufumana abantu abanengqondo. IZOPHUHEZO ZOBUCHULE (XHO96 Yimisiko kuphela-kwaye oku kuninzi!) Emva kwenye ingxoxo engathandekiyo nomntu, "uvuselelayo".
Okanye kwaye konke konke kuya kunceda ukujonga imeko ukusuka kwicala. Ezo, ukuba zenze ingqikelelo yengquzulwano ekhulayo Injongo yenye injongo-ngequbuliso izimvo ezingathandekiyo zomchasi ziya kuba zimthethweni eziqinisekileyo zokuba kufanelekile. Endaweni yokungena kwingxabano.
Imvakalelo yokuba ihlombe enobuhlobo kulula kakhulu ukuba yoyise ukucaphuka xa unxibelelana notshaba. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye, ubukho bamangqina buza kunceda ukuba bangawa eludakeni kwincoko, ukuze bangazikholelwa. Ke, iyenza ibentembe kwaye ilawule ngononophelo indlela oziphethe ngayo. Ewe, emva kwenye ingxoxo engathandekiyo kunye ne "Stumulus" ezinamaqabane, kunokwenzeka okanye ukutshata kumathambo agungqileyo, okanye ukusebenzela i-conmaes edibeneyo.