Amantombazana amaninzi akayazi indlela yokujongana namava kunye noxinzelelo xa ubudlelwane kunye nesiqingatha sesibini singene esiphelweni kwaye ityala lihamba kuqhawulo mtshato. Umbutho uhlala kwi-stereotype into yokuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ulixhoba leemeko kunye nemfesane. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imizekelo emininzi xa emva kokuhlukana nomgangatho onyuliweyo, ummeli welona nqanaba lihle alilahleki, enikezela kwiingcinga ezimbi kunye nemozulu, kwaye efuna imisebenzi eyakhiwe wonwabile kwaye uphumelele.
Kwi-24cm-icebiso leinkwenkwezi zaseRussia nezangaphandle zendlela yokuphila ngayo uqhawulo-mtshato.
1. Yakha umsebenzi
I-Russian Instadiv, iMvume yeTV, imvumi, imvumi kunye nemodeli olga Buzova ikhathaze kakhulu ixesha loqhawulo-mtshato nge-DIMMMOV. Umtshato wabo uthathe iminyaka emi-4, kwaye izizathu zokuphumelela kweqabane elithandanayo zikhetha ukungathethi ekuhleni. Kuphela kolunye lodliwanondlebe lwe-buzova eqatshelwe ngezakhiwo malunga nesakhiwo kunye nonyuliweyo: "Sifanelekile xa sisempilweni."Sinda ngokusilela ebomini bomntu odumileyo kwakunzima kakhulu: ixesha elide akazange aqhubeke neemvakalelo ebantwini, angalingisa ngequbuliso ngexesha elingafanelekanga. Nangona kunjalo, usaziwayo, endaweni yokubandezeleka nemfesane, uthathe isigqibo sokugxila ngeenjongo zabo, basebenza nzima, bethwele ngenkani, ngenkani, bephethe bonke ubunzima kunye nokusilela. Ngenxa yoko, kusafuneka iingalo zakhe, zange banikezele, kwaye ngokuzimeleyo bakha umsebenzi wekhondo lomsebenzi kwaye bafezekise amashishini abonakalisiweyo kwinyaniso xa wayephambi komtshato neTarasov.
Zifumane
Umtshato wase-Andrei Arshavin noJulia Baranovskaya bathabatha iminyaka eli-9, ngeli xesha bavela abantwana abathathu. UJulia akakwazanga kwaye ucebise ukuba ulonwabo olulindelwe ixesha elide luya kuphela ngaxeshanye, xa lonyuliweyo uza kubeka inqaku kubudlelwane babo, ashiye inyanga yesihlanu yokukhulelwa ngo-2013. Ukwahlula kwabo yinto yokuthathela ingqalelo kuwo onke amazwe eendaba. Iqabane elinembaleki yayingafuni ukuthobela ukuthanda kwendoda kwaye iguqukele kwigqwetha, yakufumana okusesikweni kwaye ingqina ukuba yayikulungela ukulwela abantwana kunye nosapho.
U-Baranovskaya wakhathalela umsebenzi kumabonakude, ekhokela iiprojekthi ezininzi. Waqala ukubhala malunga neqhosha elihle, ebiza umama kamama ophumeleleyo, ohamba kakhulu kwaye ebandakanyeka ebantwaneni, akazange ahlukane nebhinqa elihlala kwi-alwinon yomyeni wangaphambili. Kudliwanondlebe, uJulia waxelela ukuba uArshavan akabandakanyeke ebomini babantwana. Nangona kunjalo, ngokutsho kwakhe, enkosi kuye ngobomi obonwabisayo kunye noqhagamshelo lokomoya xa bebendawonye.
I-Baranovskaya iqinisekile: Yonke into eyenziweyo yeyokuqala. Ukuba yayingekuko uqhawulo-mtshato, ngekhe azifumanele, wayengekaphumele kwaye ngekhe enze ngoku ebomini bakhe. Kwixa elidlulileyo, wanelisekile yimeko yomfazi owonwabileyo nonina. Ngoku, izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kunye neemfuno zitshintshile, kwaye emva kokuba ixesha lokudakumba laza kwazisa ukuba ngoku unoxanduva kuye kwaye ngobomi babantwana abathathu.
3. Thatha iintlungu zakho
UJennifer Aniston, emva kwekhefu ne-brad pitt, emva kweminyaka emi-5, ubomi bomtshato onwabileyo bakwazi ukuthatha iintlungu, nokuba baqhubeka nokuphila, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni. Umtshato wabo watshabalalisa i-Angelina jolie, kodwa umsantsa wawungekho kuphela iimvakalelo ezingalunganga. Umdlali oxelwe kamva ukuba ngelo xesha wayenelolo, iingcinga ezilusizi azizange ziphume entloko, kwaye imvakalelo yokuba nengqondo yathatyathwa engqondweni.Nangona kunjalo, ukwazile ukujamelana nayo yonke le nto imbi: Ukuqonda kweza ukuba kwakuyimfuneko ukuphila. Inkqubo yomtshato yayingoxolo, ngaphandle kobubi nentiyo: Amaqabane e-Ex-Marime akwazile ukugcina ubudlelwane obufudumeleyo kunye nobuhlonipha. Kwaye uJennifer ovela kwibhinqa eliyintombazana entle lalimele ukuba liqonde izinto ezibalulekileyo, lafunda ukuba nobunzima kunye nokusilela, ukuqhubeka ngendlela yakhe.
