Haramcin dokokin al'umma suna mutunta su ta "tsoho": tsofaffi, rayuwar gida tana haifar da mace ce kawai, miji da barci ta kwana a gado ɗaya. Waɗannan dokoki "sun fito tare da mutane kansu, amma ba duka suna biyayya da su ba. Kawasaki daga ka'idodin da ke haifar da rashin yarda da kewaye.
Me yasa mata da miji ya kamata ya kwana tare? Barci a cikin dakuna daban-daban ba koyaushe yana nuna matsaloli a cikin dangantaka, amma yana da mahimmanci a lura da "karrarawa na farko" kuma a cikin lokaci don adana alaƙar.
Sanadin saurin bacci
Duk mutane sun bambanta: wani a shirye yake ya sadaukar da dare a hannun ƙaunataccen mutumin da yake ƙauna, kuma ta'aziyar wani ya fi tsada. Dangane da binciken ilimin zamantakewar tattalin arziƙi da aka gudanar a Moscow, kashi 70% na ma'aurata masu aure waɗanda ke ciyar da daban, sun bushe saboda snoring.
Wannan rashin kyau ba kawai haifar da haushi a cikin mata na biyu ba, har ma yana sa ciwon kai da rashin tunani. Masana kimiyya sun gano cewa matar ta sake yin ritaya abokin aiki a matsakaita minti 49 na bacci. Mutumin baya faduwa, saboda abin da ranar take cikin tawayar. Rayuwar ma'aurata tana shan wahala. Rabin wadanda suka amsa sun yarda cewa tunanin abokin zama, rage jan hankalin sa.
Wani dalilai na gama gari shine yara. Mama ta fi kama da yaro a cikin agogo a farkon shekarun rayuwa, kuma mahaifinsa ya tashi a wani wani daki, domin mahaifinsa ya cika. Safiya shi yayi aiki. Bayan haka, saboda dabi'ar bacci tare da jaririn, mahaifiyar ba ta bar shi ɗaya ba, saboda haka Uba ya kasance kamar mai rasa. Yana ciyar da dare shi kaɗai, saboda matar ta kasa tsara barcin yara daidai.
Ribobi da rashin amfani da barcin daban
Dare na dare - tushe mai karfi da ƙarfi. Idan wani matattarar bacci daban ke kawo ƙarin fa'idodi fiye da lahani, zai fi kyau a bar yadda yake. Matar da take rataye da dare tana matukar yarda da mijinta kuma ta damu da shi. Ba ya tsoma baki da barci, kuma daren ba shi da alaƙa da "azabtarwa".
Ba ko'ina don fita daga stereotypes waɗanda suka haɓaka akan wannan batun: ƙauna ta fita da abokan "sanyi". Ma'auratan da suke bacci daban, mafi ɓacewa juna. Masana kimiyya a fagen nazarin dangantakar ɗan adam suna jayayya a wannan daren da aka kashe a cikin gadaje daban suna goyan bayan ƙauna da ma'anar ƙauna.
Abin da ya yi aiki a cikin iyali guda zai iya lalata ɗayan. Rage dare cire wasu ma'aurata. Lokacin da suka yanke shawarar yin bacci kuma, rashin jin daɗi ya bayyana. Mutum da sauri yana samun amfani da yanayin kwanciyar hankali. Barci shi kaɗai - hakan na nufin cewa babu iyaye mata daya. Babu wani snoring da jayayya saboda karancin sarari a kan gado. Amma sabili da ƙaunarka kana bukatar sadaukarwa, a cikin martani, zai yi kokarin yin komai don wani abu mai gamsuwar abokin zama na fahimtar abokin zama.
Rarrabe gado da dare, da aka yi da ba tare da ƙaunataccen ta ba, zai shafi dangantaka. Amma mutum yana iko da wace hanya za a sami canje-canje. Idan akwai soyayya da ji da karfi, hakan bai damu da inda miji da barci suke barci ba, ba za su shafi aurensu ba.