Biography
Abo bafunda okungenani incwadi enye kaDale Carnegi ayinakuhlala ingakhathalelwanga kwizigqibo ezifumaneka. Umphuhlisi wethiyori yonxibelelwano, ezenza umntu azenzayo, utitshala kunye noSomlomo obalaseleyo bashukunyiswa ukuba kungekuko ukufezekiswa, nangona kunjalo, ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo kunye nabanye.Ubuntwana noLutsha
I-Dale Bloquedridge Carneghey yazalwa ngoNovemba 1888 eMissouri, kwidolophu yaseMaryville. Ifani ye-psychologisty iya kutshintsha kamva kwi-carnegie, ukutsala ithamsanqa kwaye yayiyinto yegama lomsebenzi we-Bhallional Andrew Andrew Iqumrhu le-United States kunye neholo yekhonsathi, eyiyo Igama lePhilantrop.
Emva koko, isithethi esithandwayo siya kubamba uqeqesho lokuqala lweshishini kwinqanaba le-carnegie. Abazali baka-Amanda Elizabeth noJames bagcina ifama, kodwa umvuzo awuzange uzise ifama, kwakufuneka basinge kuyo yonke into, nokuba iimpahla zikaDale zazinomdla kumzalwana wakhe omdala.
Kwiminyaka yesikolo, uKarnegi wayengenabahlobo, wayentshwebile ngenxa yentlungu yosapho, kwaye ngenxa yonxibelelwano olungacwangciswanga, yayingelilo ixesha elaneleyo - akukho mntu urhoxisiweyo kwifama. Isangqa esixubeneyo sancedwa ukuba sityhilwe, apho uDale wabhaliswa khona ukuze angacofiyo yedwa. Kulapho kwavela khona ukuba inkwenkwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo inobuchule kwaye ichaza.
Utata nomama babezibuza ukuba banike abantwana imfundo elungileyo, ngaphandle kobunzima bemali. UDale wangena kwiKholeji yeDidagogical, kodwa akazange alahle imithambo kwizakhono ze-Oratoral. Kungekudala abanye abafundi baqalisa ukuqokelela ukuhlanganisana okukhethekileyo ukumamela iintetho ezimibalabala zomfundi we-carnegie okanye uyayiqonda imbambano evela kubuchule boction.
Ikholeji yombhali wexesha elizayo akazange agqibe - akazange aphumelele kwiimviwo kulwimi lwesiLatin. Kodwa kwakuyimfuneko ukuphila ngento, kwaye i-carnegie ivule iikhosi ezivulekileyo zamafama eNtshona Nebraska kunye neMyali yaseMpuma. Nangona kunjalo, kwaphela kwaqonda ukuba isihloko somfundisi welali asikokuthi sikufuneleke.
UDale wafumana umsebenzi othengisa iimveliso zenyama kunye nenkampani. Umsebenzi wearhente yokurhweba, imfuneko yokukholisa, tshintsha isikhundla, ukufundisisa indlela yokuguqula kwakhona komnxibelelanisi onegalelo kuphela kuphuhliso lobugcisa bokuthetha. Iziphumo apho uCarnegie weza khona, ebaleka ezindlwini zabantu baseMelika ngeempahla, washwankathela kwincwadana yokuqala yecebiso.
Imali enomngxunya, i-carnegie yaphosa urhwebo kwaye yafudukela eNew York phakathi kwengxaki yezoqoqosho. Ihlala apha endlwini yendlu yabafana basetyhini kwaye yafumana intetho abahlali.
Kwakungekho sikhalazo malunga nokusilela kwabaphulaphuli-kwimeko yoxinzelelo, abantu abakhutshelwe kuncedo lwengqondo, bafuna ukufumana ukuzithemba, kwaye umntu ofuna icebiso ngenkonzo okanye onyusa ishishini labo.
Umbutho ongumKristu uphelise ukuncipha, amanye amaziko avile ngomhlohli, kwaye izimemo zaqala ukuza. Ukuba incwadana yokuqala yayiluncedo, ayithengiswanga eOmaha.
Uncwadi kunye ne-Psychology
Ngo-1926, i-carnegie yayinamava okunxibelelana, izinto ezibonakala nezigqibo zazinokwanele incwadi enkulu - "i-oratory kunye nefuthe lempembelelo kumaqabane oshishino." Ngapha koko, izinto ezinqabileyo zenkqubo yazo yokufunda yavumela i-dale ukuba ichithe ilungelo elilodwayo kwaye ngaloo ndlela ufumane umthombo wengeniso engapheliyo.
Kwiminyaka elishumi eyalandelayo kukhokelele utitshala ukuba aqonde ukuba abantu bayazi okuncinci ukuthetha kakuhle, bangathanda ukutshintsha iWatchward Charivel yabanye kunye nokwenza ukuthathwa kwezigqibo. Isiqhamo sengcinga yincwadi ethi "Indlela Yokuwoyisa Abahlobo kunye nokubaphatha njani abantu", nto leyo eyayeyona nto idumileyo yeCarnegie. Impapasho yahlulwa zizigidi zokujikeleza, kunye nenani lomrhumo wekhosi yangoku yenze i-billionaire yombhali.
Kukholelwa ukuba umbono wokuqala yeyona ithembekile. Kumaphepha encwadini dale acebise ukuba kubalulekile ukuba siyithathele kwaye siyichaphazele kwaye siyichaze izigqibo. Umthengisi waseTelyser wathandwa kwaye uCarnedie waza nayo yonke imizekelo efana nobomi, wanika iingcebiso eziluncedo: uncumo, musa ukugxeka, bonisa umdla.
