NgoJanuwari 31, 2021, umThetho Vera Veroleva ngewayeminyaka engama-65 ubudala. Ubushiyile ubomi bakhe ngo-2017, kwifihla yokugqibela, elwa nesifo esibuhlungu. Umveli, izihlobo, oogxa bakhenkebabukele njengethareriyeli enetalente kunye nomphathi, umfazi osisilumko onomlinganiswa onamandla nowokwexelwana, umakhulu kunye nogogo.
Kwi-24cm-imigaqo yobomi kunye nemigaqo yokholo lokuthetha ngomlomo.
Ulonwabo
Kudliwanondlebe, onike umThetho, eyona migaqo iphambili yokholo ngamazwi, enxulumene nenkcazo yolonwabo, ilandelwa. Ngomlomo, izinto eziphambili zefomula yolonwabo yayingumsebenzi kunye nosapho. Ithuba lokusebenzela ixesha elide lalikwindawo yokuqala, kuba abaphulaphuli uVera Vitalevna wayengumdlali weqonga lokuqala, kwaye wazama ukutshatisa le ngcaciso.Ukuba kukho into engabekwanga usapho okanye umsebenzi, ibhalansi yaphukile, umongo waziva engalunganga kwaye wayesoloko ezama ukusombulula imeko engathandekiyo. Vala ukutsho ukuba i-vera glagolev ihamba, ilibele ngokukhawuleza yonke into embi kwaye ayigxili kumanqaku amabi.
Uthando nomtshato
Ngaphandle komlinganiswa oqinileyo kunye ne-vera guygolev ayifihli loo nto ngamanye amaxesha wayeziva ebuthathaka nengakhuselekanga. Amadoda akhe ayebandezeleka kuye: Ke, wasinda ngoqhawulo-mtshato ngendoda yakhe rodion Nakota, awayehlala naye iminyaka eli-16. Emva kwexesha wanika abafazi: "Musani ukunyibilikisa abantu." Umsebenzi wamnceda ukuba akwazi ukujamelana noxinzelelo emva komdlalo ebomini bakhe.
Emva kwexesha, umbanjwa waxelela ukuba waxolelwa kwaye walibala zonke izithuko kwindoda yokuqala, kuba ukubulela kule nto wadibana neqabane lesibini, uCyril Shwesky, naye wayehlala nentsapho eyonwabileyo.
Ebudlelwaneni namadoda, uthando nomtshato, imigaqo yokholo, imigaqo yokholo Verbawa yayisekwe kwinto yokuba iyimfuneko ukuba inyamezele kwaye inobulumko, ngenxa yabantwana.
"Kubuhlungu xa iintsapho zichithiwe. Awunakho ukufundisa uthando, kodwa zama, kubonakala kum. Izipho kunye nemali azihlawulisi into elahlekileyo, "utshilo udliwanondlebe.Ukwala ukwenza
Kwimeko ethile yobomi, iVera Glagolev yala ukusebenza njengomdlali weqonga. Kudliwanondlebe, watsho ukuba wema njenge. Inikezwe "Imvelaphi" yeendima zoomama nootagogo, izenzo zakhe zenzeka ngabantwana okanye abazukulwana.Wayefuna ukungasuswa ngaphezulu, kodwa ukususa iimuvi. Ummeli wetyala leVera Vitalevna yenzeka ngo-1990 ngomfanekiso omkhulu "wokukhanya okwaphukileyo". Kodwa imbambo yayingabekwalelanga ukuba ihambele irente. Ngo-2005, ifilimu yefilimu "i-odolo" iphume. Emva koko, umsebenzi womlawuli weVerbeva waqhubela phambili, waba ngumbhali wokupeyinta ezininzi kwaye waphumelela iziphumo ezilungileyo. Kubalawuli besihloko esiphambili somlomo-basetyhini, uthando, isizungu, amagqabi abasetyhini.
Kudliwanondlebe kunye nomdlali weqonga, wathi ubandakanyeke kubugcisa "ekuemvakalelo ukondla abaphulaphuli."
"Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kum - amandla amnandi. Konke endikwenzayo - ndibaluleke kakhulu ukuvavanya abantu obathandayo, "watsho uVellava kudliwanondlebe.Abantu abade bathi abadlali kunye noogogo kwiseti babemoyika, njengoko wayefuna: Wayebekwa emsebenzini walinda okufanayo nakwonye.
Ubuhle obuzayo
I-vera glagolev ayizange ihambe ngeeholo zemidlalo, ayizange ithande ukuqina okanye ukuqubha echibini. Nangona kunjalo, ukwazi ukugcina umzobo ngenxa yokukhwela ibhayisekile, imidlalo eshukumayo kumoya omtsha kunye nabazukulwana kunye neeklasi ze-Yoga. Kwisondlo, imigaqo yokholo eVerbelle ebonelelwe ngolawulo lweCalorie, oosaziwayo bebhaka kunye neelekese ekutyeni kwaye zala inyama.
Ngobudala, umbambi womdlali akazange afune ukujonga omncinci, xelisa oontanga abazama ukwandisa ulutsha kwiminyaka evuthiweyo. Akazange abagwebi abafazi abanjalo kwiingxelo zakhe, kodwa bebengazama ukulixelisa.
"Ndiyazi ukuba ndineminyaka emingakanani," utshilo uGlagolev.Umakhulu ongqongqo
I-Vera Gargolevv izalamane kunye nezihlobo kwisondlo. Kuba yena ngokwakhe wahlala etywina kwaye eqinile, (ubunzima bengama-45 kg nge-164 cm ukuphakama), ngoko ke i-orporer yamthanda abantu abancinci. Izalamane ezibizwa ngokuba kukholo lukaVitalevna ngomama ongqongqo, umakhulu, obukele iintombi zakhe kunye nabazukulwana ukuze bangalingani. Walijonga inkcazo eyiyo i-Peedliatirian uBenjamin Spock ukuba "umntwana osempilweni uyazi kakuhle ukuba ingakanani ukutya."
"Ndiqinisekile xa umntwana engakhathalelwanga, uya kukhula, uya kuthi enkosi," utshilo udliwanondlebe.Abantwana be-verbawa abangaphezulu kwe-Verbawa ngaphezulu kwabo beva kuye ibinzana elithi "Dala apho." Wayedla ngokuzama kufutshane nabantu ababathandayo, waphakamisa izwi kwaye wayengumama ongqongqo.
Intombi yokholo uVitalealevna waxelela ukuba umama akazange awenze ukuba babe ngabamangalelwanga ukuze bangatyholwa. Imigaqo yokholo ngomlomo, enxulumene nokukhuliswa kwabantwana, yayibonisa ukuba abantwana bakhule ngezikhokelo zobomi basekunene. I-Glagolev ngokwayo yatsho ukuba ayithandi ukuba nabantwana. Bavuswa ke abazali. Umama wayekufuphi, akadumi ngomsebenzi wakhe ukuze angaqhelanga. "Andizange ndibandezelekile kule nto," yaqatshelwa umxholo. Kodwa utata wokholo wathandwa.
Abazukulwana babantu abadumileyo baxelelwa ukuba umakhulu wakhe unqabile ukuba wadlala nabo kwaye wangqongqo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, i-orporer ifumene ixesha lokuba abazukulwana, ukusela iti kunye nokuzonwabisa. Iintombi zenzwane yomlomo ibizwa ngokuba "ngumakhulu-intombi". Yena ngokwakhe umakhulu olungileyo, ekholelwa ukuba kwisisa kunye nemibandela yokufunda ubusuku babantwana abanabazali.