4. Musa ukuvala intliziyo
Emva kwe-ralture nge-Itali Macho, iRafaello Folori Ann Ann Hathalaaway ayivalwanga emadodeni kwaye iqhubeke inzame zokufumana ulonwabo. Umntu osaziwayo waxelela udliwanondlebe kangangokuba yayingeyona nto iphumeleleyo kakhulu ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, intombazana yakwazi ukuqonda: oko akuthethi konke ukuba kulwalamano ngalunye isibini esilindele ukuphela. Ke ngoko, uthando fiasco alusosizathu sokunyuka ngokwakho kunye nokoyika abanye abantu. Kungekudala uAnn wadibana nothando olutsha kwaye wavuma ukuba uziva onwabile.
5. Iiklasi zemidlalo
UAgatha mutz osindayo ukwahlula-hlula emva kweminyaka emi-8 kaPaultal kwaye waxelela abasetyhini kwimeko yoqhawulo mtshato, kweli xesha linzima, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza ubuntu bakhe obutsha. Ukuzibhokoxa komzimba okusebenzayo kwabancedisi kunye neesathelayithi zomfazi ngelo xesha, wabelana ngale mfihlakalo namanye amantombazana.Kananjalo uAgatha wagqiba kwelokuba enze iprojekthi 'yoqhawulo-mtshato', iinkwenkwezi zayo yayiziinkwenkwezi zokubonisa ishishini, osindileyo wahlukana neehafu yesibini. I-suzing ikholelwa ukuba ukudluliselwa kwakhe kuye kwaba luncedo lwengqondo kubaphulaphuli, kuba iqulathe indlela enomdla yomntu xa wayesebomini. Amabali axelelwa emoyeni ancede abo babengenalula kwaye babangela ukuba abantu banqwenele ukuhlala.
6. Iintlanganiso nabahlobo
Iintambo zeMatilda emva koqhawulo-mtshato kunye neqabane lakhe leSergey Shornov, naye wayehlala iminyaka eli-12 ubudala, kudala wala udliwanondlebe malunga nento eyenzekayo emanyanwe. Emva koko, kwincoko kaKenia, uSobchak Matilda wathi kubahlobo abasondeleyo bamnceda ukuba ahlukane noqhawulo-mtshato. Umntu osaziwayo ukholelwa ukuba kuphosakele ukukhathazeka malunga nayo yonke into ngaphakathi, intlungu ibhetele eyahlula-hlula nabahlobo abangayi kuphosa ngomzuzwana onzima, kodwa kuya kuxhasa iLizwi elihle, ukuphazamisa iingcinga ezihle.
UMatilda wathi kwanababhalisi be "Instagram", naye angaqhelekanga kuye, exhasa ixesha elinzima, eshiya amazwi amahle kwimiyalezo kunye nezimvo.
Ngapha koko, umfazi wase-Ex ngo-Shornova uxelelwe ngemithetho yokwahlukana, eyazikhetha ngokwabo kwaye ngubani omncedayo ukuze aphile. I-Matilda iqinisekile ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukunqanda iimvakalelo ezingenayo kunye nokuqhuma, kubalulekile ukugcina imemori yawo onke amaxesha amangalisayo ezenzeka kulwalamano. Ukongeza, kwi-akhawunti yakhe ye-Instagram, umntu ovuthuzayo wacebisa abantu ababhinqileyo "akaze azisole nantoni na nganto."
7. Ukuhamba
Ukujamelana noqhawulo-mtshato, endaweni yokuhamba ugqirha wezengqondo, kuluncedo ukuya kuhambo kunye nokusasaza kancinane - indululo enjalo yanikwa i-Svetlana Sveskeruk. Emva kwekhefu ne-fasorchuk, waya kwiholide kunye nomhlobo kwi-maldives. Kwaye incoko malunga nesi sihloko, abafazi bazama ukuphepha. Usindiso lufanele ukufuna ezinye izinto: Umsebenzi, ezemidlalo, abantwana, ukuhamba-yonke into kuya kusetyenziswa, uSvetlana uyakholelwa.
Ifuna impendulo yombuzo wendlela yokuphila ngayo uqhawulo-mtshato, umntu osaziwayo aluqondanga ukuba akukho nto ingamalungu angaphambili ", ukuhambisa amathambo angaphambili, ngaloo ndlela awela ubomi bakhe. Ukongeza, impazamo izakuzama kwindima yabaguli, gxila kumava, ukhalaza kwaye uhlala ufuna uvelwano phakathi kwabanye. Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba ungxame uye kwelinye icala: Ukubonisa umfazi owomeleleyo ovakalisa ukunciphisa: "Andikwazi. Ndomelele ". Eyona nto iphambili kukuba ungaphulukani nentliziyo kwaye wabelane ngezinto ezimnandi, eqinisekile ukuba uSvetlana.