Emva kwempumelelo enje, ukukhutshwa kwencwadi elandelayo bekulindela. "Ungakuyeka njani ukukhathazeka kwaye uqalise ukuphila" okokuqala ukupapashwa e-UK ngo-1948. Kuyo, uDale wabelana ngamava okufumana iindlela zokufumana iindlela kwiimeko zemihla ngemihla-emsebenzini, etoriki, kwivenkile.
Ngolwazi oluthile ludlula ngaphandle komkhondo, kuba abanye banexhala lijika baphelelwe. I-carnegie yanikezela kabuhlungu kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ingakhathazeki ngekamva, phila namhlanje kwaye cinga ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukongeza, umntu uzolile-lo ngumntu oxakekileyo, ulayishwe nokuba yeyiphi na into oyithandayo, umsebenzi, kwaneholide enomdla.
Enye yeendlela 'zokuphila "kukulandela umthetho wamanani amakhulu, olwayitolikisi ye-carnegie ithi amathuba okwenzeka kwesiganeko esiphazamisayo singenangqondo.
Kwincwadi ethi "Indlela yokuBeka Intembelo kwaye ijonge abantu, sithetha esidlangalaleni" Dale esenza ukugxila kwiintetho phambi kwabaphulaphuli. Ngokwe-New York Times, oku kuphantse kube yiBhayibhile ngabo bafuna ukuba bakwazi ukuba nobukrelekrele. Kuphela eMelika, umsebenzi we-carnegie uqinisekisile amakhulu okuphindaphindiweyo. Kwisiqingatha senkulungwane yenkulungwane, incwadana yemigaqo esebenzayo iguqulelwe kwiilwimi ezingama-30 zehlabathi.
Umbhali ubanga ukuzithemba ayisiyo idatha yengyutyana, kodwa umphumo wokuphunyezwa kwemithambo ekhethekileyo, ngakumbi, iintetho zikawonke-wonke, kodwa ngokwemigaqo ethile. Phakathi kwabo - emva kwendima yomntu odlala indima, ukubonakala kakuhle, ubukho bempendulo ecacileyo kumbuzo othi "Ndifuna ukuthini?". Kukwabalulekile ukuba balungiselele intetho, hayi kube kanye ukuba baphinde baqhubeke, bazame ukubukela unxibelelwano emehlweni kwaye banxibelelane nabantu abanesigama esisisityebi.
Ubomi Buqu
Iphepha lobomi bosapho kwi-biography yeDale, ngubani ofunde izigidi zoMntu ophumelele kuzo, hayi uthombo. Ngomfazi wokuqala uLolita Baocker Parnegie wayehlala iminyaka eli-10, uqhawule umtshato emfihlakweni, ukuze angaphembeleli ukuthengisa komthengisi olandelayo.
Ulonwabo lubonakala ngathi lungumbhali kunye nengqondo kumtshato wesibini. Ixabiso leDorothy Vanderpul laya kwi-carnegov le ntetho, funda iincwadi. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, kwavela ukuba ngumfazi ongena kwishishini - ngokweRarhers, ngokwesivumelwano semvumelwano equlethwe emtshatweni wawunesiqingatha se-dale yengeniso. Kwelinye icala, iqabane nje kwaye waguqulela italente yendalo yomyeni wakhe kwizityalo zeshishini. Abantwana ababini bakhule kusapho - intombi epheleleyo ye-donna kunye nomntwana uDorothy kumtshato wokuqala - iRosemary.
UDonna Carnegie ubambe isithuba sikasihlalo weBhole uDale Carnegie kunye neNjongo enc., epapashe incwadi ngegama elitsala umnxeba - "indlela yokudibanisa abahlobo kunye nokubaphembelela abantu. Kumantombazana-abakwishumi elivisayo. " I-Carnegie University ithumele iYunivesithi yaseMelika kunye neFord, Coca-Cola kunye neWW-Mar ukuya kufunda.
Iinkqubo ziquka izihloko ezininzi: Ukubeka isiseko sempumelelo kunye nokoyisa imiqobo, ukuseta iinjongo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamandla enzondelelo, intetho esebenzayo kunye nentengiso yamanye amazwe. Ngo-2006, inani labantu abaphumeleleyo badlula abantu abazizigidi ezisi-7 kumazwe angama-70 ehlabathi.
Ukufa
Ekupheleni kobomi bukaDale, umntu endlwini yakhe eNew York wahlala, ubudlelwane kunye nenkosikazi yakhe bajika baba nguMchasi. I-carnegie yafunyaniswa i-lymphoma hodgkin, enxulunyaniswa nokusilela kweRenan kwaye yabangela ukufa kombhali ngo-1955.
Kukho uluvo lokuba i-carnegie yaziphosa, ayikwazi ukuxhathisa isifo. UDale Carnegie wangcwatywa amangcwaba eBelton Cormeri.
I-Bibliography
- "I-oratory kunye nefuthe kumahlakani eshishini"
- "Ukoyisa njani abahlobo kunye nokubaphembelela abantu"
- "Ungayiyeka njani ixhala kwaye uqalise ukuphila"
- "Ungayikhalisa njani intembelo kwaye ube nefuthe kubantu, esithetha esidlangalaleni"
- "Ungakohlula njani iAlm noxinzelelo"
- "Ungazisebenzisa njani uzitshintshe wena"
- "Ungayifumana njani indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na imeko yokungqubana"